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Glad to answer this question for you. Seeing your description of this issue, my personal opinion and advice to you is this. First of all, you described whether the quarrel between couples is that girls like to cry and run away from home, and whether boys are not like this, and why?
First of all, boys and girls often quarrel. It's all girls crying. Because when they quarrel, boys are generally louder than girls.
The expression is fiercer than that of a girl. It is even said that there are some pushing and pulling movements that may lose the woman. If you send it to the woman, it will hurt him.
The girl has a fight with the guy and cries, so what do you think she should do and lock herself in the house. That's certainly not the case, it's normal to be like this as a boy. As a girl, she can give herself to this boy and let him be her boyfriend, which is 100% trust in him.
When there was a quarrel, the relationship was not so harmonious. He will think that this boy is fierce, he doesn't like him, and he doesn't love him. And there is no sense of security, because girls are generally less timid than boys from an early age.
Therefore, he no longer has this sense of security in his heart, and he has nowhere to vent his emotions. So what to do, he will find the people who love him the most and confide in them. Even if it's not clear.
He also wanted to be by their side and give himself some sense of security. That's his parents. As for boys, they are generally bold, brave, and strong since childhood.
Moreover, boys are generally independent, and they are much more able to withstand the blows of society than girls. So in the process of quarreling, the man basically didn't cry, and he wouldn't say that he ran away from home to find his parents to go back to his parents' house. It's common for girls to do this, and that's why it's happening.
That's my personal opinion and the answer for you. And then I will give you a suggestion, that is, try not to quarrel between boys and girls. When there are contradictions and misunderstandings, the two of them try to talk calmly.
In this way, there will be no crying and going back to my parents' house. Hopefully, this answer and suggestion will solve the confusion in your mind. Solve your problem.
Finally, I wish you a happy life.
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When couples quarrel with each other, it is true that girls are more likely to cry. And when you're angry, you run outside.
Boys may be more tolerant in this regard.
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Couples quarrel not because girls like to cry and run away from home, but sometimes there is no way to take such extreme measures.
Boys sometimes do the same, maybe they don't cry, but they choose to run away from home.
It is recommended that couples still get along with each other, so that it hurts each other's feelings after all.
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It is more dangerous for girls to run away from home, and it is a bit strange for boys to cry and make trouble.
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This is because after the quarrel, there are many boys who are irresponsible, and they can't coax their girlfriends in time, they are very lacking in responsibility, they will deal with their girlfriends, or they will use the cold war to treat their girlfriends, which is also a matter of character, and they want to pinch girls in this way.
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Mainly because girls feel that boys don't love themselves anymore after a quarrel and feel particularly wronged, so they cry, and boys feel that it is difficult to coax girls when they cry, so they want to hide.
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Because boys think that girls cry very irritably, boys don't want to coax girls, boys feel that hiding can make themselves quieter, so boys especially like to hide.
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In the case of this question, in fact, it is very normal to cry, and when we used to go to school, didn't it all cry when girls and couples quarreled? I think it's very normal, but the place of crying is different, some are inside the school, some are outside the school, in fact, I think it's normal to cry after a quarrel, quarrels are actually trivial things, really rational people won't quarrel, quarrels can't solve any problems, so if girls quarrel, then they can't solve any problems, that's it. So if I look at my opinion, then this is just a part of life, just an aspect of life, and then I have always thought that it is normal for girls to cry, and this has something to do with their personality.
In fact, I think it's very easy to understand the words of boys, one of the main reasons for boys is that one of the most common ways for boys is to lie in the boy's words, then he may be due to his character, or the most important feature of his character caused by character constraints is what kind of sex it is, in fact, many boys' character words are strong outside, so most of the distress of girls is at a loss, once they are at a loss, they naturally want to escape, The way to escape is to hide, in fact, this is a classic situation in a life, the classic lines are like this, I have been thinking about this problem, in fact, I think that the gap between boys and girls is just a personality gap, and it is not enough to explain the problem, that actually shows that they are a psychological factor, personality is just a superficial form of the heart, so I think this is a very common thing.
On the road of feelings, no one is smooth sailing, don't blame each other, the road of feelings is two people to work together, I have been thinking about this issue, I think the feelings, things are indeed like this, so the road of feelings will not be smooth sailing, on the contrary, we will encounter all kinds of setbacks, these setbacks sometimes will become more exciting.
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After a couple quarrels, girls cry and boys hide, some men don't know how to communicate with you, and two people are in a state of quarreling, their emotions will be unstable, and they may act excessively, maybe he thinks this is a trivial matter, and you may forget it in a few days, so there is no need to dwell on these. Maybe this man is very careless, very perfunctory, since the quarrel, it must be that everyone has disagreements or right and wrong, and I don't want to find the real reason to solve the problem In response to such a situation, I think two people need to communicate well after their emotions calm down, there is something to say, and solving the problem is fundamental, if the problem is not solved this time, it will be avoided next time, and the contradiction will deepen after a long time, which will eventually lead to immeasurable bad results.
People in love inevitably quarrel, because girls are born and feel weak, so the quarrel is mostly filled with boys apologizing and admitting their mistakes. If every time a boy quarrels, he escapes, no communication regardless of right or wrong, and passively accepts the girl's compromise, I think it is an act of no responsibility and no love. For such a boy, resolutely give up.
After a quarrel, take an evasive attitude, I think it is irresponsible, resigned attitude, waiting for the girl to take the initiative to show favor is that he does not love you enough, and it is also a manifestation of cowardice. There should be a consideration in your mind about whether you should leave early.
As your boyfriend should not see your sadness and crying, he should take the initiative to comfort you. Find and analyze the cause of the quarrel. There is a mistake to correct it.
No mistake encouragement. Grow together in life and learning. Progress together.
Care for each other and love each other. After this quarrel. Adopt an attitude of avoidance, non-communication, and non-problem-solving.
He is self-centered and allows events to unfold. Accumulated over a long period of time. It will make people feel more and more chilled.
Thus losing the confidence to live with him. If it's really because of your own reasons, your boyfriend avoids or ignores you, it's understandable. Therefore, love is a process of mutual tolerance and mutual understanding, if there is a problem, don't say that the other party is not, look at yourself, is it really perfect?
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This is because all couples have a certain amount of sameness in their mode of getting along, after the quarrel, the girl is more emotional that the boy does not love herself, will continue to nag, and cry unreasonably, the boy wants to hide, to alleviate the consequences of this quarrel.
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Because girls are more emotional, and girls are more detail-oriented, emotional fluctuations are more obvious, and girls are more emotional than boys, and boys are more inclined to be rational when dealing with things.
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This happens because it calms down both of them, and it also makes both the boy and the girl realize their mistakes, and it is best not to talk to each other during an argument.
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As a boy, you should let go of your machismo, you should take the initiative to be gentle, and then admit your mistakes, so that the girl does not leave, otherwise it will affect your relationship.
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At this time, boys should persuade girls not to let them run away from home alone, which is not safe.
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When a girl is about to run away from home, the man will be fine if he hugs her and coaxes her, don't be too face-conscious, otherwise he will watch her leave, and it will be even more difficult to coax her back in the future.
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At this time, the boy should immediately go out to chase the girl and follow the girl's itinerary, so as not to encounter danger when she is alone outside. The most important thing is to take the initiative to apologize to the girl.
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Boys should not let girls leave, after all, it is dangerous to go out after a quarrel, and you should calm down and have a good conversation, and don't always run away at every turn.
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Coaxing her, most girls run away from home not really to run away from home, but just want to get the attention of their boyfriends.
No, occasional quarrels have a good effect on feelings.
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