Quarrel with the person you love, but talk to strangers, why do couples always have such problems?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-17
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    People live in social relations, joys, sorrows, and sorrows, all kinds of "feelings", which are the "feelings" of people "feeling" by external objects, it is a reflection of what is happening around them, and at the same time, it is also a form of expressing their feelings to the people around them, but the most important thing is the reflection of things in people's hearts. This reflection is based on the psychology of the individual, and it is used to express one's own feelings, so that the world will be rich. It is precisely because human beings are emotional animals that in human society, in this colorful and calamitous society, people are struggling, struggling, and smiling because they have a firm belief and an optimistic spirit.

    is also to prove that he is alive, maybe the years will be like the wind blowing away the quicksand, and slowly nothing will be left, but at least he has a process and eternity. Thousands of people will leave their own messages in this nature. Let yourself sink in memory and let future generations touch.

    In fact, joy and sorrow are relative, and how can we know joy without great compassion. The trajectory of life is the trajectory of joy, anger, sorrow, and happiness, and what is the meaning of life if you don't feel joy, anger, sorrow, and happiness? When our parents gave us life, they decided to let us feel the joy, anger, sorrow, and happiness of the world, so that we could live in the world for a while.

    To live is to live! Coming to this world is a privilege given by nature, crossing and feeling the joys, sorrows and sorrows of the world. All kinds of profundity allow us to leave a faint message behind.

    It can add a color to the world.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because, if you hold it in your heart, you want to say it, but in the face of people who know you, you will be very depressed, so you would rather talk to someone you don't know, and you don't know about your morality, that's okay.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, it's like this, when you're in a bad mood, you want to talk to someone, but you don't want others to know too much, so you have to find strangers.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    We always say that it is difficult to find someone to talk to, and it is difficult to find someone who is good to you, but in fact, everyone knows that people are around you. And we don't know it, we always go to find the solace of strangers. I think they're so good at being a liquid man.

    Very realistic. Do you want to know why? Sometimes it's nice but not profound.

    The words in my heart are contrary to the image I show, and saying it to strangers will not have much impact on my life

    It doesn't affect your real life. In life, you will always show the side you want people to see

    You may also hear what you want to hear from strangers

    In fact, you may have been stupid enough to have a heart-to-heart relationship with a friend you think you are. In the end, he let his secret be known to everyone, and then he was hurt. It's really hard to find a good pot friend

    In fact, it is your sensitive inferiority complex and arrogance that you don't want to be sympathized with are at work. You said that you don't want people close to you to take care of things, it's not that you don't want to tell them the truth, you are afraid that they will cast sympathetic eyes, and you are even more afraid that you will become the talk of others after dinner.

    There are some things that I don't know how to say, some things that I don't know who to say, and some things that I can't say, but I hope everyone is okay

    We laugh and tell lies to our loved ones, but we cry and talk our hearts to strangers

    Behind everything that is good, everything is not good. We are always worried that after we say it, it will make the other party worry and anxious, and reporting good news or not bad news is the best good intention to consider the other party. But in fact, there is another implicit message, we think of the other party too fragile to a certain extent, and worry that the other party will not be able to withstand the pressure brought by reality.

    I have a lot of good family members, and each of them is very nice and good to me. But it's still hard for me to open up with them, and I always feel like I'm not myself in front of them. I was so disgusted with this feeling that I tried to avoid being in close contact with people.

    In fact, it can be summed up in four words, and the words are shallow and deep, and we are not familiar with socks. There's no psychological burden to say anything, don't you think? I hope you enjoy it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    1. I want to ask why, I am no longer your joy.

    2. If a promise is not fulfilled when it is most needed, it is to sell it, and it is no longer interesting to fulfill it later.

    3. One day your life will flash back in front of your eyes, and all you can do now is make sure it's worth laughing at.

    4. If it is not difficult to help yourself in the depths of love, how can you be soft and cold.

    5. I suddenly found that looking at your happiness, in fact, my heart is entangled.

    6. When you taste all kinds of flavors, you can see through them naturally; In the journey of life, there will always be a period of time when you need to walk and carry it by yourself.

    7. Obviously not a stranger, but pretending to be stranger than a stranger.

    8. I'm stingy, I just want you to be good to me, I can't see you doing the same to others.

    9. Ten sentences of accosting, 100 sentences of goodnight, 1000 words of small talk, 10,000 words of nonsense, just to hear a sentence in the wedding hall one day I am willing.

    10. You only let me be a guest in your life, but I want to be the master of your heart.

    11. I want to be one of your teeth in the next life, at least, I am uncomfortable, and you will know it.

    12. I'm out of the way, even if you don't love me anymore, I'm going to try to find all kinds of ways to make you fall in love with me.

    13. There are two mes living in my heart, one shouting to give up, and the other struggling and refusing to forget.

    15. The main contradiction faced by contemporary youth is: food and **.

    16. The tenderness in her body bewitches you and makes you mistakenly think that this is love.

    17. One sentence doesn't matter, it breaks my heart.

    18. The world is so big, and in the vast sea of people, there is always such a person who can find you at a glance.

    19. I really want to turn my life to the last page. I want to see who the person who accompanied me to the white head was.

    20. Just stupidly waiting for the attachment I want.

    21, the hand of time can't take away the blue and blue summer of that year.

    22. Don't talk to me about love. I quit for you.

    23. I've learned to avoid topics about you, 25. A lot of people don't need to say goodbye because they're just passing by. Forgetting is the best memory of each other.

    26. Don't think about what will happen in the future, the future will be a matter of the future. Life is only a hundred years, and the curtain just goes up and down.

    27. In front of the people and things we care about the most, we are the least worthless, and the more we care, the more humble we are.

    28, the flowers bloom and fall a few springs, for the dark sadness of Ishde, since that day of separation, leaving is like a lost soul.

    29. When we were children, we cried and cried and laughed, and when we grew up, we laughed and laughed and cried.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    1. Because you are picky about love, you think that love is pure and does not tolerate the slightest impurity. The hardships and efforts contained in this love have always been borne silently, so whether it is for relatives or lovers, you expect them to do nothing in vain to give your emotions, and this expectation is not met most of the time, so you will "quarrel with the person you love";

    2. This is a person's character, "Tell me your sorrows, and I will share half of your sorrows... But this has to be mastered by the scale, otherwise it will be a lack of heart to catch who and who to say...

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    People who care about you will quarrel with you, because they care too much, so sometimes they don't have the right grasp of it.

    Who said we don't care about each other's feelings, it's just that sometimes we get carried away by feelings.

    Speaking to strangers is just looking for a kind of psychological comfort, and although we all know that this comfort may not be very helpful, it allows us to speak our hearts.

    kind of unpleasant. Stranger, so he is not afraid of being known by the other party, and he loves his person, but he doesn't want him to add too much for himself.

    annoyances. Suffice it to say, strangeness is just a reason to choose that can be released.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because I like it, I care about it very much, and I have to take care of small problems.

    Because I like it, I can't say some things and I don't want to give in.

    Because I like it, my emotions are easily fluctuating and I can't treat it rationally.

    Strangers, unfamiliar with each other, don't care, don't care.

    Some words, having said them, are a good way to vent their anger, soothe their grievances, and pour them all out happily.

    Some things, listen to other people's opinions, how embarrassing things are, that person doesn't know who you are, but it's very relaxed.

    Sometimes, suddenly sad and sad, too stressed, and unable to talk to the person you like, fortunately, there is an unlucky stranger who listens to you complaining and dumps all the garbage to the stranger...

    This is a very important problem, that is, there is not enough communication with the people you like, you don't trust each other, and you can't tolerate and understand each other.

    So make this mistake all the time!

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