Why do people who have only known each other for a few months get married, have such strong hearts?

Thank you for the invitation: What is love, isn't it a person who looks at each other and pleases each other, can think with you, work together, can be attached to each other, and rely on each other? I don't talk about love in a big way, I just tell the truth.

About whether the flash marriage is married to love, this question can not be generalized, love at first sight is not non-existent, you don't believe that it may be that you have not met to make you rush, as soon as you see each other, there is an urge to marry each other, love is originally a deep thing in the soul, you can't see or grasp, but we can feel each other's love and care. So whether it's a flash marriage or a long time of dating, as long as you have love in your heart, you're married to love, and it's hard to say what will happen in the future? No matter what kind of marriage it is, as long as you are happy at the moment, if you want to have long-term love, then manage your love for a long time!

The reason for flash marriage, there is joy, there are aspects of being attracted, there are also social experience, life experience is not rich and other reasons, like to show off happiness, in fact, showing off happiness itself, because the sense of security in the heart is too low, and there are ulterior secrets behind showing off.

Love can be zero-based, but marriage can't, love can not care about a person's growth experience, but marriage can't, love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families, the standard of a happy marriage can not be limited to love, perfect and happy marriage only exists in fairy tales, real marriage can not tolerate too many beautiful fantasies for you, flash marriage is a fantasy of marriage and heartbeat, a fantasy of mutual perfection in love, wonderful design and hope for happiness in fantasy, The sweetness of fantasy covers up the low IQ of ignorance of each other.

The three views and thinking patterns of the marriage partner must be paid attention to. It's not that I don't agree with flash marriage, but there are too many hidden dangers that flash marriage needs to face, not everyone has the ability and confidence to resolve them all, love can be kissed romantically, and marriage needs reality and strength, the understanding of a person is endless, and it will go deeper and deeper in a long married life, so the in-depth understanding before marriage, the love process is very important, the outlook on life is inconsistent, married life is difficult to maintain, values, consumption outlook, and moral outlook are inconsistent, there will be many contradictions in marriage, and contradictions appear repeatedly, Friction again and again will consume the happiness of marriage.

Flash marriage mostly means that men and women have known each other for a short time and get married quickly. In fact, in the past, many marriages formed by the orders of parents and matchmakers were mostly flash marriages, and most of them ended from one to the end, from white heads to old age. According to the current parlance, it is to get married first and then fall in love.

In my opinion, it is three points of fate and seven points of operation. Why is it that many free love times are not short now, and some even go through marathons and long-distance runs and end up failing? There is no fate, and the management is not good!

Therefore, marriage is based on love, and love is focused on business. It's not a question of how fast you get married.

Flash marriage, it's like going to a restaurant to eat, looking good, and then ordering; Flash marriage: mainly embodied in young men and women between the ages of 20-30! After a brief acquaintance, the two got married hastily; They didn't have a relationship for a while, and got to know each other!

This kind of marriage is actually blind and impulsive! Not too strict about marriage; As for whether to marry "love", there is no way to talk about it; Some of these "flash marriage families", in order to meet temporary emotional needs, treat marriage as a "painkiller" that can be waved at a moment's notice, which is regrettable; Marriage: It is the foundation for maintaining social development and social harmony!

It needs to be approached with caution; Personal suggestion, entering the palace of marriage, you need to be cautious to review! "Flash marriage" does not have a process of understanding each other, and the road to marriage may not be very stable!

Nowadays, most people are in free love, the longer they are in love, the more likely they are to break up, because after a long time, they understand each other thoroughly, a good man meets a bad woman, that is an unfortunate thing, a good woman meets a bad man is also a bad thing, only a good man meets a good woman, a good woman meets a good man, that is a happy thing.