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It's just that children need the guidance of their parents to read, but they can't use a commanding tone to ask him how to behave, which is counterproductive. Interesting guidance is good Oh There are also tricks to choosing books, choose some books that he is interested in, and make books that are colorful pictures, and children will be more attracted to things with colors. And don't limit what kind of books he can only read, in fact, many books are actually helpful to children, some parents think that cartoons affect children, but on the contrary, thinking about cartoons, there are also some truths that make him understand.
I taught him indirectly, so why not do it?
Also, you tell him in a special way that his questions can be understood through books, a boy likes cars and airplanes, you can help him find some interesting books about cars and airplanes, maybe when he goes to junior high school and high school, it will be helpful for his physics and the like A girl likes beautiful clothes Cute Doll You can help her find some books about clothing, and it's not bad to cultivate her interest Some children also like books like the Four Books and the Five Classics and the Art of War Anyway, it's not that they don't like to read. It's just that they haven't discovered the truth that there is only a ** house in the book, guide it Don't just say that if you read the book and get good grades, they will be disgusted, and they will read it every day at school, and then reading it will be the opposite. (Hee-hee.......)Hope it helps
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How to teach children to learn is as follows:
Make a reasonable study plan.
Help your child set a goal and work with him to make a study plan. Supervise your child's study plan. In the process of implementing the plan, timely discover the child's progress and give praise. When your child encounters difficulties, encourage him to overcome them and give appropriate help if necessary.
Necessary pre-class preparation.
Basic requirements: read the textbook carefully, understand the content of the textbook, think about the key points of the content, find the learning difficulties, and be prepared to listen to the lectures. In the process of carefully reading the materials, if there are words that the child does not know or do not understand, he must check the reference book and strive to learn it by himself.
Write out what you don't understand with a pencil and prepare to listen to the teacher's explanation in class.
Listen to a 45-minute lesson.
It is necessary to tell children to remember the key points and difficult points clearly, to memorize the basic knowledge, definitions, and theorems, and to master the steps and methods of solving example problems. Children do not listen carefully, there are generally three reasons: not understanding at all, poor self-control, and lack of interest in learning, and parents should solve the reasons for this.
Parents can ask the classroom teacher to give their child the opportunity to perform and receive positive evaluation in the classroom. You can also tell your child that even if you are asked to ask questions in class, you can also try to answer the teacher's questions in your mind or practice them in your notebook, and when the teacher evaluates other students, you can evaluate how well you are doing, affirm your strengths, find your shortcomings, and motivate yourself.
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Here's how to teach your child to learn:
1. Communicate more with your children.
Communication between parents and children is not only a simple conversation, but also a bridge to understand each other's situation, and it is also a channel for emotional communication with each other. When conducting family education, parents must communicate more with their children, and when their children are successful, they can communicate with them about their successful experiences; When your child is in a bad mood, you can communicate with him how to adjust his mentality.
When your child encounters setbacks, you can communicate with him about how to face difficulties, etc. Through communication with their children, parents can understand the true thoughts of their children on the one hand, and enhance their feelings with their children on the other hand.
2. Activities with children.
In life, parents have many opportunities to do activities with their children, such as: shopping together, traveling together, going to the movies together, playing games together, going to the playground together, etc. As a parent, you must cherish the opportunity to spend time with your child, because not only will the relationship between you and your child be enhanced, but these activities will also be the best memories for you and your child.
Parents must not be stingy with praise and encouragement for their children. When a child achieves a success, parents should praise them in a timely manner, which can be verbal or material, and parental praise can increase the child's self-confidence. In addition, when the child is doing something challenging, parents should continue to encourage him, encourage him to dare to overcome difficulties, and the encouragement of parents will help the development of children's independent character.
4. Dare to apologize to your child.
When parents get along with their children, it is inevitable that they will do some wrong things for some reasons, and parents must dare to apologize to their children when they make mistakes, and apologizing to their children is an art. Apologizing to the child not only reflects the parents' respect for the child, but also sets a good example for the child, so that the child can understand the mistake and correct it.
5. Learn to be tolerant.
Since children are young and ignorant, it is normal for them to make mistakes. When a child makes a mistake, parents should not immediately criticize and blame, but should show them why they are wrong and how to do it right. In addition, the tolerance of parents can make the child feel guilty to a certain extent, and he will know what to do when he is faced with the same thing next time.
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Children are bored with reading, and we should encourage them to devote themselves to reading, so what should we do if children are bored with school? This parent suggests that you use the following 3 aspects to guide children who don't like to read:
1. Combination of work and rest: In the case of tired children, it is best not to let children read, but let children relax and rest, so as to improve the efficiency of reading.
2. Create an environment: If the home is noisy every day, then the child will naturally not read seriously, parents should create a good reading environment for the child, keep quiet, and have a reading atmosphere.
3. Pay attention to details: If the child is careless, it is necessary to exercise the child to pay attention to details, and in the usual reading, treat simple topics carefully, and also study carefully, so as not to make mistakes because of not paying attention to details. Only by actively reading can we feel the joy of reading and become more and more interested in reading.
When my child was in junior high school, he began to get tired of school, his memory was often very poor, he was always distracted by lectures, and his grades were not bad. Once by chance, I found a "Nikola Tesla potential training" that can improve children's intelligence, and after reading it, the child's condition began to improve. My memory and concentration have improved, I don't have to worry about going to school, and my grades in all subjects have also improved.
My experience should help you.
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As the saying goes, parents are the first teachers of their children, and the family is the first classroom of their children.
1. As a role model, parents must have a certain good quality, that is, the quality of thinking, the level of education, the psychological quality, etc.
Second, this kind of role model should be set in the child's mind and let the child yearn for learning, such as work ability, strength, will to others, friendship, etc.
3. Children must be made aware of some similarities between themselves and their role models. "If there is a father, there must be a son", the words and deeds of parents directly play a key role in affecting their learning and attitude towards the world in the minds of children.
Fourth, the child is in the best learning state when he is in a happy mood: when the child is happy, the memory is super strong when the mentality is good, and he is willing to listen to the teaching, that is, to cultivate the child's positive attitude to learn first, and get twice the result with half the effort.
5. Cultivate children's self-confidence: first let children read, think, and do questions by themselves, it doesn't matter if they are wrong, tell them that they don't need to go to school to study, that is, they have to study hard when they are occasionally wrong, and then teach children how to check whether they are doing it correctly. At this time, parents will check again, and when they find mistakes, they should first say:
I know you've worked hard, but there's a problem here, I'll tell you about it, and you can't tell the answer directly, so read the question first. After that, use examples to guide the children to think by themselves until the answers are guided, so as to cultivate the good habit of children who love to use their brains to think.
6. How to check homework: When the child has done all the work, he must check, and when he checks, he must think repeatedly on a question before he finishes checking a question, and when he finds a mistake, do not correct it immediately. Because I don't know if I did it wrong or checked it wrong, I have to check the second stool repeatedly to confirm whether it is accurate, so as to ensure that nothing goes wrong, and over time the child will develop a good habit.
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Carelessness is a common problem for children, and they do not pay attention to lectures in class. First, it shows that the teacher is not interested in the class and cannot attract the child's attention. Second, it means that your child is a little hyperactive.
In view of this, I suggest: first, make rules for your child to check his homework, if he has to check that there are still mistakes, the first time, give corrections, the second time, still mistakes, and then give corrections, and give certain rules. Secondly:
If the number of carelessness is decreasing, we praise it. And finally: give supervision.
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All students with a good attitude towards learning will pay full attention in class, do not squint, highly concentrate, and listen carefully. Although the new curriculum advocates self-directed learning, cooperative learning, and learning, and although the modern curriculum concept advocates activity, democracy, and freedom, learning activities should be a lively, active, and individualized process, and students participate equally in classroom teaching, and you should also put careful listening in the first place. Especially if the teacher is less elaborate, listening carefully will be the first key to your success.
Let him learn what he wants to learn.