What should I do if I am very unwilling after a breakup?

Updated on society 2024-03-17
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Feelings are a very mysterious thing, many people have experienced feelings, and they always feel unwilling when they break up. So do you really love her and can't let go of it, so you're unwilling? Or do you feel wronged?

    Or do you feel unfair about how much you give? Seek out the reasons for the relationship inward, and hope that the following methods can help you to some extent.

    1.Emotional transfer method

    People are always easy to remember what they have paid, because they have really paid, and it is normal to be unwilling for a while after experiencing a breakup. After all, you don't get the final emotional reward for your efforts, but the personal experiences of the two of you can still cancel out what you call "real results". Try to calm down and think about how the next person can live their lives to be happier, rather than lingering in this dead relationship.

    Try to do something, relax, travel, see the scenery, and slowly relax, maybe the mood will be much better. <>

    2.Self-regulation

    If you're slow to forget, try to get back to the root and try to find out what caused the relationship to break down. Don't say you don't blame yourself, the breakup is the result of two people working together. Therefore, take out the things that two people have experienced and carefully analyze them and find the ultimate reason, so that you will be relieved, and it will also help you get along in your next relationship.

    3.Seek outside help

    If you don't want to do anything and can't do anything on your own because of your emotions, consider asking for outside help. For example, some professional emotional counselors, or their own friends, ask outsiders to help you analyze and answer, so as to alleviate your bad emotions in this relationship. <>

    Everyone is afraid of losing, and they always feel unwilling at first, thinking that they will always be with them as they imagined, and never leave. But as you grow up, you'll find thatLoneliness is the normal state of life, and an emotional frustration is actually nothing, and it can't even stir up a wave in the long river of life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Rely on it. You men.

    Please think about why the woman broke up with you and resent her.

    Please also think about whether you are doing badly!!

    Don't just think that people are bad.!

    And also. Your love should be properly expressed. Or how would she know.

    Don't take her care for granted.

    A woman who can take care of others also needs to be taken care of by others.

    Especially their own men.

    And Ang!! She may have been tired.

    Please have a good talk with her!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    And it seems the same with me.

    Forehead!! So did you break up? Are you still in love?

    If you love each other, you don't need to have any other material things involved, otherwise it will be difficult to make decisions.

    If she doesn't love you anymore, what else will she barely do? In vain, sad.

    What's yours is yours, it's not that you can't force it!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's up to you, if you are unwilling, find a way to redeem it, and when there is no hope, give up, it's very simple, you can be persistent, but don't be too persistent.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This is the realm of love.

    Her realm is higher than yours, and her love is great love.

    Breaking up is not about not loving, but about making you happy.

    Maybe there's some secret you don't know.

    Your love is a little love, and being together is love. Hehe.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't have low self-esteem, don't hate yourself, you should put these behind.

    Strive to make yourself excellent, the so-called unwillingness can become your motivation

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    A woman's promise, you should let it go, there's nothing unwilling.

    Find another one.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I want to know what is going on, he can't have broken up inexplicably.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Remember to tune in on time!

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