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Because rural people attach more importance to the idea that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, in addition to sending congratulatory gifts, each household will send a person to help, washing vegetables, removing dishes, moving tables, putting chairs, serving dishes, serving wine, ......And so on, generally with helpers according to the number of banquet tables, a table with one person. The proprietor only needs to hire a few chefs. The neighbors who help will come in to help from the day before the main banquet and the thank-you wine will not end until the day after the main banquet.
Therefore, the banquet held by rural people is not a happy event for a family, but a happy event for a village, as long as it is a family that goes to help, they can take the whole family to eat and drink every day in the next few days. Nowadays, rural people, like urban people, mostly work in factories or do their own business, get up early and stay late, and only have the opportunity to get together and chat when they have a banquet.
If the rural people hold a banquet in a big hotel, the neighbors will not be able to help, and the banquet in the big hotel will only eat one meal, and there will be no matchmaker's wine, banquet wine and thank-you wine. There is no more festive bustle in the village. So when the banquet is held in the hotel in the countryside, there will be people gossiping behind the scenes:
This family is too stingy!
The custom of rural people who like to hold banquets at home has also given rise to some industries. For example, the chef team of the banquet is composed of many people such as the chef and the assistant chef, and the rural banquet team is also quite busy after entering the autumn and winter, and if you don't make an appointment in advance, you can not be invited. Therefore, as long as rural people have a banquet, the first thing is to invite a chef, and the second thing is to send invitations to relatives and friends.
In the past, the chef just prepared the menu and cooked the food, but now some have to help the owner prepare the ingredients.
Tables, stools, tables, chopsticks rental, banquet tent rental business, in the past, the tables and stools used to be borrowed by neighbors for rural people's banquets, but now there are special banquet tables and stools for rent. In the past, if there were too many tables for rural people, if they couldn't fit in their own homes, they would put them in other people's homes, but now with banquet tents for rent, you can set up several tents on your own road to put wine tables.
Personally, I think that if you hold a banquet at home, it will be more lively, and you can save some money for the banquet. But there will be more relative things, and many things need to be taken care of by yourself.
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Why do some rural people choose to set up banquets at home instead of going to restaurants?
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This situation is mainly based on the following reasons:
2. Setting up a banquet at home can save the cost of the banquet;
3. Set up a banquet at home, which can better highlight the theme atmosphere;
4. Setting up a banquet at home is more conducive to strengthening nostalgia and family affection.
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Generally, rural people like to set up a banquet at home and don't want to go to a hotel, why is this? I think there must be a few reasons for this.
First of all, it has become a tradition for rural people to set up a banquet at home, generally like a wedding to start preparing meals one day in advance, relatives and friends began to come to congratulate the day before the wedding, and like the funeral is generally three or more days to end, so there will be three days of running water, if you go to the hotel is very inconvenient, so rural people like to set up a banquet at home, which is not only convenient, but also easy to greet relatives and friends.
There is also the fact that rural people are more lively when they set up banquets at home, and the venue is also very large, so it will be very lively, and relatives and friends can also chat and pull together to be happy. You can contact and contact feelings, and most of the rural people are relatives who are relatively close, so that a chat can be more or less related to the family, which is very good. The hotel space is also very small, and if there are many people, there is no room for footholding.
In fact, going to the hotel to set up a banquet gives me the feeling that when to start eating, only to the hotel, and after paying the gift money to eat, they left, not lively at all, if you want to be lively in the countryside to set up a banquet, but if you want to save face, like let the wedding be very decent then go to the hotel, in fact, I think that as a rural person, it is better to set up a banquet at home.
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The banquet in the countryside is actually very lively, usually a village or half a village of people are participating together, everyone is more acquainted, familiar, eating the banquet is also a passing scene, not too much emphasis on what atmosphere, in my current experience, the rural banquet will also be in the hotel, the banquet, is also a local custom, the main is the convenience of the countryside, unlike the city banquet, are to go to the restaurant. There are many advantages of having your own banquet in the countryside.
First, in the countryside, every household is very familiar, even if there is no contact, it is also a familiar face, so it's much better than in the city, even if the neighbors can meet every day, they will not say hello, such a situation is common, the advantages of the countryside are like this, the human touch is very good, so if you invite a banquet, if you want to make a dozen tables or even dozens of tables of dishes, your family must not be enough, at this time, The people I know in the village can help each other, there are people who come to help cook, wash vegetables, pass on guests, tables and stools can be borrowed from other people's homes, and then like their own homes, they are also busy, all kinds of invitations, red envelopes are prepared, but compared to in the city, it is much more convenient, and everyone is a kind of voluntary to help other families, of course, the family of the guest will not be disadvantaged, a few red envelopes, a few packs of cigarettes will also be given, so, In the countryside, the banquet is very good, not to go to the hotel, and disdain to go to the hotel, the countryside is now every household is a small villa, much better than the city, who wants to go to that kind of small hotel, their own home is much bigger than the hotel.
Second, the cost is less, the cost here is to invite their own banquet, if you get it yourself, the money is very little, if you have bread in the hotel, a table of better ones will be more than a thousand, a table of dishes, you can ask for so much money, if you cook your own food, go to the vegetable market to buy vegetables, come back to cook, it is very simple, originally everyone is to help each other cook, the cost is much less, there is no excessive spending, this is also a good means to save money. Moreover, it is enough to eat, each table of dishes are very sufficient, not like in the hotel, a little bit, if you eat yourself, forget it, each table of the guest to eat is so few dishes, it is really not interesting, so it is better to do your own banquet.
In fact, the above two points are the reasons why people in the countryside like to hold their own banquets, and they have this strength and venue at home, which is much better than in the city.
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As an authentic rural person, I must have eaten a lot of different banquets, and the place is commonly known as "gnawing on the big table", why do you say so. I remember when I was a child, every house (now it should be called the living room) will be placed in a few tables and a table of eight immortals, this table of eight immortals is not very useful in ordinary times, every time the village sets up a banquet is that they will be gathered together as a banquet table, at that time to eat a banquet is very rare, because you can eat how delicious it is, so whenever the villagers go to the banquet will say "go to gnaw the big table" humor also expressed their inner joy.
In contrast, although the banquet in the hotel is rich and beautiful, I think, it lacks a lot of human touch. Therefore, I think that rural people like to set up banquets, which is a simple cultural continuation, the society is changing, and the original intention remains the same!
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Nowadays, it is particularly popular in rural areas to set up banquets, and marriage is a major event, so it is necessary to set up banquets; In addition, there is a wine banquet for the elderly's dozens of birthdays, maybe he just helped his father hold his 60th birthday last year, but this year his mother is 60 again, so he continues to hold a 60th birthday; In recent years, it has become more popular to go to school banquets, no matter which school they are admitted to, parents will also help their children hold a college entrance banquet! There are so many banquets in rural areas, although it is particularly troublesome to call many relatives to help every time they make a drink, but despite this, many people will still choose to set up a banquet at home instead of choosing to go to the hotel, mainly for the following three reasons:
1. It is more affordable to set up a banquet at home, and it will not cause waste. It is still quite affordable to hold a banquet at home, because you will raise some poultry at home, pork and beef, which sometimes do not need to be bought by yourself, and if you buy them, they are also with the people in the village, so they are cheaper, and even many vegetables are grown in your own home, so you can save a lot of money. And in the hotel will only eat a meal, after eating those dishes that have not been eaten will be wasted, few people in the hotel are willing to pack, if it is in their own home, there are many people who pack, and at home the dishes that have not been eaten can also be put in the refrigerator, and you can eat after freezing.
2. It is more lively to set up a banquet at home. In the countryside, there is usually only one main meal, but the leaders and relatives who are close to you will come to help the day before, and then assign everyone's work to prepare the recipe for the main meal tomorrow the day in advance. And there is another day after the main banquet is to clean up the dishes together and then eat together, so there are three days before and after, and the house is more lively!
The banquet must be lively, so they will choose to be at home, and there are many people who get together because of this banquet, but if it is in a hotel, there may be a lot of people who send gifts instead of being there in person, so it will not be lively.
3. It is also more face-saving to set up a banquet at home. Although the hotel is very luxurious, maybe the sanitary environment is better. But setting up a banquet at home still seems to be more face-saving.
Because it takes more time and energy to hold a banquet at home, if you set up a banquet at home, others will think that you are really attentive and attach great importance to it! But if you are in a hotel, others may say that you just want to run a drink to get money, but not really want to hold a banquet, and they will think that you don't pay enough attention. And setting up a banquet at home is also in line with most people's tastes, if you go to the hotel, after eating, some people may complain that it is not delicious, and the amount is not enough!
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The reason is simple, one is cheap, and the other is affordable. In our village, there are almost no people who have a banquet and choose to go to the hotel. People who were really born in the countryside would not ask such strange questions, because even if they are rich, they will not be able to find a hotel.
To put it more exaggeratedly, we don't have a hotel there, at most a few small restaurants.
A large part of the reason why we choose to set up our own banquets in rural areas is because the countryside is vast and sparsely populated, and there will be a large open space at the entrance of each household, so they have their own banquet venues. People in big cities will choose to go to hotels because they live in commercial houses, and even if they want to set up their own banquets, there is no place!
And when we set up a banquet there, we will invite the chef to come over, so you don't need to cook it yourself! When the chef comes, he will bring a bench with him, and if you still want to make it convenient, he will help you buy the ingredients. All you need to do is set the table and collect the bills.
And in recent years, disposable dishes and chopsticks are very popular, in our side of the banquet, the general use of things are disposable, no one will worry about how tired it is to wash dishes and brush chopsticks.
In a hotel, you spend enough money, but you can't buy the ingredients you need. People in the countryside are more realistic, if you set up a banquet and he comes to your house for dinner, and he spends money but doesn't get anything to eat, he will talk nonsense behind his back. Wouldn't it be embarrassing for the neighbors to live together in the future!
It is also safe to run a banquet at home, because the things are really in front of you, and you can clearly know whether the chef has added certain ingredients. Our people there have to do everything for a good price, and no one wants to do a bad deal. And it is also very convenient for neighbors to come to the house to hold a banquet at home, most of the people in the village are elderly, and it is really inconvenient for them to go to the restaurant.
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The customs of the two places are different, and the rural area is relatively large, and there is no such big place to hold a banquet in the city. There is a big difference between a banquet in the city and a banquet in the countryside. The banquet in the city pays attention to the overall feeling, from the dishes to the tables and chairs for the guests, it must be the best.
SecondIt costs a lot of money to set up a banquet at home, which may be a lot of money for friends in the countryside, and not everyone can afford it. However, it is much cheaper to hold it at home, because if you hold a banquet at home, the chef usually asks someone from the same village. Generally, ** will not be too high, and if the relationship is good, there may not be any money from you.
And you can buy whatever you want at home, you can buy as many dishes as you want, unlike hotels that will set a minimum consumption and limit dishes for you.
Therefore, the customs of the two places are different, because in the countryside, the homes of rural friends are relatively close to each other, either in one village or in a neighboring villageHowever, if everyone wants to go to the hotel, they have to go to the city and the county, and it will take a lot of time and money to pass, because the distance between the county and the countryside is still a large one. Therefore, for most rural friends, it is very inconvenient and troublesome to go to a hotel in the county to hold a banquet。The above is the reason why rural people like to hold banquets outdoors.
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