What is the mentality of people who see you wearing less and ask you if you are not cold?

People in life often see you wearing less clothes and ask you, "Isn't it cold?" "Although I know how to be warm and cold, I don't have much to do with others. But there are some people who like to ask this, and different people, when they ask this, have different mentalities and meanings. <>

For example, when we were young, in order to pursue beauty, many people liked to wear less in winter, men for pretending, and women for looking good. If the parents at home see it, the first thing they say is "Aren't you cold", most of them are out of concern, afraid that you will catch a cold. And there will be the following after asking, "Hurry up and dress me".

If you are naughty, you will run away past your parents, and you will be caught by your parents, so you have to add clothes unwillingly.

So when you go out and meet the familiar and unfamiliar, if you feel that you are wearing less clothes at the first glance, you will also ask, "Aren't you cold?" "Some people just say hello. We Chinese greet not like foreigners, always chatting, Chinese greet a lot, eat?

They don't really want to know if you've eaten it. And ask you "Where are you going?" "They don't really want to know about your itinerary, it's just a form of greeting without anything to talk to.

So asking you "isn't it cold" is also a kind of greeting, and they don't really care too much about whether it's cold or not. It's just that when I see you for the first time, I think you're wearing less, so I just say hello with concern by the way.

If you say, "It's not cold," they'll think "what's the calf?" If you say, "It's a little cold", they will think, "I'm glad I wear a lot", or some people who do care about you will say, "Why don't you wear more, don't give you a cold". <

For example, my child has experienced two winters, and each time I take the baby out in the winter. No matter how much you dress your child, there will always be people who feel that they are wearing less, especially the elderly. Often hold your child in the cold wind, and when you pass by the elderly, they will always chatter and educate you, isn't it cold to wear so little for your child?

Don't freeze your child. Of course, most of the elderly are well-intentioned and worried about freezing their children.

But there are also some elderly people who are just lamenting that young people nowadays will not take children at all. I think that such an elderly person must have a daughter-in-law at home who she doesn't like, so when she sees me going out with her child in her arms, no matter how much she wears, she will say that it is cold. Because once I heard an old lady say to another old lady, "It's not okay for young people to take care of children."

I simply ignored her, she was so poor at resisting the cold that she thought everyone else should wear as much as she did.

There is also a situation, that is, in the cold winter, you wear less, but it is not cold at all, and you walk very indifferently, and a person walks in front of you, wrapped in thick cotton clothes, and shivering from the cold. When he saw you, he was surprised and casually asked "Aren't you cold", mainly to express "Why do I feel so cold". You will have a tendency to be suspicious of your own cold behavior.

Whether it is cold or not, only the parties themselves know. Most of the people who ask questions are casual questions, so we don't have to take them too seriously.

Some people really care about you and worry about whether you will freeze. In fact, they are just habitually caring about others, and their focus is only on whether you will feel cold, and there is no other meaning at all. Well, this kind of person is the good old man we often talk about, not to mention, sometimes I really think that it feels good that someone cares, but sometimes, I will think, uh, is it too much to care!

And some people, purely out of curiosity, after all, it's a cold day, and everyone else is wrapped like a dumpling, just you wear it like a hemp pole. Therefore, if they have a curious heart, they will naturally care about the question of whether you are cold or not, and maybe he will be able to publish an article "On a Person's Greatest Cold Resistance" when he comes back. So, tell them how you really feel and encourage them to experience it for themselves!

There's another kind of person, I think she's jealous. She is jealous that you can be beautiful on a cold day, and she can only wrap herself in three layers and three layers outside like a bear, and this is not enough, she still wants to carry an incense burner in her hand! That's why she asked sourly if you wouldn't be cold if you wore so little.

Hey, after all, it's beautiful and frozen, everything has a price! However, I really can't get used to her sourness, so you just reply to her: You try it yourself, I have a half-dime relationship with you!

Anyway, I'm quite helpless about this matter. I think it's not a child anymore, how to dress is your own business, and I know the problem of hot and cold, so I really don't need others to care. And, most of the time, it is estimated that the person who is asked has in mind:

It's your business! Do you live by the sea? So, just take care of yourself, don't worry about others, and try it yourself if you're really curious!

The concern of the closer person, the blunt or the closer relationship with the other party will naturally ask out of wonder about the other party's concern: Aren't you cold? This kind of person is actually more frank, they will express their truest thoughts very directly, and by no means hide, they are very sincere to the people they care about, and they are very heart-to-heart, so in the face of such people's inquiries, we should learn to be patient instead of looking impatient without saying a few words.

It's just a topic, but it's a question by the way, and I don't expect you at all. Most of these people are people who don't know you well and don't have much communication. They like to communicate with others and find a sense of existence in them, but in reality they don't have any ill intentions, just casual questions.

After asking, it is very likely that the next second they have forgotten what they just said, because they didn't actually take it to heart when they asked. By the way, why bother to see how you react? After they finished asking, they finished saying what they wanted to say, and their hearts felt happy, and there was no follow-up.

When such a person asks a question, his mentality is actually very indifferent, so he doesn't have to worry about it, just deal with it.

Most of them wear themselves very tightly, but in fact, they dislike their own dress, but for some reason they have to wear it like this. So at this time, when I see those people who are in the same environment as themselves but can dress beautifully and relaxed, an unbalanced psychology commonly known as "can't eat grapes and say that grapes are sour" began to come out to make trouble.

In the cold winter, you wear less, but it is not cold at all, you walk very indifferently, and a person walks in front of you, wrapped in thick cotton clothes, and shivering from the cold. When he saw you, he was surprised and casually asked "Aren't you cold", mainly to express "Why do I feel so cold". You will have a tendency to be suspicious of your own cold behavior.

Whether it is cold or not, only the parties themselves know. Most of the people who ask questions are casual questions, so we don't have to take them too seriously.

It should be a closer person, and if you are straightforward or close to the other party, you will naturally ask out of wonder and concern for the other party: Aren't you cold? This kind of person is actually more frank, they will express their truest thoughts very directly, and by no means hide, they are very sincere to the people they care about, and they are very heart-to-heart, so in the face of such people's inquiries, we should learn to be patient instead of looking impatient without saying a few words.