What should the elders do wrong? What can be said?

Hehe, it seems that you are still a pretty good person to worry about. It's really a scripture that is difficult to read.

Presumably you are not too young, and you can have your own clear views and judgments about people and things. In fact, you have seen things very clearly, but because he is an uncle, I don't know how to get along.

First of all, the conflict between your uncle and your uncle and your father is the problem of their older generation, no matter how well they handle it, you had better not take the initiative to comment, let alone take the initiative to conflict with your uncle. Because you're a junior after all.

Secondly, not commenting does not mean that you don't ask, and you must have a clear attitude towards your uncle's family. Once it makes trouble in your family, affects your life, or your father can't cope with it, you must passively stand up and speak up to protect the legitimate rights and interests of your family. The reason is obvious, and there is no need to accommodate him too much just because he is an elder.

Finally, we should pay attention to the development of the situation and, within our own capabilities, try our best to avoid the intensification of contradictions and even the occurrence of unfortunate tragedies. Your father and uncle may sometimes be emotional, so be sure to persuade them not to do things out of the ordinary on the spur of the moment. Among them, you should communicate with your father more, and if you have good ideas and ideas, you should discuss them with your uncle and solve them, and try not to come forward yourself.

In short, observe more, think more, talk less, and come out less. As for the black and white things you say, respect your father's opinion, and not let it be your own nature. Of course, you can also discuss it with your father.

You can sue them, or you can 3--1 per person. Thank you.

Personally, I think that after the elders make mistakes, they still need to apologize to the juniors. Many elders think that they are elders, older than juniors, and even if they make mistakes, they do not need to apologize to their juniors. But in fact, this approach is wrong.

It is precisely because it is the elders who make the mistake that it is more necessary to apologize to the younger ones. Because it is the elders who do the wrong thing, not the juniors. When the younger generation is hurt by what the elders have done, but the elders are indifferent, do not feel that what they are doing is wrong, and have no repentance at all, it will deepen the gap between the younger generations and the elders.

This sense of estrangement will not be diminished with one's own growth, but will become stronger with the increase of time.

Moreover, this will also make the younger generation feel particularly hurt, is it because it is the elder who made the mistake that can not apologize? This will also make them form the wrong three views to a certain extent. It will make them think later in life that even if they are wrong, they do not need to apologize to the other party.

Because you are older than the other person, you can reduce the process of apologizing to the other party. This will make them realize that they are wrong in their later lives, and they will take it for granted.

When an elder has done something wrong, the right thing to do is to apologize to the junior. And tell the younger generation that people are not sages, everyone makes mistakes sometimes, and even perfect people will have the experience of making mistakes. So, even if you're older than you, you can make mistakes.

It's not a terrible thing to make mistakes, as long as you can face up to your mistakes and correct them in time. The scary thing is that you already know that what you are doing is wrong, but you still don't repent and continue to make yourself wrong, which will increase the cost of making mistakes.

I believe that after the above introduction, you should know whether you should apologize to your juniors when they make mistakes. In fact, it is nothing to apologize to the juniors, but it can make the juniors feel that you are a person who can distinguish between right and wrong.

I think it is needed, after all, the younger generation is also dignified, and he cannot have privileges just because he is an elder. So whoever you are, if you have a mistake, you have to admit it, you have to apologize, you have to ask for forgiveness.

I think the elders need to apologize to the juniors, because the elders are in a role model position, and if they blindly make mistakes and do not apologize, they may give the juniors a bad example and may mislead the juniors' cognition.

I don't think there is a need to apologize, but it is also necessary to have a good attitude, admit your mistakes, and let the younger generations realize that the elders will make mistakes.

Hello I am glad to be able to your question, I hope mine is helpful to you 1-First of all, it is okay but it can not be said by many people in front of you, you need to say it behind your back. But generally you don't want to admit that you will be anxious, so you have to be mentally prepared 2 - some young people may not be able to distinguish, because some things are not seen on the surface, and they will not see the consequences of the wrong effect in the short term. Back to your question ability, can you refute and correct the elders, you can, but pay attention to the way and means, you are so straightforward in public that you pay attention to me, what is the matter, you can consult directly or send me a private message, I see that I will reply to you as soon as possible, if it is convenient for you, please help give a thumbs up, thank you.

To tell the truth, you just have to listen to what he says and don't care about what he says, you don't have to demolish people in person, which will make people unable to get off the stage, so he will be angry.

For the elders, it is still not possible to remind them openly, it is best to hint that sometimes, the elders who are a little anxious, if you say him directly, he will say that you are not filial or something, and will scold you, because some elders still have a more feudal view.

Although you are not wrong, du is Chinese reasonable, orderly, or still.

There is a version of the DAO. Although he is wrong, you can implicitly say that so many people are there, and if you say that, he will feel shameless. It will also appear that you are uneducated and jealous of his daughter.

So even if what you say makes sense, your dad has to talk about you, otherwise your relative is really faceless and sitting there, don't worry too much, there is such a kind of person like your relative, who always likes to show the strengths of his family, and everyone has everyone's value. Even if his daughter earns 20,000, and what about earning 100,000 and million, what is there to compare? Pedantic, sassy.

Nagato is wrong, that is, no matter who is wrong, then it has to be corrected, why is no one wrong, and he can't be wrong.

It's not that Bai said that the elder was wrong, it's just that he wants to explain in front of everyone that her daughter is doing well, and he also wants you to be a little better Although it is a bit exaggerated, but the intention is good, and you pointed it out in front of everyone, which makes him very embarrassed, you can change the way, and it is not too late to talk about it when you are alone with him, after all, he is your elder, and it should be an elder who likes you, change people, maybe he doesn't want to say it yet.

This issue is revisited from both sides, and from the perspective of the lying system alone, no matter what special status it is, it should be pointed out and exposed. Yours.

Zhi's relatives said that her daughter opened 20,000.

If the DAO lies every month, then the lie can be euphemistically denied. On the other hand, if the relative is from the perspective of educating their children, and does not deliberately belittle the intention, but just wants to explain the reason for trying to change their lives, there is no need to dwell too much on the harm of lies, but should humbly accept the expectations of your elders and their predictions for your future life

This kind of person is obviously here to show off, and she will definitely be happy if you praise his daughter and praise her a few words.

The elders are wrong, and the younger ones can point it out. It's just that some elders can't pull down and can't put down the shelf of being elders.

Inside, that's it. As the saying goes: "The great-grandson is justified, but he fights too publicly". Actually, it's not really about playing too public, it's about debating.

As a junior, to put forward different opinions to the elders, there must be a method, not too straightforward, in this way, not only to give the elders face, but also to achieve the effect of distinguishing right from wrong.

In my experience, I can point out that depending on the language you point out, if you criticize and point out in good faith, he will accept it happily, and it is not at all that he cannot give advice to his elders.

These are some outdated concepts, in fact, what you said is very right, but the way you speak is not very right, like your family's special relative is Wang Po selling melons and boasting, he wishes everyone knew that his daughter is capable and capable, in fact, he is also his good face, the better the face of the person, the more tired he lives, you don't care what he does, you live a wonderful life, after all, your life path needs to be written by yourself.

You can feel that the elders are wrong. That's enough for that. You won't make the same mistake in the future. This is the accumulation of common sense experience in life. Why do you want to offend people? Can you change him? Can you change the words and deeds of your elders?

You can politely state your point of view, something like this, and you can show off what you know, and leave him alone.

It is a kind of respect for the elders. Because elders also want to be face-saving.

Be a man and leave a line, and you will see each other in the future; If you see through it, you don't say it, and you have it after the day.

1.Respect for the elders of du, this is the zhi ideological consciousness that a good young man should have.

2.The elders are generally obsessed because of their age, and they have developed terrible self-esteem, and they don't slap people in the face or scold people....If you point it out, you're slapping him in the face, and the underlying meaning is that he has no age and no useful experience...

At their age, slapping someone in the face is the same as killing their father and wife; They will not hesitate to use their own circle to slander you...Young people, do it yourself.

This kind of person just loves to show off, and if you don't say it true, it's really bragging.

Skin. Everyone will be disgusted when they encounter this situation, but the person who uncovers the DAO should be his peers or elders, and subtly remind him in a wise way. As a junior, it is very rude and uneducated for you to directly scold him, and he will also think that you are jealous and appear to be small, which is why your father criticizes you.

If the elders have mistakes, they can bring them up, but the time and occasion should be appropriate, and don't let the elders lose face

These are all old concepts, in fact, what you said is very right, the family does not need to pretend to be so tired.

Because you have to respect your elders, they can only bring up their mistakes in private, not in person.

No matter what your psychology is, you go along with that relative or elder and make him happy. Isn't that okay?

Many elders like to use experience to suppress juniors

It's tradition.

It's not that it can't, though.

Refers to paying attention. Ways and means.

Tactfully pointed out. Leave with dignity.