Why is it so hard to love someone? Heart rending love! Love to the point that it hurts??

Updated on psychology 2024-03-17
4 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When you like someone, you want to be with him because he will bring you joy; After leaving, you will miss, laugh at the thought of it, and then move on with your peaceful life and look forward to seeing him again.

    When you love someone and you want to be with him, it is a kind of reluctance to worry about him, afraid that he will be wronged, afraid that he will not be able to take good care of himself; After leaving. You'll miss too, thinking about it and sighing"I wonder how he's doing now? "Then you continue your peaceful life, hoping that he will return to you soon.

    The person you like is an angel in your eyes, omnipotent, and he will always satisfy your wayward requirements.

    The person you love is a child in your eyes, silly, and you don't expect anything from him"Good thing"come, just blindly condone his actions that make people laugh and cry. You will want the person you like to be with you, but you may have the person you love in mind; You will want to be by your loved one's side, and you will smile and feel so happy when you see him sleeping so comfortably and sweetly in front of you.

    If someone you like hurts you, you will be angry, and you must let him coax you to make you laugh before you forgive him;

    The person you love hurts you, you will only be sad alone, because you are afraid that yelling at him will scare him, you smile sadly, look into his eyes, once you find that his eyes show apology and remorse, you will immediately feel distressed and hug him in your arms, at that moment, you are also happy.

    You can like many people at the same time, and you will want to be with many people, but maybe after many years you realize that there is only one person you love, just that one, and it will not change, and you think you have forgotten him, but in fact you are just busy and have no time to remember.

    For the person you like, you focus on his merits; For the person you love, you focus on his shortcomings, and those shortcomings are lovely and unique to you, if they are not principled. Like and love is actually only a piece of paper apart, any love starts with liking, when one day you suddenly find that the person you like is no longer perfect in your eyes, and his flaws are like the laurel shadow in the moon makes you more reluctant, you will feel that compared with his radiant side, you are more willing to see his helpless expression in front of you, I don't know if you should congratulate you, in short, your feelings are sublimated

    Admiration is not love, not even liking, when you only have admiration for someone, you lose harmony together.

    Some people say that it is tiring to love someone, and it is true that it is because you want to bear it for him, but the biggest charm of love compared to liking is that when you are with the person you love, you feel like you are home!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It will be very difficult and bitter and will not annoy people, but people will increase pressure on themselves and ask for troubles. It should be a very happy thing to love someone and laugh and guess.

    We all know that love represents a kind of responsibility, love is a kind of unconditional giving and sacrifice, love is endless and never lost, love is not not to reciprocate, and the return of love is the other party's eternal happiness and luck. And the happiness of the other party is your happiness, and the happiness of the other party is your happiness, and you should be happy with her happiness and happiness with her.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love doesn't need any reason! Falling in love can start just 1 second ago!

    If you love someone, you can give everything!

    It's all your own business, there is no right or wrong, as long as you want to, you can do it if you are brave enough to express it.

    It's just that when you love someone, there will be the following 3 situations, if you love someone, the other party will also love you, and most of them will be sweet.

    Love someone, the other party doesn't know, most of them are sour.

    If you love someone, the other party doesn't love you, and most of them are bitter.

    Therefore, it is not difficult to love someone, but the difficult thing is whether you can get the happiness you want! This is also the reason why people feel tired and suffering!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    To love someone is to trust each other.

    To love someone is to understand each other.

    To love someone, you have to be tolerant with more heart.

    To love someone is to be open-minded.

    To love someone is to respect the other person's thoughts and opinions.

    To love someone, you need to support him or her behind your back, not to block them.

    When you love someone and you have to face that he (she) can't accompany you, don't complain, and say to him (her) with a smile that I'm very good and happy.

    To love someone, you have to hide your inner fragility and grievances, and don't let him (her) know.

    Love someone There is too much love, maybe some people can't do it.

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