Is your current standard of living suitable for having a second child? Can you really afford it?

I don't think it's suitable and can't afford it. Now the additional cost of raising a child is too high, and the pressure is big enough, and it is unbearable to break another salary into several petals! Besides, the child is well educated, a top two, otherwise it will be useless to have several children.

It is not suitable to have a second child, because one of the families of two boys can not say that the daughter-in-law will fight the single, saying that the daughter-in-law has to buy a house and a car in the city to give the bride price, which family will have to be hundreds of 100,000 millions, without this money, the child will be single, so the afternoon eugenics can be happy for a lifetime, the poor want to change poverty, the only way is to have fewer children or no children, don't let your poverty continue to the next generation, so that you live your own hardship, the child also accompanies you to endure hardship, suffer, don't live a bad life yourself, Let your niece accompany you to suffer and suffer, that's not raising children, that's cheating children, creating evil, in our country, raising everything to make money, raising children to lose money, and thankless, so the poor don't give birth, don't let your poverty continue to the next generation, that's not giving birth to children, it's really pitting children, creating evil, so family planning is right, the merit is in the present generation, and the only child is good. ‍‍

Simple and direct: I can't afford to raise it, the additional cost of raising a child is too high now, and the pressure is big enough, and then a salary can not be broken into a few petals.

Giving birth to a second child is an asset of more than 100 million, and an annual salary of one million people can only be born, not that you can't afford it, but you don't have the energy to bring 2, especially the age difference is not big, it is even more terrifying, one is doing homework and one is clamoring for you to play with him, which one do you care? Without hundreds of millions of family funds, you dare to let your wife be a full-time wife? What to eat?

What to drink? What do you take to school, now there are all kinds of training courses, 2 children go to different training courses, you don't have time to rest for a week, my son is now taking classes 3, 5, 6 a week, if you come to another 1, 2, 4, you say you still have time to rest. ‍‍

I definitely can't afford to raise it, I have no money, no time, no energy, and I'm most afraid that when the child grows up, he will suddenly ask, "Why do you still give birth to me since you can't afford it".

My two treasures have just turned 3 months, I personally think that the two children are better, there is a companion in the future, there is something to discuss, very good, there is a car at home, a house, a store, in-laws in their early fifties, the child my mother helped to bring, although now I don't sleep well at night, I am tired enough to take the child all day, but I still feel very happy, two small padded jackets are enough. ‍‍

Generally speaking, the family reserve is three to six times the total monthly household expenses of the family, however, for two-child families, the family reserve is increased to six to twelve times, and because the family reserve needs to be accessed at any time, it is recommended that the family buy currency**, which can not only achieve the purpose of taking and use, but also obtain certain income. ‍‍

Although having a second child does not reduce the quality of life of a family, due to many uncertainties in society, it is still necessary to make long-term planning when having a second child. ‍‍

My husband and I are both salarymen, he used to be a soldier, the treatment is okay, and I also have some salary with the army. He sent it to his family since he was a soldier to make money, I graduated at the age of 21 and worked in the power plant, after we got married, I resigned and taught my husband and children at home, he was responsible for making money to support the family, and he didn't spend a penny on his family when he got married, and now my eldest is eight years old, and the second child is born in a few months, and there is a house (the loan has not been paid off), a car and a garage, and a little savings. We support the elderly on both sides at the same time, I don't feel much pressure in life, busy and happy, I do some small micro business to earn some extracurricular learning fees for children, and the whole family goes out to eat favorite things and watch movies on weekends, there is nothing that can't be raised, mainly depends on whether you like children or not.

Nowadays, people in the society attach great importance to the education of their children, and parents are trying their best to cultivate their children, and this will inevitably lead to various training courses, interest classes, cram schools and even children's future study abroad expenses, and the reserve of children's education funds is a long-term process, so financial planners suggest that parents can make medium and long-term portfolio investments according to their own risk tolerance to obtain better returns.

Now I am raising a child in the dormitory with them, it is really not easy, and it costs a lot of money to eat, drink and lazar.

Energy does not allow, late marriage and late childbearing, there is no time to raise children if you want to make money, and there is no time to make money to raise children......Housing prices are all kinds of high, and wages have not risen for a long time.

Many families have included having a second child in their family plans, should ordinary families have a second child? What do you think about this? Let's talk about this topic together.

1. I think ordinary families can also have a second child.

I believe that most people believe that raising children requires energy and economic conditions, so that children will not lose at the starting line, and will also make children's childhood happier. If there is no one to take care of the child after giving birth, and the family's economic conditions are also very average, then you must be cautious about having a second child. I don't think that some families with better economic conditions will certainly have a second child, and ordinary families can also have a second child, as long as the relationship between family and work is reasonably arranged, and the love of parents is given to the child, the family can be happy.

Second, even an ordinary family can raise excellent children.

All ordinary families, that is, families with average economic conditions, believe that most people are such families, parents have two children, should have a sense of responsibility, not only to work hard, to give children better material conditions, but also to accompany children with high quality, parents should lead by example, teach children the truth of life, and good morals, so that children can become better and better, such children will not be worse than those children in good families.

Third, I think the benefits of having a second child are very many, so that the two children can rely on each other.

Now with the liberalization of the two-child policy, many people have already given birth to a second child, or are preparing to have a second child, because most people feel that a child is too lonely, and when the parents are old, the child is more stressed, and having two children not only allows the child to have a playmate, but also reduces their pressure.

If you want to have a second child, and having a second child can also be a companion for the eldest child, and it can also respond to national policies, which is also a good choice for children.

Whether to give birth or not depends on the family's economic situation, in my opinion, it is better to carefully cultivate a child than to raise multiple births, and now it is different from the previous society, and the cost of children from childhood to adulthood is not small, and all births and non-births are in the family's economic situation.

If the family's financial conditions are not good, it is recommended not to have children for the time being, because having a second child will be a lot of burden. First of all, getting pregnant in October will incur a lot of expenses, such as nutrition fees, examination fees, lost wages, etc. In the last few months, if you can't work, you have to have someone in charge of taking care of your children, which will not only cost a lot of money, but will also reduce one's finances**, which is even worse for families who are not in a good financial situation.

I think it's better for ordinary families not to have a second child, if you can't give your child a better life, it's better not to have children, it will only make your child very inferior and painful.

Generally speaking, ordinary families will not have a second child, because having a second child means a significant increase in the cost of living, whether it is living or studying, it will greatly increase the family's expenses.

I think that in an ordinary family, you can also choose to have a second child, which depends on the parents' intentions and the financial ability of the whole family.

How is the family that gave birth to a second child doing now?

Families with a second child will inevitably increase their financial burden, and it is also a big problem for children's education, but with the growth of children, the family will be more lively and loving. And in order to take better care of their children and families, some mothers will also become housewives because of this.

Mr. Sun has a daughter, and since the two-child policy has been opened, he and his wife have discussed having another child, whether it is a boy or a girl. Of course, they still want a boy, not because they prefer sons over daughters, but because they want both children and daughters. But Mr. Sun's daughter said nothing, Mr. Sun's daughter felt that they would no longer love themselves if they had a second child, and the daughter did not want her parents to share their love for her with others.

In recent years, many people are worried about whether to have a second child, especially ordinary families, who do not have so much energy and not so much money, but still hope to have one more child. Let's take a look at the following four parents' views.

I have been married to my wife for five years and now have a four-year-old son, and my wife and I still want a daughter, because they say that the daughter is the little padded jacket of the parents, but our economic situation is not very good, so we have been hesitating.

My parents also mean that we should only take one son, because the income of the two of us together is only 10,000 yuan, and we have to repay more than 2,000 mortgages every month, and the remaining more than 7,000 tribute family expenses, which can be regarded as barely supporting the family, if we have another daughter, it may really not be enough to spend.

I advise everyone to take into account the economic situation when giving birth to a second child, my monthly income is 8,000, my wife's monthly income is more than 5,000, and we have a mortgage and car loan to repay. Now there are two sons, the eldest is 12 years old, the younger is only five years old, to be honest, we still regret having a second child, because after the second child went to the ground, our living standards have obviously dropped a grade, and the most terrible thing is that in the future, in preparing two houses for them, it is terrifying to think about.

No matter what others say, anyway, I only want this one daughter, let me have a second child, and it is not a rich and noble family, and after giving birth to a child, we can't be equal, how to divide the property in the future, if we only give one party to the other party, we will definitely feel that we are partial. Besides, my in-laws don't help me take care of the child and have another child, do I find abuse myself? I finally sent my daughter to kindergarten, and I didn't want to suffer any more.

We have two sons in our family, I think it's very good, the two children also have a companion, our family's economic conditions are good, my husband and I both have real estate before marriage, the two of us combined, the monthly income is nearly 100,000, raising children is not a problem. I think it's good to have a second child.

Because although the relationship between the husband and wife is not good, they do not plan to divorce, and there is also the hope that having a child can increase the stickiness between the two people, so as to stabilize the relationship between the husband and wife.

Specifically:1. The relationship between the husband and wife is not good, but it has not broken down yet

Many couples have become cold in the future, and even will continue to quarrel and blame each other, but even so, they will still maintain this marital relationship and will not easily file for divorce, so it is normal to have a second child again in this situation, because their husband and wife relationship will continue.

2. The traditional concept of having many children and grandchildren

This is not only between young couples, many elderly people will continue to urge their children to have another one, especially those who prefer sons over daughters, the first child is a daughter's family, the relationship between husband and wife does not affect the efforts of two people to pass on the lineage, so many young people are forced by the pressure of parents or the traditional concept of their own family, will choose to have a second child.

3. Have a second child to increase the other party's sense of responsibility

There is also an attempt to help each other through children, because children can be said to be the deepest bond between husband and wife, the relationship between husband and wife is not good, and one party tries to increase the other's sense of responsibility by having children. From talking about numbers, he can put more energy into the family and achieve the goal of improving the relationship between husband and wife.

Fourth, the first ear of the ear accident

If you have a child unexpectedly, then many people will be reluctant to give birth to the child.

In fact, for this kind of person, the child is not a sweet union under the affection of the couple, but just a child. Therefore, the child does not have to be a good relationship between the husband and wife, and it is not considered whether it is fair to the child.

Text|Wen'er. The family level is average, should I have a second child? This question is no less than whether you are willing to leave 50 million to your children in a hundred years, or are you willing to leave a brother or sister to your children.

When it comes to this kind of topic, I guess everyone has something to say. I've heard a lot of arguments about this issue, and everyone has their own reasons anyway, and no one is far behind.

Family conditions generally do not recommend having a second child, and people's reasons are nothing more than how to raise children if they are poor and white. Now that the cost of living and raising children are so high, why bother to let two children suffer.

If the child is born as a leek, the child himself is unwilling, and then the child will blame the parents for why they gave birth to themselves and let their lives be so difficult. If the family conditions are average, it is good to raise a child well, let one child get out of the original class, and don't pull another child into the water, etc.

And there are many people who support it, and as a staunch supporter of having a second child, I feel that having a second child is the result of subjective will, rather than the influence of objective reality. Because as long as the husband and wife think it through and are willing to have a second child, everything is fine.

The family level is generally only representative of the current state, not the future