Should I chase an unknown future marriage for love?

Children must not give up. Girl, I understand what you mean. You may not have a relationship with your original husband, but you have children.

Now you have a new boyfriend, don't you? However, I think that in any case, even if you get divorced, you can't give up your children. Because the child loses his age code and goes to his mother's love, it will be very painful in the future.

Hello, glad to answer for you. If your current family just doesn't feel filial piety, domestic violence, and cold violence, you can consider giving the current family a chance for the sake of the children.

If love is not guaranteed to be permanent, and the current family does not make Nian Shirt very sad and arrogant, you can choose for the child first. Of course, I don't know what you think of the rest of the book, but you can tell me more about it.

Friend. I advise you not to maintain your marriage anymore.

Now that you don't even have feelings. And as a man. He couldn't do what his husband should do. There is no future for you and him.

Leave early. Take advantage of yourself to be young. I'm sure you can find one who loves you more. Someone who thinks more about this family.

If a man's heart is not in you anymore. He is unwilling for this family. out of a penny.

You drag it out like this. Even to the back. He may not even pay child support.

Since he is also willing to divorce. Let's get a divorce by mutual agreement. Kid if you want. Be sure to let him pay child support. If he doesn't agree. Go to court and file a complaint. Alimony is what he should give.

I don't think your family has much to share with the rest of your property.

Let him go about his life on his own. A man who doesn't know how to cherish. There is no good end.

You do your job with peace of mind. Take care of the children. I want you to be young. There is also a chance to meet a good man.

Don't think that a divorced woman can't be happy.

People have the right to pursue happiness. You have it too. Don't cling to this man who is not worth your effort.

Let's divorce ruthlessly. In a family with no feelings. Children also cannot grow up healthily.

Think it through.

Marriage can exist for a long time, it must be built on the basis of feelings, at present, it seems that you and he have long lost their feelings, and what are you trying to do to maintain that empty name? Even if he buys a house, can you buy a relationship? Can you still buy your happiness???

Think about it calmly.

Then divorce.

Because you can't see the future, at least the future with you.

Change yourself, don't always make a fuss, look at the actual situation, in fact, what your husband said about buying a house is a matter of two people, right. But you shouldn't AA system, you must choose one person to manage money, see which of you is suitable for financial management, one person is in charge of the other's salary, your mother should give you child support, how much you two negotiate. The two of them should communicate frequently and be considerate of each other.

You've only been married for four years and have a child, so you don't have a financial foundation, but now that your mother is taking care of your child, you both have to work hard to earn money and fight for your goals. Don't keep thinking about divorce, it's normal to quarrel. It's scary not to fight.

If you want, you can add me as a friend to chat.

You are already the first wrong step with him, and the second wrong step is for the child to bring your mother. He said that it is wrong for you not to leave the third step of divorce. The child was brought in for him to raise. Let him know the hard work of raising children, and your mother does not have the obligation and responsibility to help you raise children.

Change yourself, don't make a fuss all the time, and look at the actual situation.

Unless you get married for wealth, if you get married for love, you have to live a practical life, and men are most afraid of annoyance.

Divorce, any marriage must be based on good faith, even this is useless, your life will only be more difficult in the future, he now sees that you will not divorce, because you have children, because your family may not help you in a sense (you didn't listen to the family at the beginning), but please think about it, you have to spend your life to make up for the mistakes you made, or spend your life to imagine that he can still change your life?

Remember that what was not there at the beginning, there will never be one in the future. Your pain can only help yourself, and no one can help you, so please get out of your mistakes by yourself.

If you don't have children, I'd definitely say divorce, but now that you have a child, you have to think about your child no matter what, and you don't have to think about his original promises, which will never be fulfilled, live your current life steadily, and believe that you will be happy in the future.

Let's go back to my parents' house and take care of the children first. Watch how he performs!

Haha, just someone? Then you will regret it for a lifetime, your parents are traditional people, there are three unfilial pieties, no queen is not the largest, but the second largest, of course, you must not have no queen, as filial piety, you must have offspring when your parents are alive, this is as it should be, as for your grandparents? I'm dizzy, your grandparents are 90?

Your dad is not yet fifty? Grandparents only have your father when they are forty years old? Alas, I don't know what your situation is, but you must have a plan, give your parents a stable expectation, save your parents uncomfortable, for example, you start a business this year, get married next year, and then have a child or something, in short, the plan is given, tell your parents about your own plan, so that your parents can worry.

If you ignore this, then you don't have to pay attention to what your parents say, just be yourself, rest assured, this will definitely not make you unfilial. Be yourself.

If it were me, I would choose the girl you brought to your parents. I don't think what others choose for you is ever as good as what you choose. You should make it clear to your parents that you have a girlfriend and communicate with them a lot, and I think they will understand.

There is no worthiness in true love, the road is chosen by oneself and it must be completed on its knees. Whose success is a one-off? So keep up the good work, keep it up.

Love and career will be both

It's not good, just find one and regret dying in the future Feelings are a matter of two people Now is the era of freedom and democracy Individuals advocate the freedom of marriage It's still a girlfriend But considering that your dad has a good impression of your girlfriend I know that your own conditions are not good It's hard to think that you marry them Life is still like that Since it's coming to you If you fail with your girlfriend You can also find them You have to keep a few hands at any time But in the end it's up to you.

People are very realistic, and it is estimated that if you want to talk about marriage, you will have a problem, so now you just need to work hard.

I think you're right in your decision, if you're just marrying for the sake of getting married, that kind of marriage is really the grave of love. You're still young and you still have the time and energy to work hard. However, if you really want to take risks for love, it is recommended that you see if this love is worth it, whether the person you love wants to live with you for the rest of his life, or just wants to be your girlfriend.

His family is not happy with you, etc.

Landlord, in fact, I agree with your idea, life is short, can be worth our fight for very little, as a person should do what you want, fight, the big deal is to fail again, in our most important thing is time!! I'm rooting for you!!

As a person who has come over, I think it is not worth it to stay away from my parents for love, of course, many people will say that I don't understand love, and there are many unmarried people who will disapprove of my words, but I believe that as long as it is a married woman, 90% will not support distant marriage.

Many people say that the traffic is developed now, and if you want to go, you can get there almost on the same day, no matter how far it is, you can go in the morning and get there at night, indeed, no matter how far you get married, you can reach it in one day.

But have you ever thought that you will marry a wife in the future, you will no longer be alone, you want to go back to your parents' house, it is really not like those girls who are very close to your parents' home, they just leave, and even if the two of them quarrel, they can run back to their parents' house immediately.

After you get married, you will get pregnant and have children, and the child will become your pendant, and you have to hang him almost 24 hours a day, and if you want to go home, you have to wait until your husband has time, and he can only go home with you, which means that it is impossible for you to go home when you say that you can go home, you have to wait until he has time.

Then there are children who go to school, you can't go home on Saturday and Sunday, even if you have a few days off, you may need tutoring, the same is true for winter and summer vacations, you have to take a few hours to get home, and since the day you got married, the number of times you go home may be counted by ten hands.

Just like me, just marrying a place four hours away from home, I still feel sad, angry that I can't say that I can go back to my parents' home, I used to think that I can go home several times a year, and finally I find that I go home at most once a year, and I live for a week at most, and I envy those girls who are close to home.

Love will fade, parents will get old, and I would rather not have erratic love, but love my deepest parents.

In life, we sometimes need to analyze some things with our hearts, because only in this way can we feel that there will be some brilliance in life. So sometimes life is good, the key is to see how the two of you go to work together, if the business is not good, it will not work. In fact, sometimes in life, each of us should rely on some of our own methods to seek happiness, in fact, the current traffic is also very convenient, if you think that you may be far away from your parents if you marry far away, but there is really no need for this.

As long as I can go back and see my parents from time to time, I believe it's okay.

The happiness of marrying far away is completely due to your control of life, or a management of your feelings.

Everything is divided into two, and there may be someone you like when you marry far away, but the living habits need to be adapted slowly, so you will feel far away from your parents, relatives, and friends, and sometimes you will inevitably feel sad and lonely, and you will miss home, and the woman should consider it carefully.

Choosing to marry was originally a big gamble!

And betting, do you think there is a time to win?

It's just that the bet is right, you love all your life, and you bet wrong for a lifetime!

Your topic has actually told you that for the sake of one person who loves you, abandon two people who love you, and at the same time give up your familiar environment, your friends, and so on. Do you think such a bet is worth it?

Also, have you considered letting him come to your city? Will he leave his parents for you?

If you choose to marry far away in the future, then you will meet your parents very rarely, although the traffic is very developed now, but you have your own family and have your own children, then you will find yourself busy, you will find that it is more difficult to go home, give up family affection to marry love, I do not agree.

I think it's worth marrying far away for love, and the two of you love each other. And your boyfriend has a great job in his city, and his salary is enough to support you and your family. And now that transportation technology is so advanced, even if it is far away from home, it can be reached quickly, so I don't think it's a big problem to support a family for love.

Whether it's worth it or not will take time to know, and if we were to tell you the answer now, it wouldn't be possible. This is also a test of your vision, whether your boyfriend is good or not, only you know. In fact, I think that whether the marriage is happy or not, whether it is worth it or not, is often not a question of marrying far away or not, if your boyfriend chooses well, you are happy even if you marry on the moon.

If it's not far away, even neighbors have to fight every day!

I feel that all distant marriages are not worth it, for a marriage that I don't know how, throw out all my hole cards, desperately struggle in marriage, really not rational enough, too far away from my parents, give up my original circle of friends, to live in a strange place, it takes great courage, and it is also an unknown distant marriage, I don't feel worth it.

A woman marries far away for love, whether it is worth it, then first of all, it depends on whether this man is worth it for you to do this, many times we women's sacrifices, until the last moment, we can't verify whether it is worth it, because no one can preset the variables of things. But to be honest, a woman can only be reliable if she has a good grasp of herself and has enough ability. Think about it, after marrying far away, when you are wronged, can you go out of the house and have such a place of your own to heal and cry.

Marrying far away will be far away from home, away from your parents, away from everything you are familiar with, because your boyfriend and his conditions are very good, but whether your boyfriend is good to you, whether he loves you or not, whether it is worth it for him to do this, there are too many unknowns in life, if the future life is unhappy and wronged, what can you do, that is your friends and parents are not around, so it is worth it, only you can give your own answer.

First of all, I think you choose the love you want instead of the distance, so what you care about is whether that person will be good to you in the future and whether it will disappoint you, so you are confused now, and then I think you can think clearly about whether your love with him is really indestructible, can it be worth your choice, first ask yourself what you think in your heart.