Why can t everyone be calm about everything?

Because everyone has something they care about.

Summary. It's another thing to be intentional and sincere.

That should be something that happened between you or his own reasons.

From the beginning, he said that the account he chatted with was a random one he made, and then now I have been with him for a few years and his shopping friend I found that he was a temporary application again, and he was a wither.

He didn't want to tell me all his ** name, did he know him on the Internet?

But he listened to everything I said, yes, he basically took everything I told him to heart.

I think. It's another thing to be intentional and sincere.

What does he mean by being like this now, what is the situation, what kind of situation does he belong to, he knows that I am interesting to him, he is chasing him, he said that he is an ordinary friend, I told him that now the two of us are in a situation** can go back to ordinary friends, he said, so I am conflicted, why am I not willing to tell me the real side, filial piety, am I not credible, everyone is not realistic, what else can I do. There's no way I'm going to go to him, so I'm struggling with what he means now. He also accepts gifts, takeaways, and eats, and he doesn't refuse any gifts, he doesn't like me, he doesn't say he doesn't like it, he doesn't like it, I asked him if he lost everything I sent, and he said no.

So I don't understand why. Slim.

What did such a man ask for?

It's just hanging on you.

It's not sincere. What you mean is that you use me as a spare tire, just to tease me. Didn't answer sincerely, so Qing Qingqing didn't want to reveal his true side to me, right, so why did he ride a horse to find a donkey.

Is there still such a man? To put it bluntly, he can be satisfied with whatever I want, not too much, but, when it comes to the real side of reality, he is more insincere than pointing fingers, and he just wanted to have fun and pass the time with me, right? Is that what it means?

You just haven't had any feelings for me. Meaning.

Right. In my opinion.

It's not important, and it doesn't matter to you.

Okay, thank you for the teacher's enlightenment, others say that women chase men through the veil, and I found that I am separated by a Himalaya. It's thick. Good night teacher.

Learn to let go of everything, because there will be a harvest if you pay...

Relax, don't suffer from gains and losses

If you want to be as calm as water, you must first understand what your mind is. What is water? Let's talk about water first.

Regarding "water", the "Tao Te Ching" clouds: "Good is like water." Water is good for all things without fighting, and it is evil for everyone, so it is more than the Tao. Dwelling in a good place, a good heart, being kind and benevolent, good words and faith, good governance, good work, and good time. The husband is indisputable, so there is no especially. ”

Water has three major advantages, the first is that it can nourish all things; The second is that the nature is weak, with the circle square, with the nature without fighting; The third is self-relegation. Water is weak, can be round, perseverance, humility and humiliation, do their best to contribute their strength to help others, and never compete with others for fame and fortune.

If you don't fight, no one can compete with you! If you don't set up an enemy, you will be invincible!

Speaking of heart, I offer you this passage from Patriarch Dharma's "Theory of Understanding", hoping and blessing you to be happy and at ease.

When there is no delusion, one mind is a Buddha country; When there is delusion, the mind is a hell. Sentient beings create delusions, and they have hearts from their hearts, so they are always in hell. Bodhisattvas observe delusions and do not have a mind with their hearts, so they are always in the Buddha country.

If you don't have a heart with your heart, then your heart will be empty, and your thoughts will return to tranquility, from one Buddha country to one Buddha country. If the heart is born from the heart, then the heart is not quiet, and the thoughts are moving, and the hell goes from hell to hell. If one thought arises, then there are two karmas, good and evil, heaven and hell; If one thought is not attached, there is no good and evil karma, and there is no heaven or hell.

It is the body that is non-existent and non-existent, which is in all and is non-existent in the scattered sacred. The saint has no hands to dig into his heart, so his chest is hollow, and he has the same amount as the sky. ”

Knowing the above two points, it is difficult to be calm in the face of everything!

When your heart is tired, rest and let your heart travel! Tell you softly, calm your mind. Gently exhale a turbid breath into the morning sky, and think about it, today is another good day.

Many times we need to think about it, life without sorrow is not able to feel happy, then the mood is much happier. Show your true nature! A faint feeling, a quiet life, and an understanding of the beauty of the quiet place of life.

Whether the mood is depressed, depressed or troubled, there is an ethereal heart. Look at everything with a relaxed attitude and face it with a peaceful mind, as long as you have a happy heart, don't let the dust of the world blind your eyes. If you are less attached and can't have it, then let go of your hands.

Then there will be a bright future at this time. Tomorrow will still be sunny, there will still be a smile blowing refreshingly, and the unhappiness will flow away. Happiness is a feeling, a mood.

Have a positive attitude, cherish everything around you, and happiness will always accompany you! Beware of being tired, just stop and rest appropriately, so as to show the loveliness of people. More comfort, less anxiety; More happiness, less sorrow.

Forget your worries, sorrows, forget bitterness, frustration, forget yesterday, forget yourself, forget your fragile feelings, whether you think about it or not, The days still pass day by day, happiness is also a day, Unhappy is also a day People have to learn to adjust their mentality You can't control the weather, but you can change your mood to listen**,**is the **teacher of the soul, listen to good songs, listen to relaxed and happy** spirit things, immerse yourself in happiness and forget your troubles, then you will be happy, although you can't be happy every day, But we still need to be optimistic. Looking forward to the days of life in the future, the sun is shining and the scenery is pleasant. May you have happiness and pleasure in this world and be happy every day...

There is a saying in the Buddhist scriptures that "the mind is free of obstacles, there are no obstacles, there is no fear", as long as there is nothing in your heart, there is naturally no fear.

How to face life calmly? If you want to open up everything, nothing in this world is a big deal.

Face the reality bravely and build yourself calmly.