Why is it so hard to forget a person?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-25
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Forget. A heart-wrenching question.

    To say that you are completely forgetting the past is deceiving yourself and others, and as long as you have a little bit of something that can be linked to the past, you will not be able to forget the past. Don't run away, it's useless to regret it. Is that right?

    Isn't there a saying that says? You may meet someone in 1 second, fall in love with someone in 1 day, but forget someone in a lifetime. That's love!

    Heh, forget? That's impossible, it's not realistic, and instead of trying to forget, I'd suggest that you use the time you want to forget to do something practical!

    I want to say to you: don't forget anything, don't regret it since you love it. The fate of people is predestined, although you are not together, but there are this good memories, I think it is worth it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......What do you think it will be to give up, is it so easy to give up someone, and is it still called true love? Love will make you happy, and thinking of her "him" will be very happy and powerful.

    But you know how you'll feel when you don't get her? Do you feel that the sky is falling, people are tired, and your heart is tired? I'm sure you've encountered it, because I've also encountered it now in trouble, in pain.

    I can understand your feelings. I want to love so much, I give love, but she wants you to give up on her, I said I will, but is it really okay? When I was lonely, when I was lonely, I quietly thought of her, her voice, and every word she said, it was so unforgettable and heart-wrenching.

    I really want to love, but I get a lot of pain, and my body and mind are haggard. Is this called abandonment? Therefore, it is impossible to give up a person you really love, you can only cry and remind yourself that you want to forget, to escape, although you don't want to, you are very unwilling, but what else can you do besides escaping?

    I'm like that now, and I can understand your mood somewhat. If you want to let go, I think the best thing to do is to change your focus. Turn your attention to something else.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love one. How deeply you loved at the beginning, how deep the wound will be in the end. When he thought about the other party, he was like a sharp knife stabbed into his heart, and then waited for the blood to drain little by little.

    Alone savoring such feelings. At this time, the most real feeling is tears flowing down my face. And you can't do anything yourself, you can't do anything yourself.

    It's just that I can't do anything about each other, and I can't forget but I don't know what to do.

    In fact, there is no way to forget someone you love very much. Unless you have amnesia, all the advice won't work. Only love yourself. Love yourself well. I hope you can be happy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Forget. You? Impossible, don't find any way and don't deceive yourself, asking this question itself shows that you value love and righteousness, you can't be as soulless chic as some people, so you can't forget it at all, not only can't you forget, your life state may also affect your mood for a long time, all of this comes from your dedication, from your emotional investment, if you want to forget unless your soul can be cut, so don't forget it, your love and righteousness determine your loveliness, There should be someone who understands you to help you heal the trauma and dilute everything unpleasant, let's wait together...

    Love is a sad fairy tale.

    Anyone who has read it has left more or less regrets When we finish reading, we will understand a truth, that is, in the world of love, fate dominates everything, if there is fate, time and space are not distances. If there is no fate, even if we get together, we won't be able to understand, so let's let everything go with the flow.

    。Everyone has their own journey, there will be a variety of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience everyone is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have happened, time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as the beginning, adjust the mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    will fall in love with one or several people in your life, inevitably be hurt, cry and hurt, a long, long time later, when you finally meet your true love, you will understand that pain is sometimes precious, it enriches life and leaves some traces to memory!

    Just do what you are happy about, just do what you want to do, live a relaxed life, there is no need to deliberately force you to forget something, this will only make your life harder!

    Let yourself go, think clearly, and don't make unnecessary offerings! There are so many things in life that you have to learn to deal with, you don't lose everything when he is gone, you still have your job, your family, your friends! Integrate into life anew, where you will have a new self.

    And you must not believe in love, you just didn't meet the right person at the right time, and one day you will definitely find that happiness that belongs to you! He will truly love and care for you, and will not let you be hurt at all, let alone hurt you at all! Stop thinking about the person who is not worth thinking about, and accumulate feelings until your person really appears before using it!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Love someone again,. I can't forget it, so I think about it fiercely. Thinking enough and forgetting it, it's like the more you push yourself to eat, the hungrier you get.

    When you eat hard, you are always full, and the stomach of your mind is so big, and it is not so important to think about him, until you think of nausea, this method is very smart, and such a bad person still thinks about it. When I feel like I'm throwing up, I can't think about it. Transcendental. /

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because forgetting these 2 words is simply to dispel people with amnesia, normal people, in the deep and extreme things, want to forget, there is no way, only to do it, forget. So, let time slowly fade into the wounds in your heart.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you really loved.

    How can it be easily forgotten.

    Don't forget.

    Because when you want to forget.

    It's when you think about it a lot.

    So when you remember.

    Don't be in a hurry to forget.

    It's about telling yourself not to think about it anymore.

    It's been a long time. I forgot about it.

    It doesn't hurt that much.

    Gradually, you will find out.

    It turns out that you don't care that much.

    It turned out that everything was a thing of the past.

    For those of us who want to forget.

    Perhaps time is the most effective way to hurt the disease.

    Alas.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The only one who can help you is yourself, and the words of anyone else are superfluous.

    Because in a small corner of your mind, somewhere you don't even know yourself, you don't want to forget this person.

    He is so important to you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Landlord, I've experienced it.

    It's really hard to forget the one you think of you and her laughing at her. You'll have red eyes, and sometimes say that time can dilute everything.

    Everything, when the person you love deeply, when you leave yourself, when you think of the happy past, tears slowly flow out, and when you think of breaking up, it is the deepest time to remember her. While it's easy to give up, it's harder to forget.

    She is the one who makes you miserable, and she is the one who makes you laugh and laugh. So it's hard to forget.

    Whether the landlord's time can dilute all this depends on you. It's hard to forget her until you find a new love.

    Whether the landlord adopts me or not, I bless you the same.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hehe, why forget, every paragraph of life has a certain meaning, each paragraph will let us learn to grow up, and I will learn to understand, rather than trying to forget, it is better to remember with a snack. In fact, the human brain is not a computer, you can delete that paragraph if you want. Maybe because it was thought to be unforgettable.

    So it's not easy to forget. In this way, we can only forget it, and carefully hide it in the darkest place of our hearts to protect it. Distract yourself with things around you.

    Find something that you pay more attention to instead!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    When I think of her, I force myself not to think about it and do something.

    Look more at the scenery outside the window, look at the sky more, and you will be more open!

    Listen to more songs and let your heart stop wandering! Do something else!

    Force yourself not to think about her, tell yourself that she and I have become in the past, and in the future we will just be friends, ordinary friends!

    Even if you can't help but think of her, you have to force yourself not to think about it anymore! Say to yourself every day, she is in the past, the past feelings will not come back, to admit that the feelings are over, and to face the current life is the most important thing! Don't lose what you have now because of a past her!

    Let's look at the point! You will have a new life!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    How to say?

    I don't think I have to forget it

    I think、In the life of a person、

    There are no memories worth forgetting

    We live in this society

    Learn to grow

    Gradually grow up in the interaction and getting along with others

    Being cared for by others, caring for others

    To be loved, to be loved, to love others

    Being hated, hating others

    When you are hurt by others, you hurt others, slowly shape your own character and human form, grow up slowly, why do you want to forget?

    If it is a mistake to separate、

    Then choosing to forget will be a mistake to the end

    The more you try to forget、

    The more clearly I remember

    Why? Because you keep thinking about the bits and pieces you were with her

    What should be forgotten will be forgotten

    What you can't forget is what you don't want to forget

    If you have many memorable memories between you

    Why don't you treasure it in the bottom of your heart?

    Such lovely thoughts, such lovely memories

    So cute thoughts、

    Such lovely thoughts, such lovely memories

    What a pity to forget.

    Maybe those memories are for you、

    It's reminiscing with her, looking back

    Such lovely thoughts, such lovely memories

    What a pity to forget.

    Desperately denying

    Desperately trying to forget what you don't want to forget

    It is to deceive oneself

    If you deceive yourself

    Then it will also make you afraid to believe the people around you

    Maybe not forget

    Treasure it in your heart

    Only then can you truly be relieved

    Time can dilute everything

    Unforgettable memories

    With the passage of time、

    Our memories

    I slowly forget、

    Sometimes let time decide everything.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    People say it's hard to forget someone.

    Because I can't forget it.

    I really can't forget it.

    If you love her, why forget her.

    Do you have to forget if you are hurt?

    I think about it a lot.

    It's impossible to forget her, so I'm going to hold her down deep with pleasure.

    Pressed to the bottom of my heart. Think about it when you're lonely.

    As a fond memory of herself and her.

    Reminiscing about the past, looking forward to the future.

    I think. There's no need to forget about the people you like.

    You know. Loving and being loved are equally happy.

    Just depends on what you think.

    If you think.

    Like a person.

    It was painful not to get his words.

    Then you are wrong.

    Everyone can only manage their own feelings.

    You can only decide whether you like him or not.

    And you can't feel whether he likes you or not.

    You don't have to get it.

    As long as you treasure it in your heart.

    You'll definitely find it a good memory in the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Forgetting a person either takes time or a new love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's really hard to forget a person, and it's impossible to forget, because you have gone through a very good time, maybe you will think of him when you see a familiar environment, maybe you will have a reverie because of a certain sentence, so since you can't forget it, hide him in the depths of your heart, and it is also a kind of happiness to think about it often. Missing is also happy, so why do you have to forget?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Although it is said that time can dilute everything.

    If you still love him, you can't forget it.

    If you don't love him anymore, you will naturally forget.

    Trying to forget a person may not be so simple.

    If you want to forget someone, you don't want to forget them.

    If you're trying to forget, you probably won't really be able to do that, right?

    If you want to forget someone, they may have hurt you, or for some other reason.

    You have to find the reason that makes you sad, or you want to forget, if you really want to forget someone, you have to learn to let go of something, let your mind go, instead of thinking about it constantly, maybe, you think about it occasionally, but it's also inevitable, right?

    Time will make you forget it.

    If you really love him, you have to spend your life forgetting.

    If you don't want to forget, hide your love deep in your heart.

    I hope the landlord can be happy!!

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