A few months after getting married, I started to prepare for what I was going to do

Prepare the wedding stuff and then make a honeymoon plan.

There are a lot of preparations before marriage, first of all, the parents of both sides need to meet and then set the wedding date together, then they need to take wedding photos and get a marriage certificate, and they need to decorate the new house and decorate the wedding house with some festive items, and then they need to find a wedding master of ceremonies and notify relatives and friends, go to the hotel to set a wedding banquet, wrap sugar boxes, etc., and finally make preparations for marriage, you need to send the wedding cards one by one, **notify friends in various places, and tell them that you want to get married. Elders also need to ask for leave in advance, and the wedding customs are different in each place, so it is necessary to arrange according to some specific local customs.

Prepare before you get married. The first is the economic standard. Prepare a certain amount of money to buy things for the wedding.

Be prepared with enough money to meet your needs for marriage. Then there's the psychological preparation. Psychologically, be well prepared to accept two people living together.

After getting married, you have to assume the responsibilities of one family, which is a matter of two families. will face the days of firewood, rice, oil and salt. Be well prepared.

can live a good life for two people.

Then you need to be ready to buy things for the wedding and shoot **. In my wedding photos, it is also some pre-wedding preparation.

1. What is the best age to get married? Divorce rates are highest among young couples who marry during their teenage years. When you reach the age of 30, you know who you are and what you want, and at this time the economic conditions have kept up, and the marriage will be stronger at this time.

But it's not absolutely all-encompassing, it's just true to some extent. One piece of data found that the divorce rate does decline with the age of marriage, but the divorce rate of people who are over 30 and nearly 40 years old is actually higher than that of people who marry in their early 20s.

2. What is the age difference between men and women in marriage, and some analysis of the comprehensive population theory: it is best for a girl to marry a man between the ages of 32 and 45 at the age of 24-25, and why? First, from the analysis of appearance and posture, girls generally age very quickly after the age of 25, because girls menstruate once a month, and adults lose the essence of the girl's body.

Boys are different, boys will develop more slowly than women, and they will not age until after the age of 30, and the rate of aging is slower than that of girls. Second, from the perspective of giving birth to offspring, the health of the babies mainly depends on the health of the mother, the baby is grown up in the mother's body, and whether the baby is smart depends on the father, which is genetics. Young mothers are more likely to ensure the healthy growth of their babies.

There are two stages of the appropriate age for a man to get married, the first time period is between 25 and 30 years old, and the best time is around 26 years old. If you get married during this time, it is normal for boys to be 2 to 6 years older than girls under normal circumstances, and you should consider getting married first before starting a business later. If a man remarries after a successful career, the divorce rate is very high, and he will always worry that the girl marrying him is greedy for his money.

The second time period is between 35 and 40 years old, and the best time is around 35 years old. Boys in this age group should find a girl who is 10-16 years younger than themselves to marry. This kind of marriage of old husbands and young wives will be relatively stable.

At this time, men's temperament is relatively stable, and if they have a certain economic foundation, they will not worry about money.

When do you start preparing to get married? The card is that both parties have an in-depth understanding of each other, and both sides have this idea, and want to form a small family, love each other deeply, and then you can consider getting married and entering the palace of marriage to celebrate the loss, form your own small family, and have a good life for children.

As long as two people are like-minded and supported by the family, two months will be almost, the key is the hotel, relatives and friends, and choose an auspicious day.

1。Determine the wedding venue and wedding hotel.

2。Wedding company (including: officiant, makeup photographer, audio equipment, flowers, venue decoration).

3。Wedding car rental (number of wedding cars, wedding car route and time required)3. Choosing a wedding photo studio (making an appointment, taking photos, selecting films, printing or spray-painting)4. Bride and groom items (wedding dresses, rings).

5。Send invitations and call ** to notify relatives and friends in other places.

6。Reconfirm the principal and witnesses.

7。Timely feedback on the invitation information of relatives and friends.

8。Reconfirm for important relatives and friends.

Many people yearn for married life, because a person will feel very lonely, especially after reaching the marriageable age, the friends around them have gradually entered the marriage hall, looking at their happy and joyful expressions, you are lonely and lonely, and always feel particularly sad and cool. Although modern women are stronger in their hearts, when they face the pressure of aging and social family, they still want to find a companion to accompany them to face the joys, sorrows and sorrows in the future. But we do not approve of marriage without feelings, many women have thought about divorce after getting married, although most people just came up with such an idea and did not really do it, but it can also show that many women are actually not ready to get married before getting married.

So how do you know if you're ready to get married?

1. Look at the relationship between two people.

When many couples get married, they don't think about whether they are in love with the person who will spend their lives with you in the future, but they just feel that they have reached the right age for marriage, and they just happened to meet a suitable person for marriage, and the two parties hit it off and got married. A marriage without an emotional foundation is very scary, because you don't know if your partner will abandon you one day, there is no affection between you, or the relationship is still relatively weak, and when faced with some conflicts, it can easily lead to marriage failure.

Second, look at the personality problems of two people.

Not every pair of lovers who love each other is suitable for living together, some couples are very affectionate, but because of the incompatible personalities can not always go to the step of marriage, that is, forced marriage, will also have a lot of problems and contradictions in marriage, although love is the basis of marriage, but marriage includes not only love, but also a variety of family chores for two people to live together, if two people who do not agree with each other and do not let each other get married, then they may live in dire straits after marriage.

3. Look at the financial situation of two people.

Affection is the foundation of marriage, but it is impossible to pay for the expenses of firewood, rice, oil and salt after marriage. Love can make you not talk about interests, but after marriage, the economy will be something that the husband and wife will face together, after all, you can't be full of drinking the northwest wind. Many newlyweds just don't have conflicts because of the family's financial problems, that is because you are not mentally prepared before marriage, and the two people have not discussed the expenses after marriage.

Fourth, look at the situation of the other party's family.

Many newlyweds are not in a bad relationship, but some people will come up with the idea of divorce because of the other party's family problems. Marriage is a matter of two families, if you do not understand the situation of both families before marriage, then you may face a lot of family conflicts after marriage, loving a person is your own business, but marriage will involve a family, if the two families can not talk about forced marriage, then you will have a very hard time in marriage.

So women don't get married for the sake of getting married, don't get married for some factors, marriage itself is sacred, and if there are too many things mixed in, it may hurt you a lot.

Preparing to get married is Jin's must meet the most suitable person in the nuclear chain in your life, and the two people have a common topic, and can go to the love of the two-way auspicious shed, so that you can live for a longer time, and you can choose to marry him and enter into marriage.

When are you going to get married, and are you ready to get married? If you're not ready to get married, don't get married yet.