I fell out of love, I was very unwilling, and I asked an emotional psychologist who could better exp

Updated on psychology 2024-03-03
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I can understand your feelings very well, and I slowly came out of the broken love, maybe it hurt more than you at that time! I keep thinking about it every day, it hurts and I am unwilling to think about it, but time will really make you forget the pain, really, although it is very cheesy, it will really help you grow.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Feelings can't be forced.

    Now that we've broken up.

    Then love yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's useless for others to say more, it just takes time

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I also fell out of love, very unwilling, very painful, but I can only say to myself that you can't run away, it's not that you can't force it, if you have a fate, he will definitely come back to me again, and if you don't have a chance, I can't help it!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Looking ahead, life goes on.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Everything is fate, you can't run, it's not your reluctance and it's useless.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    What's unwilling, are you the first time to fall out of love, the first time you fall out of love, everyone is heartbroken, it's good for a long time,

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Broke up impulsively. It's too late to regret it.

    If it can be recovered, why not recover?

    What face is still being taken care of here?

    Why is your ex-girlfriend suddenly so much prettier?

    Maybe it's a sign of your dead heart.

    She had saved her feelings. You refused.

    Women dress themselves up at such times to make themselves more beautiful.

    A lot of times, it's a decision to start over.

    To make the previous one he regret.

    But unless you love deeply. Otherwise. There will be no going back.

    You're still looking out for your face. Scold.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can't just have one girlfriend in your life, and the next relationship will be even better.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    How severe it is. You feel yourself.

    What is the daily life and work situation, you can tell me.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I'm not a professional, but I read a lot of romance, I don't know if I can help you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In fact, for the current society, falling out of love is a very normal thing. Of course, it will be very painful at first, and there will be a heart-rending pain! But when your heart hurts, you can't help but think about it, hey!

    It's good to leave you now, if I wait until I get married and then leave you, it will be miserable! It's all going to pass, so I'm going to have a good time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This question is, how can it be so easy to let go if you really love, since you can't let go, go and keep it

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Falling out of love is simply losing someone who doesn't love you while your love is still there.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's not a big deal, look at yourself Now that it's over, it's impossible, why can't you let it go, time is good medicine.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In fact, it's very simple, everything depends on yourself! It's like this in everything, as long as you have the right mentality, how can you not do something bad? You can also think of it this way, you are happy for a day, and if you are unhappy, you are not a day, so why not be happy?

    I sincerely hope that you will be brave enough to walk out of your own way!

    It is inevitable to encounter emotional trauma, such as falling out of love.

    Or, that person, is also forced by reality, or, that person, is not worth your crying.

    In short, we have to smile well.

    If you are sad, then arrange your day to the fullest, even if you have no friends to accompany you, no class to add, sit quietly in the fast food restaurant and do what you want to do, and feel that it will not be bad there.

    Don't let yourself isolate yourself and make yourself more lonely;

    If you are bored, call old friends, have the opportunity to go out to climb mountains, hang out, brag, and ask more friends the better, or even friends of friends, then you will find that today, you have another friend, today, and find another fun If you want to cry, look at those poor people around you who have no food, look at those who have no food and shelter, and can't afford to fall in love at all, you are luckier than them, because you have at least tasted love, but they may not have the opportunity to know in their lifetime.

    Look at those who have been in love for several years and parted ways, and those who have been married and divorced for several years, do you really think, are you pathetic?

    If you still can't let go, then cry, you have the right to cry, but after crying, you have to smile, there are many people in this world, born without parents, born unsound, born with illness, born with no chance to go to school, born with war, born with life and death, b they don't even have the opportunity to shed tears...

    Therefore, we have to face the loss of love with a smile;

    If that person is also involuntarily, then you should live a life with a smile for him, because this is also what he wants to see;

    If that person is not worth it, then you have to take good care of yourself, and be glad that you have been given the opportunity to wait for someone who will really cherish you early with a grateful heart, and in the face of broken love, you will find that in fact, you are still a shining star.

    In fact, you can still live with a smile.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This man should be emotionally inferior, he is angry with you, and the man will also be angry, you can cold him for a while, and then take the initiative to communicate with him, if your relationship can really withstand the wind and rain, you can get through, if you can't withstand the wind and rain, what is the point of insistence?

    However, two people get along with each other to run in with each other, rather than letting one party give way to the other. People are not gods, they all have the limit of patience, they will be tired, it is a happy thing to play friends, if the other party feels that they are tired, then what reason do people have to persevere.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Poor you can still laugh at the end.

    This boy can tolerate you for two years, he is already very good, but it's a pity that he is as stupid as you but still doesn't know how to cherish it, do you really want to use regret after losing it?

    You eat his ex-girlfriend's vinegar to show that you value him, but after a long time, why can't you see that he is wholeheartedly devoted to you now? You admit that you have a fierce mouth, you must be very strong with him. Have you ever considered how a man feels inside?

    Every time you accuse him from above, you have thought that all he has in his heart is resentment, and the good for you will be worn out little by little. Your mother will naturally stand more in your position, and will inevitably be psychologically biased towards you, and two people love each other, mutual understanding is very important, if one is always strong enough to fly, one endures humiliation, then, either he endures for a lifetime, or, to his bottom line, he will not give you a chance to turn back and stay.

    Therefore, I suggest you, because seeing that you asked this question, you must still be in love with him in your heart, but your brain can't turn for a while, and he didn't directly say to break up, maybe he hasn't completely reached the bottom line, you may still have a chance, take the initiative, you have to think, your occasional low profile with each other, it is not only a relationship that eases up, but also the happiness of your life.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    For example, if she is out of love and in a bad mood, you can tell her that the road is not smooth, and people are not painful and do not know hurt...As for your situation, I don't know, you can try to add q774633475 I think you should know what it is.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Both of you have problems.

    You have to communicate well and summarize what you don't like about each other, and if you can change it, you can continue to be together If you can't change it, you can only say that you are not suitable, otherwise you will be tired to death.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Momentary anger is impulsive, everyone regrets it afterwards, I'm afraid that the impulse will be caused, I'm afraid that it can't be recovered, you call him ** to see what he means now, and how to be angry, if you don't get angry, you have to continue to deal with it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    。His QQ password has never been changed, and now he will change it when he quarrels. Of course, I changed it first.

    You changed it first and said a piece of.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It is recommended to make it clear in person, it is not recommended to always say over and over again about the things that have been dealt with, and any man will not accept it, if you accept it, maybe you will get worse, or maybe you feel that he is not interesting, isn't it? Calmly hit **, make an appointment to talk, if he can be good to you, he will definitely accept your invitation, man, the important thing is responsibility, if he has a sense of responsibility, he will not let you be so sad alone, I wish you happiness!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's very simple, a few words, he doesn't love you anymore, he can accept all of you when he loves you, and when he doesn't love it, he feels tired and annoyed when he looks at it, and he won't quarrel and persuade him.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I haven't fallen in love yet, I'm already dying in the bud, do it well, life has to go on, and the future is coming for us.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Extremely boring, self-seeking troubles, shallow thinking, unable to grasp the key points, constantly interrupting, and missing opportunities.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I don't quite understand what you're asking, looking at your details, you don't seem to have broken up? Is it just a little bit of a feud? If you can't stand the other person, don't be with him, if you feel that you love him and can endure anything, then you can bear it!

    In fact, you can't keep talking about his previous girlfriend in the first place, the current girlfriend is you, what's the use of saying before, it's not worth arguing because of someone who is no longer in your life! You said that in this case, why is he still with you, he loves you, is it now to the point where he can't bear it? Think about it, if you grow old with him and blame each other like this every day, do you live, or if you put yourself in his shoes, what does he think, if he loves you, you love him, then everything is simple.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    The relationship is originally between two people.,Parents shouldn't interfere too much.,But I don't have a good impression of the kind of boy who says his girlfriend is bad.,But,The relationship itself is slowly tossed to achieve a positive result.。 Well, I'm talking about it, I hope you can understand.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I would like to start by asking about your age.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You're in danger. Because I've had that experience just like you. Think about it yourself, is he really worthy of your love.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Listen to the song Stroll to find the next lover Time is the best medicine.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Try to change yourself slowly and I'm sure you can do it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's not called a broken love, it's called a crush, you haven't confessed it from beginning to end, she doesn't know you like her, you try to contact him, see if she remembers you, see if you have a chance, if they fall in love, you bless them, be a man, you have to be able to afford to put it down.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    A few days before answering the question, I received a confession from a high school classmate. He said he had a crush on me for seven years. I said, don't say I don't have feelings for him, even if I really liked him before, I won't accept him, at most, it's a little turbulent in my heart, but the past is over after all, and now I want him to abandon his current boyfriend and go with you?

    I would say that if you confess, there are only two results: 1 You are rejected. 2 She was so ashamed that she didn't choose either.

    If there is a third possibility, that is, she chooses you, then you are really not afraid, one day, you will have the same ending as her current boyfriend?

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    You're just like me. Why were you so "stupid" in the first place? ”.Calm.

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