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Hello, your problem lies primarily with yourself. In fact, I used to have the same problems as you. But it is completely correctable through one's own efforts. From your description, you can roughly analyze your personality.
1.You are likely to be a possessive and controlling person.
2.You're probably a quieter and more private person.
3.You are more reserved in front of others, especially strangers, and it is not easy to open up to yourself.
4.Deep down you may lack certain self-confidence, on the one hand, you are afraid of being ignored, and on the other hand, you are not confident enough to deal with others.
5.You have some rebellious mentality, you don't like to join in the fun, and the more everyone pays attention, the more you show that you are not interested. On the one hand, it also shows that you are a more individual and assertive person.
The solution is actually very simple and effective, and I have summarized a few of them myself, I hope they can be useful to you.
1.First of all, you have to realize that many people have similar tendencies to you, including those who you think like to be in a large group, and deep down everyone tends to deal with people they know more and avoid contact with strangers, which is the result of human nature and natural evolution. Because people or animals who are not guarded against unfamiliar things tend to be eliminated in nature.
Removing the psychological sense of distinction, you should realize that everyone is more or less the same.
2.Make yourself positive, don't wait for others to take the initiative to find you before talking, in many cases, people are often waiting for others to pull themselves, why not take the initiative to stand up and pull others, then you will greatly increase your affinity, as well as the degree of dependence of others on you, try to change your social role, try to comfort and care for others instead of always being comforted and cared for by others.
3.Actively participate in various activities, make all kinds of friends, and avoid relying too much on a good friend. Show your strengths in activities or in your relationships with many other people.
Don't always stay in the corner, stand up and reach out generously. Let others notice you first.
5.Regular counselling. Psychological counseling does not mean suggesting to others that you have psychological problems, on the contrary, people who take the initiative to seek psychological counseling are often active, serious, and dare to know themselves, believing that professional psychological counseling will bring you unexpected gains.
Hope mine has been useful, good luck.
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If you care too much about other people's opinions, you must be tired of living. There's nothing wrong with you, what's wrong is that you weren't born into a rich, powerful, powerful family. The way to solve it is to become a rich, powerful, and powerful person.
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The beauty of the world lies in its diversity. Don't pay attention to too many voices, just be the one in your heart! Wishing you a happy day.
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Fool, just live well, life is supposed to be a burden, it's not a big deal. You can face up to other people's opinions or ignore them, don't let yourself be depressed because of others, just be happy, and if other people's opinions are not good, quietly improve yourself. Life is your own, there is no need, you have the opportunity to change yourself.
In another way of thinking, wear wide clothes when you are thin, such as overalls, there are a lot of them, and free shipping is also good, take your time.
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There is no need to worry about these troubles, after all, life is like people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge, they don't understand you don't understand you, because they are not in your living environment, do not understand your life, so the concept of consumption, life philosophy is also different, so you are destined not to be friends, really understand you understand you will become a real friend, as long as you have a clear conscience, do what you should do and do what you want to do. After all, adults live more about themselves, and few people really care about how others live.
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It's not your fault, it's just that you should be confident and don't take what they say to heart. In fact, you also belong to a kind of wisdom and foolishness.
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It's good that there is no absolute fault, but you still have to be yourself and don't care about other people's eyes.
Or you can see a psychiatrist, seeing a psychiatrist doesn't mean you're wrong, just face yourself.
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Your mistake lies in wanting to gain the approval of those around you, and wanting to wronged yourself to fit into their circle.
In fact, if you think about it carefully, a person's life is his own, not a performance for others to see, just be yourself.
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You are not wrong, being yourself is better than anything else, others have not experienced your life and can't point fingers at you, don't feel inferior, there is still a long way to go after working hard and studying, you will become better.
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Prevention and control of abnormal female ear differentiation of maize.
1 Several manifestations of abnormal female panicle differentiation.
1 multi-spike phenomenon: 2Banana stick phenomenon 3 Empty stalk phenomenon 4Poor fruiting.
The phenomenon of multiple ears is mainly caused by fertile soil, sufficient fertilizer and water, and excess nutrients.
The banana ear phenomenon is mainly caused by severe drought during the differentiation and formation period of female ears of maize.
The main reasons for the empty stalk phenomenon are nutrient deficiency, severe drought and shading at the differentiation stage of maize ears and ears.
The main reasons for poor fruit setting are: improper cultivation management, severe drought during tasseling and flowering, insect infestation, rare high temperature or long-term rain. During the period of maize tasseling and flowering, it encountered long-term rainy weather.
The abnormal differentiation of male panicle pollen from female panicle can not be normal with female panicle and the above male panicle is also related to variety. Under the same conditions, some varieties do not appear or have few abnormal phenomena. This indicates that there are differences between different varieties in the biological characteristics of female panicle differentiation.
But the concepts of varieties and seeds are different, and the heterogeneity of varieties is not equal to the heterogeneity of seeds. The occurrence of anomalies, although related to the heterogeneity of varieties, is not a problem of seed quality.
3 Measures to prevent and control the abnormal differentiation of maize ears and ears.
In the differentiation period of female ears of maize and the critical period of water demand, in case of drought, timely watering, drought resistance and cooling, so as to facilitate the normal differentiation of male and female ears of maize.
According to the law of fertilizer demand of corn varieties, grasp the time and amount of topdressing, and avoid excessive application of fast-acting fertilizer at the seedling stage.
When there is a multi-spike phenomenon, keep the upper 1 2 spikes, and delete the lower spikes in time to save nutrients, concentrate the needs of the upper spikes, and increase the yield.
Choose some corn varieties that are more resistant to stress.
According to the characteristics of the climate, grasp the sowing time.
** In China Agricultural Technology Extension Network.
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The vertex formula of the quadratic function y=a(x-t) 2+c
where a, t, and c are constants, and (t, c) are the vertex coordinates of the quadratic function.
The vertex formula can be understood in this way, y=a(x-t) 2+c can be seen as y=ax 2 moving t to the right and c moving upwards. The two functions are the same shape, but have different positions in the coordinate system. The vertex of y=ax 2 is (0,0), and if y=ax 2 is moved to y=a(x-t) 2+c, the vertex will be moved to (t,c).
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Look at it. Solve the abscissa of the fixed point, and then bring the abscissa into y=x+2 to find the ordinate of the vertex.
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x=t is the axis of symmetry.
Bring x=t to y=....
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