I envy one of my classmates, to be precise, envy, jealousy, hatred, what should I do

You have your advantages, don't be without confidence, but self-confidence is something you strive for, don't envy others, you won't make progress, you will have more inferiority! Study hard and make others envy you!

I don't know how old you are, but parents may have the difficulties of parents, as children do not need to share, but learn to understand, I believe that your parents will definitely take you there if all conditions allow. You can look at such things in front of your classmates a little more calmly, because as long as the family is together, you have to cherish it.

When you grow up, you will find that in fact, some things are so ridiculous, and the envy of the present is better to use it to work hard to change your future ......

What does other people's affairs have to do with you... Study hard, work hard in the future, and take yourself on trips

Take it as your prey and try to catch up with him and learn from his strengths. When you catch up with him, you won't be like that!

Those who are content are happy for a long time, have a calmer mind, suggest comparing with people who are worse than you, watch disaster movies, war movies, and those compared to envy, jealousy, hatred, and others are others.

Well, there are such classmates in our class. Gao Fushuai and his grades are okay Girls blush when they look at him, and I often envy, jealousy and hatred, but I think as long as I surpass him in everything, I will have an advantage in my grades. LZ stands up for you.

Try to appreciate him instead of being jealous of him, and trust that you will be good friends.

Envy, jealousy, and hatred are a kind of thoughts that everyone will have, don't take it to heart.

It's okay to be your true self, and if you can't, look for the shortcomings of others.

Every family is different, and being able to be with your parents every day is happiness. You can learn from her strengths.

Don't compare yourself to others, believe that you are the best!

Give your classmate a little money and ask him to take you there.

Don't envy others, children's lives are much better now than they used to be.

Study hard now.

You work hard to outperform him!

Don't compare your parents with others, but compare tomorrow with others.

Just be your truest self.

Everyone's life is different, and there's nothing to be jealous of.

Linyuan Muyu is better to retreat and close the net!

This is your friend and you should be proud.

You are unhappy because you want too much and are content to be happy.

It's normal in my heart that I won't care too much when I grow up.

Since we can't change the world, let's change ourselves more.

Summary. Teachers can appreciate and like children because children have their own strengths and strengths, and teachers see their own hope and value in children. It is normal for students to be jealous, but we should learn to appreciate and encourage each other, and respect the teacher's love and dedication to everyone.

Prove yourself through hard work and growth, so that teachers, classmates, and families are proud of yourself.

Teachers can appreciate and like children because children have their own advantages and specialties, and teachers see their own hope and value in children. It is normal for students to be jealous, but we should learn to appreciate and encourage each other, and respect the teacher's love and dedication to everyone. Prove yourself through hard work and growth, so that teachers, classmates and families are proud of themselves.

I'm still a little confused, can you be more detailed?

The teachers cared about me and often praised me for doing a good job. This made other classmates jealous of me. But I understood the teacher's intention, she didn't want to compare us with each other, but wanted us all to make progress.

I will work harder to live up to the expectations of my teachers and classmates. At the same time, they also pass on the teacher's intentions to other students, learn from each other and make progress together.

Summary. If you are a good person, it is not surprising that it is common to be jealous. If you are envied, it means that you are excellent and you should be proud.

On the contrary, those who are jealous of you should be laughed at by you. Put on a high posture, if you are not like that, don't listen to others, you are you, and despise the person who says bad things about you. Don't make him too complacent, because you two know in your hearts who is really mean.

If a classmate is jealous of him, and he doesn't want to say it. But I feel that he is jealous (that is, it is certain), what should I do?

If you are a good person, it is not surprising that it is common to be jealous. If you are envied, it means that you are excellent and you should be proud. On the contrary, those who are jealous of you should be laughed at by you.

Put on a high posture, if you are not like that, don't listen to others, you are you, and despise the person who says bad things about you. Don't make him too complacent, because you two know in your hearts who is really mean.

He is jealous, which means that you are excellent in some aspects and better than him. You should be confident, communicate with him, and help him catch up. Your sincerity will influence him to turn envy into envy as an example and make progress together. In this way, I not only revisited the friendship between classmates but also strengthened friendship.

But look at the way he is sad or something. I'm so sad too.

I don't know how to save.

Kiss, if these things are these things, there is no need to say it explicitly, you can help him grow slowly behind your back.

Always be there for him, encourage him, and make him a good person like you.

Summary. Mine: Don't bother.

If a classmate is jealous of him, and he doesn't want to say it. But I feel that he is jealous (that is, it is certain), what should I do?

Mine: Don't bother.

Mine: Don't overthink it, just do it?

My: As long as it doesn't hurt you, don't worry about it so much.

Mine: I can feel that you are very confused and anxious now, so if it is convenient for you to tell me about your specific situation

However, he was very unhappy.

I want to reconnect with us.

That's because of something.

Is it the opposite sex or the same sex?

Gay. They weren't particularly strong in their minds, but one day I suddenly surpassed him.

Suddenly I couldn't accept it.

I didn't say anything on the surface, but it was still difficult to accept it in my heart.

Then, he was upset, and it made me very uncomfortable. After all, it's classmates.

Do you think so?

Did you think so, or did he show it?

Manifest it. That's a tough way to do that.

This solves the problem.

Because I haven't surpassed him before, this time I suddenly surpassed him, and it was difficult to accept it in my heart.

If your previous friendship is still good!

This kind of thing is understandable. Yes, it can be solved.

But sometimes you don't have to be too simple.

Do you have such a feeling in life, those who are on the same starting line as themselves, or who have a lower starting line than themselves, are rising step by step in their careers, like a fish in water in life, with higher incomes than you, and fewer things than you. The sense of superiority in your heart is replaced by the current light of the other party, and the emotions of envy, jealousy and hatred will inevitably poke your heart from time to time.

If you disdainfully say, "I have never felt envy, jealousy, and hatred for others". Do you want me to praise you as a saint or do you want me to believe you?

People who are not sages will have seven emotions and six desires, all kinds of small emotions, small temperaments and miscellaneous things, I don't believe that you have not had the psychology of "unconvinced" and "uncomfortable". Today we are not going to talk about the sages, but we are mainly talking about how to channel the negative emotions that everyone will have into positive energy.

Of course, our hearts are very transparent, there are so many excellent people in the world, everyone is envious, jealous and hateful? With so many blast holes, are you going to be cannon fodder? In fact, have you ever thought about it, even those people you think are on the same starting line as you or are more scum than you, are your imagination.

Your cognition may only stay on the surface, in fact, you choose to turn a blind eye to their efforts; In fact, you are just the same family, age, and education, and each other's experiences and perceptions cannot be copied; In fact, there are people who go to bed earlier and wake up earlier than you, who do more than you think, who are more confident than you and are not sensitive, who are more responsible and do not care about ...... than youDo you dare to say that you are on the same starting line?!

Therefore, to be envied, jealous and hated, we must learn to recognize ourselves as the beginning of self-optimization.

This is quite normal

Jealousy is a negative emotional experience that causes resistance due to others being better than oneself. When you see that others are better than you, your heart is sour, and you will have a complex emotion that contains hatred and envy, anger and resentment, suspicion and disappointment, humiliation and vanity, and sadness and grief, and this emotion is jealousy. The jealous person cannot tolerate others surpassing him, and is afraid that others will get fame, status, etc., which he cannot obtain, and in his opinion, others should not do what he cannot do, and what he cannot get, others should not get.

The degree of jealousy varies from shallow to deep, and the shallower degree of jealousy is often hidden deep in people's subconscious and is not easy to detect. For example, if you are good friends with a classmate, his academic performance and ability are strong, and he does not want to attack his good friend, but he always feels a little sour in his heart. And a deeper degree of jealousy will be consciously or unconsciously manifested, such as picking on classmates who are more capable than themselves, spreading rumors, and framing them.

Jealousy not only affects physical and mental health, but also affects study and work. Strong jealousy directly affects people's emotions, and bad emotions can greatly reduce the efficiency of study or work. In addition, jealousy can prevent us from making close friends.

Jealous people tend to be competitive in everything, often trying to stop the development of others, and always want to overpower others. This may make classmates and friends want to avoid you and not associate with you. As a result, you will create a bad interpersonal atmosphere for yourself, and you will feel lonely and lonely.

How to overcome? 1.Cultivate an open-minded attitude towards life, be open-minded, and understand that "there is a sky outside the sky, and there are people outside the world", and "the strong have their own strong hands", which is an objective law.

2.Divert your attention and give yourself a reason not to be jealous.

When we have so much to do, we don't have time to be jealous of others. Therefore, actively participate in all kinds of beneficial activities, study hard, work diligently, and make yourself truly fulfilled, then the poison of jealousy will not breed and spread. In order to alleviate the psychological imbalance caused by your failure, you can find some reasons to stop being jealous of others.

3.See your strengths and turn jealousy into motivation.

When a person is jealous of others, he always pays attention to the good in others, but he cannot pay attention to what he is better than others. In fact, everyone is inferior to others, and when others surpass us in some aspects, we can consciously think about what we are better than the other party, so that our unbalanced psychological balance will be restored to a balanced state.

In short, it's not terrible to be jealous of others, the key is to see if you can face up to jealousy. You might as well use the strong superconsciousness of jealousy to work hard, sublimate this jealousy, turn jealousy into the motivation for success, turn negativity into positive, and surpass others!

Calm down and work your own.