If you don t fit, you must not be together?

I don't know what the basis of your relationship is, to be honest, "we are not suitable" is one of the most popular reasons for scorers, if you have to say that it is not suitable there, if you can't say it, it is just an excuse to break up, why explain it in so much detail? It's like a fine brushstroke, so why bother with too much oil paint? As for what you asked, can't we be together if it's not suitable?

Tell you for sure, yes! It's a tragedy for two inappropriate people to be together, no matter where they don't fit, it's the same, and they can't be forced. What's more, I think you have your own problems, boyfriend, not a person as you said - responsibility, maybe it's just a title, remember, you are coming together because of love, she is not your responsibility, you are not her obligation, love is a consensual thing, you go to see him, not because you are her boyfriend, you have the "responsibility" to see her, isn't it that you yourself want to go to his side, see him, accompany her?

Why do you take this out and say it as if it were a bargaining chip? That's what you should do for him, for yourself, for your own good, right? Since she wants a week, then you give him a week, don't disturb him, and at the same time, don't leave your feelings to him alone to think and decide, you can also imagine what you should do, right?

It's a strange world where sometimes you love each other but can't get together, and sometimes you don't love each other but you have to be together. I don't know what kind of person you belong to, but in short, a few words of warning to you. Have you ever heard of Wang Xiaobo's dialectics?

In this world, the more you want something, the more you have nothing, and if you really want something, don't think about it. You want to solve the problem so much that in the end, both of you are stressed and troubled, even if you don't know what she's thinking right now. Whether it's a man or a woman, it's the man who takes it and puts it down.

Believe me, if she still loves you, don't worry, when a woman doesn't work in the test at first sight, she will at least change her approach; If you really don't love it, this kind of relationship is retained, and it's too unfair to you. It's better to let it go first, everyone had better calm down first, give yourself a chance to take a serious look at this relationship, and give her a chance to miss you. When she finally figured it out, it was better for you, and she would naturally come back.

ps.The two people are separated by two places, and there are many unknowns in themselves. Before taking this risk, you should at least be prepared.

Sometimes the incompatibility will be like yin and yang clashes, and sometimes they complement each other.

How can you look the same as my girlfriend, don't say anything, you know that you love face, like you and say you don't like it, I know let you guess, guess that you love her and understand that she can't guess that you don't love her, you just go and ask her yourself, don't ask twice, keep asking until you say, find out the crux of your problem, don't you change it?

If you don't fight hard, you will never fit.

You have to be nice to her during the week, so good that you have to be nice to anyone, so that she can understand how much you love her, and she may be touched by you!

Love doesn't mean you just have to go to see her every week! Use your brains! You should know a word called romance!

She didn't know it, she just said it tactfully.

When I wanted to leave, I found a lot of excuses, but they were all excuses.

LZ wants to open up. The beginning may come to an end.

Pull yourself together. It's not worth it if you fall into it.

譮囿 better.

In love life, incompatibility is actually the norm, because everyone's personality, conditions, and three views are different, so it is impossible for two people to be completely suitable together, and they insist on being together because they like each other. If a person looks for a partner with an attitude of "must be suitable", it is basically impossible to find, otherwise why does everyone say that the relationship needs to be "run-in"? It's because there is no love in the world that doesn't need to be run-in

First of all, some couples will have conflicts and quarrels because of various things together, and some are even serious enough to fight or have moral problems, but two people finally choose to be together, this situation is often said to be "Zhou Yu beats Huang Gai", although this is not a correct value, but feelings and life are personal, no matter what choices others make, they are "like people drinking water and knowing themselves".

Secondly, let's talk about the word "suitable", we can see ourselves as a puzzle, a lot of chicken soup for the soul tells everyone to find a puzzle that exactly matches themselves, if you can really find it, then congratulations on meeting the person you are destined to do, but if you don't meet it, don't be discouraged, because this is the norm.

Our various qualities, personalities, and three views are not completely correct, so we don't need to stubbornly insist, correct our own incorrectness, and correct the other party's incorrectness in time.

In the end, most people actually know that it is impossible for them to find a suitable other half without changing themselves, so everyone is holding the attitude of making two people better, slowly growing up with each other in contradictions and quarrels, and getting closer and closer, this is what a good relationship should look like, rather than getting along with the mentality of "seeking common ground without reserving differences".

It may be because of companionship, two people have had a lot of good experiences, they can accept that they don't like each other, and it may be that they have put in too much energy and feel that it is not cost-effective to separate.

Because you believe that you will break all prejudices and come together in the end, you are together without hesitation.

Because of the luck mentality, I feel that I can overcome all the difficulties by relying on my own persistence, but in fact it is really difficult to overcome.

If couples regard marriage as the end of their relationship, then the result of this is that couples will often wronged themselves, and even if two people are not suitable, they will barely maintain their relationship with each other.

Just like some couples don't get along well, whether it is a big difference in living habits or hobbies, such two people are not happy during their relationship.

However, because couples regard marriage as the end of their relationship, they will ignore the differences between two people in many cases, and will let the two people continue to walk, which is very detrimental to the relationship between two people.

Therefore, in the process of falling in love, couples must pay attention to the development of a relationship between each other, and the two people must judge whether the other party is suitable for them, and then continue to feel for each other.

If two couples find that each other's problems are very serious, and the two people are unhappy together, in such a situation, both people should decisively solve the relationship between each other.

If a couple finds that the relationship between each other is not good, two people will not be able to have a happy life together, or two people will not be able to have a happy marriage after getting married.

In such a situation, it may not be a bad thing for the couple to choose to separate, so as to avoid the unhappiness of the two people after marriage, or even to avoid the divorce after the marriage of the two people.

As the saying goes, long pain is better than short pain, for two couples, in the stage of falling in love, if two people find that it is not suitable to break up at this time, it will not cause very serious consequences.

Therefore, for most couples who are not suitable, "breaking up" is the best outcome, and both people can be freed to pursue each other's true happiness, rather than having the wrong marriage.

In fact, if a couple finds that there are three states between each other, then it means that there are some problems in the relationship between the two people, and the couple should not rush into the marriage at this time, which is responsible for themselves.

My personal point of view is that if two people get along for a period of time, they find that all aspects are not very suitable, then there is no need to be together again, if you insist on being together, then there will definitely be a lot of contradictions in the later stage, and in the end you can't even be friends, so when you find that two people are not very suitable, it is best to choose to separate as soon as possible, so that two people may become ordinary friends in the later stage, and can meet your favorite person again in the right time period, Therefore, in the process of dating, we must constantly ask our hearts whether two people are suitable.

If you feel that two people are particularly inappropriate, then I don't think there is any need to be together, especially for some young people nowadays, there is a good time to choose the right person, why should you be with someone who is not suitable? But if it's for some friends who are married, especially some older friends, I don't think it's enough to talk about it, after all, two people have been together for so many years, even if they don't feel suitable now, they have to live on with it.

As long as there is this thought, there is no need to be together.