What are three things a woman should never do after a fight?

First, frequent divorce mentions.

When a person is angry, he wants to say anything bad to hurt the other party, and he mentions divorce, maybe he says it in anger, in order to make the other party soft, but when you frequently mention divorce, the other party's brain frequently receives a "divorce" signal, and his subconscious about divorce will be strengthened for a long time. He would really want to get a divorce. So don't take the word "divorce" lightly.

Second, go back to your parents' house at every turn.

Like mentioning divorce, the purpose of a woman going back to her parents' house is generally to make the other party submit to the other party and admit her mistakes, but the more this means is used, the more difficult it is, at the beginning, the husband may immediately chase after her mother's house, apologize, and your parents will also persuade you, and the two of you will be reconciled as before. Later, my husband didn't go so early, so I will pick it up in a few days, just a few days later. Your parents will think, why don't you come to pick it up, is it that the daughter has gone too far, no, ask **, ask the son-in-law to come and pick it up.

Later, my husband will think, what to pick up, I have to come back sooner or later anyway. Your parents said, hurry up and pack up and go back, it's not a big deal every time, you don't want it. You see, a woman who goes back to her parents' house at every turn is bored by her husband and disliked by her mother's family, so quarreling is a matter for the young couple, and the matter that can be resolved between the two must not involve a third person.

Third, find the opposite sex to be angry with each other.

Some people, especially women, get dizzy when they quarrel, and they will go to other members of the opposite sex to have an affair to deliberately provoke each other, the purpose is to tell the other party, you see that if you treat me badly, I will find someone else, and you don't want to cherish me well! Not to mention that you will be particularly naïve to do this as an adult, and the main thing is that it is easy to overturn when you play like this, love cannot withstand betrayal, and when you destroy his trust in you, your marriage will be over.

You can't eat snacks after a fight, because you will want to eat a lot of high-calorie snacks if you are in a bad mood, you may gain weight, and you can't go to drink.

The man who has been smearing himself in front of relatives and friends, and has run away from home and kept mentioning divorce.

1. Running away from home, it's best not to do this after a quarrel, in case the man doesn't chase him out, and afterwards you think the reason for the quarrel is too small to break up, then what should you do? 2. Turn over old accounts that have nothing to do with the cause of the quarrel, men are most afraid of this kind of quarrel; 3. Refuse to communicate, sulk, oh my God, don't say it, do you think straight men can know why you're angry.

Women must not do these three things when they quarrel: one is to mention breaking up, so impulsively mentioning that it is possible to really break up in the end; The second is to keep blaming the other party, which will only deepen the contradictions.

First of all, the first is to run away from home, which is not helpful to the communication between the two parties, it will only make the situation worse and worse, the second is the cold war, do not have a cold war between husband and wife, because of the lack of communication, the contradiction will become deeper and deeper, and the third is not to quarrel anymore, bad things may happen under emotional excitement.

After two people quarrel, there will generally be a cold war, and most of the boys are more face-loving, so they will not take the initiative to make peace, and it will hurt both people after a long time, as a smart woman, you must not take this cold war as a test of the feelings of two people, but to find a way to reconcile as soon as possible.

As a girl, you are more passive, so the method should be tactful, such as sending a circle of friends, so that the other party can see that you have changed your attitude, I believe that the boy will see it, after all, he is also thinking about how to reconcile, but the boy's approach is more direct, and it is very difficult for him to take the initiative to find you to admit his mistakes, but if you give him a step down, he will be very happy and take the initiative to find you to admit his mistakes, which will be of great help to the future relationship development of two people.

2.Find out the reason for the quarrel. We should find out the reason for the quarrel as soon as we get to it.

Because two people can't quarrel for no reason, it must be a problem somewhere. Think about who caused this quarrel and how to avoid it in the future. Different reasons will have different solutions.

We might as well be more tolerant and understand each other better. Take the initiative to admit your mistakes and make your feelings better and better. In the future, when there is a conflict, the two people will also choose to solve it through communication.

3.Take the initiative to break the ice. After an argument, many women feel that they need a man to coax them, rightly or wrongly.

In fact, this thinking is wrong. In this relationship, two people are equal. Since you cherish the relationship, and since you don't see the need to stick with it, we might as well take the initiative.

Take the first step and have a good talk with him calmly. At this time, as long as he is **, the two of them can solve it quickly, so we don't want to lose face and suffer. There is no winning or losing quarrel between husband and wife.

You don't have to be taller than me. You'd better calm down and have a good talk and break the ice. There is no couple in the world who does not quarrel.

Two people will always encounter conflicts together, and quarrels are a means to solve problems, so quarrels are not terrible, but how to solve them. Quarrels are actually not a bad thing. Being able to solve each other's problems immediately can enhance each other's feelings.

It's better than some people going out of touch in order to better express their peace. Once there is a dispute, the two can know that the contradiction is in **, and the contradiction is in**.

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1.Definitely not overnightThis has too much effect on feelings, and a smart woman will definitely not do this. Do you want to sleep with anger, wake up in the morning and remember last night's anger, ** and be in the mood to work and live?

A smart woman's anger is also solved on the same day, and she will never escape the conflict, and the overnight feud has a very bad impact on the relationship between husband and wife.

2.Quarrels won't be too frequentWhen people reach middle age, they always quarrel, so they really can't live this day. A smart woman will control the frequency of quarrels, not upset men too often, and more importantly, not make men feel that they are being vexatious.

Occasionally, a coquettish man will like to fall out of his eyes, and he is always like this.

3.After the quarrel, be calm and reasonableAfter a quarrel, a wise woman will never be unreasonable, but will be calm and reasonable, and will analyze the reasons for each other's quarrels. If you always pass with a perfunctory attitude, you will soon quarrel again.

When arguing, you need to be more rational so that you don't hurt the other party.

Quarrels are not terrible, they are even more terrible every time they gradually quarrel due to the same thing. Therefore, a woman must figure out why she quarrels with her husband, whether it is due to economic development, or because she feels that her husband does not care about herself, and understands the truth of the matter, so that she can deal with the symptoms. How can there be a quarrel?

If because of economic development, then the two of them will work hard, if you feel that your husband doesn't love you enough, then you can say it boldly, communication is the key, and I'm really embarrassed to close the sedan car, then sell cute, sell cute will definitely make the man in front of you love you more.

Sometimes the quarrel is all unreasonable of women, women I also understand that they are their own temper, but at that time I was angry, and I had no way to control my emotions, when I felt that the other party didn't love me, so I was very wronged, and I felt that all men were not good anyway, in fact, it was not the case, and when I was emotionally stable, I found that I was not doing well, and when my daughter quarreled, she could think about how good her husband was to herself, so that she was not so angry, When the anger is gone, the feelings for each other will be good, and the quarrel may be calmed down.

Sometimes the conflict comes from two people not moving at the same pace. Women are clingy, while men must have indoor spaces. When women understand this, they understand that men's needs are different from women's.

You can't leave him all the time because of love, but he must have indoor space, it's not that he doesn't love it, it's just that men need indoor space. A woman must find something other than her husband that can make her grow and become happier and happier, which can prevent many conflicts and quarrels.

This is the correct thing for real women to do after quarrels, and women with high emotional intelligence understand! Quarrels are inevitable after marriage, and if they are handled well, they can promote feelings, and if they are not handled properly, they may also cause marriage breakdown. In fact, every quarrel consumes mutual love.

The more fierce the quarrel, the more damage to each other. Sometimes two people quarrel unreasonably, and they will speak badly about relativity, and even lead to an irreparable final outcome. In fact, the ordinary little days are the most sustainable happiness.

It is also the most sunny life.

After the quarrel, you should reflect on yourself in time, you must know how to bow your head to the other party and admit your mistakes, after the quarrel, you must think about the good of the other party, don't be patient to blindly drill the horns, and take the initiative to save the other party after the quarrel.

Some women have quarreled with their husbands and then pack up their things and leave their parents' house, feeling so sad that they have to go home and complain to their parents. But in fact, this is not some smart way, husband and wife quarrels are a matter between young couples, don't tell your parents about your complaints. Every child is the heart and soul of the parents, and they hope that the child will live well, instead of often hearing the words of the child being angry or the like, so that the parents will worry about their children, and they will continue to be regarded as incompetent, so that the neighbors will laugh at it, and it is inevitable that there will be some facelessness.

A woman with high emotional intelligence will not run away from her mother's house because of anger, but choose each other to calm down first, after all, it hurts to say that it hurts to talk about it in anger, let the other party calm down, and then take the opportunity to find a ladder for others to go down, or when the other party shows weakness, don't be arrogant and unreasonable, after all, it is her husband who shouts and fights, and he must spend his life with a boy, quarrel is not a big deal, the key is to be reconciled.

Paying for your inner dissatisfaction is one way, but it's not a long-term plan. Money must be earned by hard work, and you can't buy a lot of things that you don't need because of anger, until you regret it later, and then you really can't catch up.

After some women get angry, they choose to buy a lot of snacks, clothes and pants for themselves, and what is the point of feeding themselves fat? Squandering money only makes you feel that you have achieved it for a while, and it is difficult to solve any problem at all, because there are still differences, and it is not because you have spent the money that the problem can be solved in time.

A woman with high emotional intelligence is not easy to spend money indiscriminately when she is angry, but calmly thinks about what stage of the problem arises, so that the problem can occur, and she will find a way to deal with it. Money is not omnipotent, and relying on money to torture oneself really means that there is no way to infiltrate the banquet and find abuse.

It's stupid to talk about divorced women in anger, the two meet and love each other in the vast sea of people, this must be fate, and they can enter the palace of marriage, showing that the feelings between each other are very strong, not because of quarrels with their husbands, they say "divorced", this kind of statement is very hurtful.

Relying on her husband's love for her is becoming more and more blatant, but once she is really gone, where will she feel happy? It is also possible to regret the determination of one's own anger, marriage is not a joke, nor is it a game of play, since you have chosen, you need to be diligent to obtain happiness and happiness, not to create trouble.

Even if a woman with high emotional intelligence is cold and violent with her husband, she will not say divorce casually, because they know what divorce means, which is actually a truth from separation, and it is inevitable to get her wish if you say more, because you want to guard a relationship, it is not easy to do things that you regret on impulse, so when you quarrel, don't say divorce at will.

I won't go through old accounts, I won't go back to my parents' house angrily, I won't divorce my husband, I won't drop things, and I won't have a cold war with you.

When the husband and wife quarrel, a smart woman will never go back to her parents' house in anger, and she will never use the money to vent her emotions, she will not take the initiative to tell her husband about divorce, and a smart woman will not take the initiative to turn over old accounts.

Never mention divorce, never hurt people, never beat people, never run away from home, never make trouble unreasonable.

1.Don't be silent, don't completely ignore the existence of the other party.

2.Don't point fingers, don't attack them.

3.Don't threaten the other person easily and don't use threatening language.

4.Don't misinterpret the other person's words, and don't take them out of context.

5.Don't magnify the severity of the matter, don't let your emotions spiral out of control.

6.Do not engage in aggressive behavior, such as smashing, pushing, etc.

7.Don't end the relationship lightly, don't overthink things.

8.Don't use profanity or insulting language in arguments.

9.Don't refuse to apologize, don't insist on maintaining your position.

10.Don't refuse to discuss, don't be afraid to talk about things.

Therefore, after a quarrel, you should calm down, try to control your emotions, face the problem rationally, and communicate and negotiate rationally with the other party.

I hope God can help you!