Everyone helps, my boyfriend s family suddenly wants to break us up

After listening to what you said, I feel that you are a very good person, and you are doing it right, and your boyfriend is also good, and your approach is also very right Love marriage is a matter of two people, although it is also related to the families of both parties, but the protagonists are the two of you after all. I think that since your girlfriend's family has done that, you don't need to ask what is the reason for separating you, because even if you know the reason, you can't meet their requirements, because it feels like they are not because of that, what you don't treat his mother like his mother (why, you don't need to be like that to him, after all, you are not familiar with him at all, even if you are familiar, your mother is a mother after all, and it is always different from your mother-in-law. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that I don't honor my mother-in-law, my mother-in-law is good or not, and whoever is a daughter-in-law must be filial piety, but it's just that it's different from my mother).

As long as you love each other, no one can separate you. I support you and hope that you will overcome these obstacles, and in the meantime, you must not have any more internal conflicts, otherwise it will be more difficult to deal with. I wish you all happiness!!

In this materialistic era, it is difficult to insist on a love, it is even more difficult to insist on a long-distance relationship, and it has to be said that it is a miracle to insist on a long-term long-distance relationship, but love is love, marriage is different, it is a matter of two families, beyond family interference, to complete the marriage, I think it is not realistic. It's better to talk to your boyfriend and find out what he really thinks at home. Don't be afraid if there is a problem, and solve it reasonably.

1. When a matter encounters a temporary impasse, don't force a breakthrough, but need to temporarily cold it for a period of time, leaving each other a space to think.

2. There is disharmony between people, mostly due to information asymmetry, that is, the lack of communication between each other. What you're trying to do is: get to know each other in the right way, when and where.

3. Enhance your personal charm of self-reliance, self-confidence, self-improvement, thoughtfulness, maturity, etc. Think twice before you do anything, and don't do things that are impulsive.

If you love him, stick to it! If others can't give a reason, it is equivalent to having no reason, and now it is not a feudal society, let go and love.

Why are you so tired! Since the family doesn't agree, hurry up and divide it, otherwise life after marriage will not be good! Now your boyfriend is just an impulse, love has a shelf life, after getting married, if you treat him a little badly, he will think, I paid so much for you at that time, it's time for you to repay well, don't be stupid, there are many men in the world.

Love is a matter of two people, but marriage involves two families.

If you can, you still have to stick to love.

There is no support from men. Women will eventually collapse.

The old man is rigid. After all, it came from that era.

You can go to your husband's sister to persuade his mother. Why doesn't his mother like you, I still don't understand?

However, I believe that with your sincerity. Sooner or later, it will move them, and perseverance is victory!

It's the same as the relationship that your friends met.,I think the most important thing is to look at the two of you.,As long as your boyfriend really wants to live a good life in the future.,The two of you have to work together.,You study well first.,Then the job will be stable and then talk about something else.。。 Really, maybe their family will see that you will work well in the future, and there is no reason not to accept you.,The main premise is that your boyfriend also wants to be together forever in the future.,Work together at that time.。。 If he doesn't even have this bit of faith, it means that he doesn't really love you.

No matter what, as long as you have happiness and feel that it is worth it, you must stick to it, because once you lose it, you can never get it back. But if it really doesn't work, it means that he is not worthy of your life, and there will be a lot of outstanding boys in the future, don't be depressed. Anyway, come on...

The key is to look at your boyfriend, his attitude is everything.

Have him with you to get the consent of the family and patiently convince your family.

Even if you are a little hard and tired right now, there will always be a bright day!

But if he doesn't have the determination to win, and he can't help but give up you as a balancing act price, you have to think about it.

Even if you're struggling, you may feel no more than exhausted when you finally come together!!

So take a good look with your boyfriend thoroughly, and then, make a decision right away.

You know, after all, love is sweet ---

Good luck!!

Look at what your boyfriend means.

He said he's going to give up on you?

If he did.

There's no need for you to hold on any longer.

Because if he loves you as much as you love him.

Then he wouldn't have said such things.

Your boyfriend's home is a big problem.

Think about it if you were really together.

Can such an old woman be good to you.

She's going to say that kind of thing right now, with you without her.

I won't have to do anything to break you up in the future.

As long as his family does not agree.

You can't be together.

I know you're in pain right now.

But think about it later.

Don't let yourself get hurt more and more.

You both love each other so much Once you are separated, no one can guarantee what will happen in the future Can you guarantee that you will not change your mind?

He is even less likely to guarantee that he will not change his mind

Well, this question is very difficult to answer, I think love and reality are two different things, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also a difficult problem to get along, if it really comes to the point where you have to choose, I think your boyfriend will choose his parents' opinions even if he is embarrassed, no matter what, if the conditions for being together are not agreed, then let's separate.

If you are reluctant, then discuss with your boyfriend to separate for a while, let you both think about the problem calmly, if you have the opportunity, you can also have a good conversation with his family, but generally most of these situations are in vain, in general, unless you and his family misunderstanding is resolved, otherwise you will not be happy between you.

Reality is reality, and we must learn to see the existence of real problems.

Don't, he should still like you very much, he may have encountered a lot of trouble, don't give up!!

If it weren't for another woman.

It's that there are other women before I talk to you.

Play with your feelings

Die and get on with your life. Without your love, he is nothing.

Don't have any illusions and prepare for the worst!

It could be that he did something sorry for you. I don't think I have the face to see you.

Keep waiting, making a decision.

Got along with other women.

I don't know much because you don't know what's going on inside

Go with sincerity, and everything will be fine.

Going to see your parents or what?? I recently broke up because of the relationship between my boyfriend's parents, and I was sad, so I suggested that both parents agree to meet each other's parents, if you don't approve of it, don't go, after all, falling in love is a matter of two people, don't be affected by them, I wish you happiness or go......

Acknowledging mistakes and correcting them is the best way to do it.

If you should go back, you will admit your mistake if you know that you are wrong, can the family still hold grudges.

Your height, your appearance, your background, I need to understand the contradictions.

If you really break up with your boyfriend, go to court and sue her mother.

If you really love him, you will try to make it back. Many times, two people need a run-in period when they get along. We all have different ideas, and we can easily lead to this outcome if we are stubborn.

Talk to him, tell him what you want to say and your determination, and make one last redemption, if it really doesn't work, it can only mean that he doesn't love you very much, then let time dilute everything. You who are trapped in love will now feel that you have to him, and you can't do without him. Actually, in reality, time can really dilute these persistent loves.

It's a pity, let's fight for your own happiness.

I'll send you a word, which I only learned after I fell out of love; Those who want to leave can't stay, and those who want to leave can't be stopped.

If he doesn't love you, how can he be in vain, does he love you?

What the hell do you think, you don't know

Well, the one on the second floor is right!

It's all about stepping on it, and you'll know 、、、

Heh、、、

Maybe there are many choices, or there are not enough funds to get married now. Or if you have an ideal, you can't realize it after getting married, just ask if you don't know, and spit out the truth after drinking.

There should be unspeakable hardships Try to ask him But I will love her very much Maybe this man has some kind of marriage phobia or something like that, or it's like what is written in **.

You still call her, in fact, it's yourself! Congratulations, you have the potential to be a junior and he just likes your body temporarily.

has a family, is very rich, and is rich in the second generation, just to support a lover

Now men like to play and don't want to get married.

There are many reasons for this problem of not wanting to get married, and you need to find out what the problem is

I am a man, in my eyes, the status of my mother and my future wife are the same, and it is immature to be a person who has to be compared.

About 10,000 is not a big problem for a man, he can promise you at first, and he later changed his mind, and after talking to his mother, it is clear that he followed a suggestion from his mother and does not want you to be the one who will change hard for the conditions.

You also give him a little confidence, such a little money, as long as a little effort, you can do it, the person who knows his heart best is you, more than 30 square meters of people belong to. Let's be honest: the poorer. So they have stronger self-esteem.

I don't want to be hurt, changing homes is not a problem, the question is whether it will hurt the other person.

Decent, parents of our generation will use this as a threshold to limit the happiness of their children, you love him very much to communicate and understand his thoughts, I believe that you can solve it yourself, communicate with him more, understand his thoughts, he has self-esteem, it may be difficult to speak, you have to slowly understand.

I'm in the same situation as you, but we don't end up the same.

My boyfriend and I are also a one-bedroom house, planning to get married at the end of next year, my boyfriend and your boyfriend are different in that my boyfriend's family is rural, and there are very few things that can be given to him at home, even the current house is also bought by my boyfriend himself, and the loan has not been repaid yet.

2-3 months ago, my mother once said, your house is too small, do you want to change to a bigger house, so I tentatively complained in front of him that the house is a bit small, and then he said, then let's buy a big house, and the two of us started to read the real estate newspaper. But now the house price is not cheap, it looks very expensive, although I want to change the house, but I also feel sorry for my boyfriend, after all, his family does not give him anything, all the expenses he bears by himself, I said, or live first, don't buy, and wait for the money to be more abundant in the future, he stopped doing it again, afraid of wronging me, this time I have to buy... He also hesitantly tested me before to see if he could not buy it first).

The attitude of our family is that if there is really little money, my parents will help take it, because they feel very sorry for him, a child from the countryside, can do such a thing now, it is really admirable.

Therefore, your attitude and so on, the way of expression made his family disgusted, thinking that you want to get married and want a big house, and your boyfriend's parents must have said a lot about you in his headphones, and your boyfriend is a filial person.

Your boyfriend still loves you in his heart, otherwise he wouldn't have secretly looked at the house price with you and so on, it would not be perfunctory, but after all, it was not your boyfriend himself who took the money, and he couldn't help it. You may be able to learn from my method, and also think about their family, whether it is sincere or false, in short, you have to live in words, after all, the other party is dissatisfied with you now, even if you get married in the future, I am afraid there will be a gap.

Actually, buying a house is not in a hurry now, when you get married and have children, that house must not be able to live, even if you don't say you want to buy, the other party may have to think about changing the house, after all, it takes 10,000 yuan to change the house, and it's not a big amount, right?

It's really hard to do, your boyfriend is not very good. Think about it.

A woman can't be in a hurry about getting married, she will be passive when she is in a hurry, it is recommended that you don't mention anything about marriage now, contact him less, and look at his attitude.

But if you think you can't live without him, then you will marry him.

It's a small house, and I hope that your man will stand on your side, and if he doesn't stand on your side, I guess he will listen to his mother after getting married

That's what your man said? True... I wouldn't say that to my beloved girl. I have some doubts about whether he loves you or not. See for yourself.

This friend, in fact, since you are already talking about marriage with your boyfriend, it means that your relationship is so good, may I ask if your boyfriend's family conditions are good? If they have a good family condition, you can still talk to him, tell him the pressure on your body, etc., if he really loves you, needless to say, he will definitely make the wisest choice immediately, if his family conditions are not good, then you can also be considerate and considerate of him, and after you get married, you can make money together to buy, I hope my answer can help you!