What is the life principle that you suddenly understood after the age of 30?

At 30 years old, there is more sentimentality and less complaint. Experience the difficulties and hardships of life, and know not to be happy with things, not to be sad with yourself. At the age of 30, the workplace is like a battlefield, although it is not a meritorious achievement, and the youth is ambitious, but he also has a little qualifications and is ready to go, for the original dream.

At the age of 30, most of them have their own small families, a new identity, and new responsibilities and responsibilities.

After the age of thirty, I suddenly understood that there is no true love in life, and there is no chance for reform in life, there is only my own efforts, my own expectations for the future, and without hard work, I will only achieve nothing.

Understand that you are responsible for things in life, and if you have the ability to solve them by yourself, you can handle them yourself. Don't go to your friends, relatives to help, you owe affection, it's not easy to repay.

At the age of 30, I suddenly understood the truth of life, that is, everything must rely on your own efforts, and what you want to gain depends on how much you give.

The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the child wants to raise but does not wait. That is, we should be filial to our parents as soon as possible, and not wait for our parents to leave us before we remember to be filial.

When you're 30 years old, you're not in a hurry to be with anyone. Without the anxiety of your youth, you just feel that the right person will appear at the right time, and all you do is become a better person.

Live one day less, uncomfortable day is better than happy day, uncomfortable life is also a happy life, why not be happy? There is no need to worry too much about some things, think too much, let it be, and the past will naturally pass.

After living for so many years, there is nothing I deserve, I have to get, and there is nothing that I was born with that I should have, everything and everything needs to be obtained by myself.

Whatever you do, you have to give your all, because if you don't try your best, you may fail, and I will regret it.

The truth of life that is not understood until after the age of 30 is as follows:

1.Physical health always comes first.

2.Life is not that long, spend time and energy on important people and things.

3.It was only at the age of 30 that I understood that I had to learn to give up. There is a need to disconnect from what you need to do and what you have to do with your relationships. Control material desires, do what you can and do it well.

As for relationships, when you have nothing, it's not interpersonal at all. Only when you are strong will you have quality relationships. Therefore, before the age of 30, you should strive to strengthen yourself, work hard to make money, and improve your ability to resist risks.

4.Not all edges and corners are smoothed by life, and it may also be the result of being softened by the gentleness of time.

5.The people around you will start to get married one after another at the age of 20, and you don't have to be anxious if you can't get married, after all, they will divorce one after another at the age of 30.

6.Don't let someone else affect your pace, because maybe you're not competing in the same game.

7.Some shoes don't wear them at first, until one day they don't wear them until they walk a long way and realize that they don't fit. Like some people who appear in life.

8.There are many people and things that can bring happiness, and if this one doesn't work, then change another.

9.It turns out that a certain trait that has been criticized in the past is my characteristic, and those voices seem to point to the right path, but in fact weaken my power**. At the age of 30, he began to loosen his ties a little bit every day, and now he gets along with himself at ease.

10.This sounds very sophisticated, but you must have a good relationship with your superiors. In this way, when the big boss can't see your labor and only sees your shortcomings, someone can help you speak. Be smart, don't work hard, and don't leave a good sentence.

11.After six years together, he chose to leave, as if he had taken half of me away. After being depressed, I suddenly woke up to the fact that I had to give myself a sense of security, happiness and love. The appearance of others can be the icing on the cake, not a send-off.

12.Don't spend money indiscriminately, have your own savings.

After that, I found that the personality was more sharp, but the sharpness was hidden. I learned to be polite to people who can't play together.,In fact, the inner os is to be able to don't intersect without intersection.。

14.In the end, the most important things are your parents, a few close friends, good health, and money in your own bank. Others, such as how you look or not, how the school is, whether there are designer bags, whether there are gorgeous labels in the world, those don't matter.

Before the age of 30, what life principles should we understand?

First, you must set a goal for yourself to be able to make a difference.

I found that many people have such colleagues around them, they have been busy, but they have not gained anything, and they have been working in their positions for several years without any progress, and the reason for this situation is that they have not set goals. It's the same with us, if we just get the job done at hand, and don't think about doing it better, without any innovation, just do it step by step, then we will still be that little employee in so many years. Please set a goal for yourself before the age of 30, work towards this goal, and believe that you will meet a different version of yourself after many years.

Second, we must be motivated to do things, and nothing will be achieved if we do not work hard.

Many people don't work well when they are young, spend their energy on eating, drinking and having fun, call friends to enjoy all day long, whether they eat or wear or use, they are very fashionable, they don't make much money, they spend money like running water, this kind of life has no meaning, it can only be a waste of youth. We should be motivated to do things, we should have concentration in work, only by concentrating on one thing, investing 100% of our enthusiasm, in order to break out of the world, in order to have the capital of pleasure after the age of 30. If you understand this truth, I believe that success is not far from you.

3. Only by treating feelings well can you harvest true love.

Many people are approaching the age of 30 and find themselves still alone, but they just feel extremely lonely. Seeing that the children of colleagues or friends have been born, and the marriage is not happy, I will be extremely envious. If we want to get love and build a happy family, we must understand that love is to be grasped by ourselves.

When love comes, we must seize the opportunity to firmly grasp the other party, and if we want to keep the other party's heart, we should use our true feelings to impress him, treat each other with our own sincerity, and we will definitely be able to get the married life we want.

No one is going to get used to you, so be polite when dealing with others. Learn more knowledge, knowledge is a person's armor that can make you go a little further on the road of life. Don't get too attached to things that don't belong to you, as you will lose a lot of happiness.

Making money is the best way to resist risks and accidents, accumulate wealth quickly when you are young, learn to save money and manage investment, learn another technology and ability, and make yourself better.

1.Only sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity; 2.Spend more time with your family; 3.There is no need for deep friendship with friends who drink and meat; 4.Be a man and leave a line; 5.It's better to have one more friend than one more enemy.

<>< I was 30 years old, I understood the truth.

1. If you are ruthless, it is not you who secretly shed tears.

2. The moment you give up on you must have been well thought out.

3. The relationship between dispensability and dispensability is just a kind of consumption.

4. People who make you wait too long will not choose you in the end.

5. In addition to life and death, everything else in life is abrasions.

6. After seeing through, half of it is to understand, and half is to forget it.

7. Lukewarm can be said to be the most mature social philosophy.

8. The story shouldn't end like this, but it can only end like this.

9. When you read a book for the second time, there are only new perceptions, no new results.

10. The greatest weakness of human beings is pretentious fantasies.

11. Explain, this kind of thing makes me look like a sinner.

12. Losing the desire to share is the beginning of the end.

13. The old account is redrawn because it has never been properly resolved.

14. Interesting things should not be shared with perfunctory people.

15. Ineffective socialization destroys interesting souls, and my loneliness makes me proud forever.

16. In this world, except for yourself, everyone else is someone else.

17. I'm no longer interested, so I make a good impression.

18. I used to want a lot of love, but now I just want to sleep well.

19. In fact, there are some things that you are the only one regretting.

20. The world is never equal, how hard you work, how special you are.

21. We all congratulate each other and shine, and we don't have to blow out other people's lights.

22. In your efforts, you hide the stability of your parents in their twilight years and the confidence of your children's future.

23. Jump out of the circle of your disgust and get rid of the fools around you, that's why you work hard.

24. Sometimes, even if you look like a docile cat, he thinks you lose your hair.

25. Whether it's slow or small, it's good to move forward.

26. To shine, not to be illuminated.

27. Lower expectations, all encounters are gifts.

28. Don't believe what others say you want to hear.

29. Self-moving giving, both dangerous and stupid.

30. The less we need, the closer we are to God. In the face of a beautiful woman and not wanting to fall in love with her, you will not become a licking dog.

31. People become mature because of the injuries they have received, not because of the increase in the base of age.

32. Self-worth is everything, and the reason for the breakdown of all relationships is because of the disappointment of expectations.

33. Success brings only a kind of illusory that is wrapped, and only from failures and mistakes can people get the real experience and lessons of fighting for the right years.

34. Take the initiative to explore, take the initiative to discover, record your own experience like a company file, and regularly review and reflect on the summary, your life will progress rapidly.

35. People who can go on for a long time must be like-minded mentors and friends. Other friends are just fellow travelers at different stages of life, so they can get together and disperse.