Tell me what it s like to have a boyfriend who doesn t have a sense of existence.

When friends get together, I feel quite faceless, everyone can't notice him even when they read it, and other people's boyfriends are busy there, only he sits there by himself, and he doesn't move.

It's the kind of party that has a lot of people.,My boyfriend doesn't like a place with a lot of people.,So I don't talk much.,Everyone will have a good time.,Basically, when it's over.,Maybe you won't pay attention to his existence.,Occasionally when someone sees him.,Will be surprised and say,So you're here.。 ‍‍

Sometimes I think about whether to change my boyfriend, and others don't take him seriously, proving that he is not extraordinary, and he will ignore his existence at will.

Sometimes I feel that whether I have a boyfriend or not, it is a dispensable existence, and I will only think of him when there is a big event.

It feels like this person is dispensable, and he rarely thinks of him when he has anything, unless someone reminds him, sometimes he forgets to have a boyfriend.

And my boyfriend is in love, I went to see him half a month ago, and I chatted with my boyfriend today, he felt that I didn't kiss him after I went home, not as sticky as before, so that he had no sense of existence, after his reminder, I realized that it was really, generally if he didn't give me **, I wouldn't take the initiative to call him, often with your best friend, I feel like he's dispensable.

I just broke up with my boyfriend, he didn't say a word to me in his own game before, and now I'm breaking up, I'm also sad, but I don't want to say it, I can't understand what I said, I used to feel like he didn't have a sense of existence when we were together, and I felt that it didn't matter if I broke up, but now that I'm really breaking up, I'm still a little sad. ‍

He's very busy, we're not in a different place, but we see each other once a month or two, and chat once every few days, each time it's a few short sentences, and I don't know if it's really okay for me to have such a boyfriend, and I want to find someone who can get tired of being together every day.

The three of us went shopping together, and took two heavy bags of things, and we carried them together, until we returned to the residence, and when we turned back, we found that he had gone, and I knew that he had carried it. ‍‍

I feel that in my boyfriend's heart, there are two situations in which your existence is dispensable, one is that he really doesn't care about you; The other is that you are suspicious, noA sense of securitySo thinking too much, the solution is as follows:

1. Think about your own problems first.

Sometimes, boys can be a little nervous. You feel in your heart that he doesn't care about you, but he doesn't feel anything, he doesn't know what you think in your heart. You're thinking about it alone, but he doesn't have the patience to think there.

Maybe he's just busy with his own business and doesn't have time to take care of your emotions for a while. At this time, girls should first rule out whether they are too sensitive and whether they are thinking too much.

When you are sure that your boyfriend really doesn't care about you, your first reaction is not to question your boyfriend, but to reflect on yourself first.

2. Further observe the movements of your boyfriend.

When you think about your problems clearly, you must correct them if you are sure that they have problems. But if you haven't done anything to hurt your boyfriend, but your boyfriend doesn't care about you. Well, you're going to have to take a sneaky look and see what your boyfriend is doing, so busy that he completely forgets that you exist.

Of course, in order to avoid directly wronging your boyfriend, you need to observe him secretly. Let's see who he's in contact with every day, and if he has other objects of interest.

3. Communicate directly with your boyfriend.

Although you can investigate on your own, sometimes, to find out the truth of the matter, you still have to ask the person in person. Because no matter how much you observe, it may not be as clear as asking me directly.

So, you have to know what is wrong with your quarrel feelings. It's better to find a time to sit quietly together while both of you are free. Ask your boyfriend if he has no self in his heart and why he doesn't care about your every move at all.

If you want to enter into marriage with your boyfriend, you should follow six principles:

1, girls should learn to give in to their boyfriends, and have quarrels with their boyfriends in life, at this time, don't be unrelenting, and give your boyfriend a step down, so that your boyfriend can love herself more.

2, girls should learn to tolerate their boyfriends, everyone has shortcomings, if girls find that their boyfriends are not perfect enough, they should choose to tolerate each other, so that each other can go to the end.

3. Girls should learn to praise their boyfriends, everyone likes to be praised, and if girls can often praise their boyfriends, they will be able to maintain a good relationship with each other.

4. Girls should learn to be considerate of their boyfriends, it is not easy for everyone, girls should see that their boyfriends have difficulties, and don't make too many demands on their boyfriends.

5. Girls should learn to trust their boyfriends, don't easily suspect that their boyfriends have changed their minds, and don't worry that he has friends of the opposite sex, and fully trust their boyfriends in order to make him love himself more.

Summary. Hello dear, your boyfriend feels that he has no sense of existence because you are a very strong person or your personality is more domineering, and you are the kind of person who has the final say in everything, so in your usual interactions with others, your position can also be obvious, naturally your boyfriend will be ignored, and others will not see some of his shining points.

Hello dear, your boyfriend feels that he has no sense of existence because you are a very strong person or your personality is more domineering, and you are the kind of person who has the final say in everything, so in the usual troublesome interactions with others, your position can also be easy to sell, and naturally your boyfriend will be ignored, and others will not lose some of his shining points.

If your friends gather in the hall, and he doesn't know most of them, it's your negligence, because you can't patronize the lively chatting with people you are familiar with, and ignore your boyfriend, he will be very embarrassed, if it is in his family, then blame him for not working hard.

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Hello: The need for a sense of presence generally means to tell the person who wants to be good, I hope you can pay attention to him, don't use him as a background. You should pay more attention to him, and ask him in advance if there is any problem that is not his business, so that he can know that you care about him and feel that he has a presence.

Why does my boyfriend say that I have too little sense of my own existence.

Are you too good, or too beautiful, there are always many suitors around you, and there are often men around you, and it is normal for your Huai number boyfriend to do this, and this is nothing more than to let others know that you already have a Bi Heng boyfriend, and don't have any more thoughts about you.

Hello, you can usually "trouble" him a little more, and then feel that you need him, and over time he can feel his presence.

I'm a lot of suitors, but he doesn't give me enough security.

Sometimes I send messages and he doesn't reply to messages, I don't want to continue to send messages to him, but I can't help it, and I don't know if I'm important to him, and I don't know how to do it, so that he can cherish it, because I'm afraid that I'll cry, think about it, but when I don't want to, he will give me hope, I think he always ignores me, so I just can't control myself, in the end I send a message to him, he doesn't reply, do I want to send it, We sometimes meet when we are free, and we meet almost half a month a month. So do I want him to respond to me all the time or how to do it, so that he can cherish it and bring it home, and his family has seen me, I just can't feel his sense of security sometimes, and I feel uncomfortable.

Hello, the emotional problem is both sides Oh, you can send your thoughts to each other.

You can usually talk more about **. I can't give you much advice here.

When you see him, you are annoyed,,, you always feel that what he is doing is wrong.

Of course I don't feel it, don't you like him? Don't be a boyfriend.