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The way you care about her has to be changed, it's definitely not interesting to report it, I think she always ignores you because she doesn't like it very much, because you can't bring her a happy, colorful and heartwarming life. To keep your relationship fresh, just like the upstairs said, give her a little surprise once in a while, change the weekend program, and shorten the distance between you!

Supplement: I don't think I'm testing you, it's that she herself is the kind of very careful character, otherwise how could she ask you to arrange so carefully and so perfectly? It also shows a problem, you may be a little rough, do things not think through, she found that you have this problem, so keep worrying about this problem, you better change it as soon as possible, otherwise you will annoy her.

Or in the details You just said that you will go out to watch movies and go shopping, so she should show what she likes in the process, and she shouldn't say nothing, just like watching a movie So what type of movie does she like So that in the future, you can buy movie tickets and surprise her Girls still like surprises And according to what you say, you have feelings It's just that she doesn't say Maybe she likes to listen to you You can tell you something interesting about what happened today You don't necessarily have to ask her anything Especially when she takes the car home, although you can't accompany him, you can also ask her if she's safe by texting ** It's still necessary to observe carefully, such as shopping, what does your girlfriend prefer, then you can secretly buy it for her, it's not how expensive it is, it's thoughtful, so she will definitely experience it.

Women need love, they need pets. The problem between you is that you don't stay together often, you have to be together. Either live together or work together. Together, the feelings of two people will communicate. When it is said that he is introverted, men will talk sweetly.

Feelings need to be managed with heart.

Both sides work hard to find a common ground that suits you to get along. I believe that you will be happier and happier.

Blessings If you have emotional problems in the future, it is recommended that you read the magazine "Love Weekly", which has an emotional mailbox that will help you solve the problem, as well as many touching, inspirational, romantic, humorous and light-hearted love stories.

If you care too much, you won't be able to let go, finding a topic is never a long-term solution, use your original you to contact her.

One carat is forgiving.

One carat is accepted.

One carat is support.

One carat is a confession.

One carat is unforgettable.

One carat is romantic.

One carat is to communicate with each other.

One carat is a prayer for her.

One carat is an apology.

One carat is a confession of error.

One carat is thoughtful.

One carat is understanding.

One carat is a thank you.

One carat is a correction.

One carat is considerate.

One carat is unraveling.

One carat is not endurance.

One carat is not a question.

One carat is not a requirement.

One carat is not forgetting.

And one carat is not to hold hands casually, and not to let go casually.

That's the explanation for 21-carat love.

Since there are so many legends and stories, I can't publish them directly, so I'll give you the link!

21 grams of love explained:

21 grams is the weight of the soul. Legend has it that people lose 21 grams of weight after death, and those 21 grams are the purest love, and those 21 grams are: One gram is tolerance, one gram is acceptance, one gram is support, one gram is confiding, one gram is unforgettable, one gram is romance, one gram is communication, one gram is praying for her, one gram is apology, one gram is admitting mistakes, one gram is thoughtfulness, one gram is understanding, one gram is thanks, one gram is correcting, one gram is understanding, one gram is liberation, one gram is not enduring, one gram is not questioning, one gram is not demanding, one gram is not forgetting, and the last gram is not to hold hands casually, let alone let go casually.

21 grams of Love Legend:

A legend in the West, it is said that after death, people will be lighter than before death 21 grams, that is the weight of the soul, if a person tells you that he gives you 21 grams of net weight of love, then he is implying that he loves you with his life, even if one day, who will leave, this love will not disappear because of the death of life, only with the soul more profound, more eternal 21 grams is also the name of a famous movie, telling the story of Western scientists using science to prove that the "weight of the soul" is 21 grams. So the meaning of this sentence is: love her with your soul.

21 grams is the weight of the soul. Legend has it that people lose 21 grams of weight after death, and those 21 grams are the purest love, and those 21 grams are: One gram is tolerance, one gram is acceptance, one gram is support, one gram is confiding, one gram is unforgettable, one gram is romance, one gram is communication, one gram is praying for her, one gram is apology, one gram is admitting mistakes, one gram is thoughtfulness, one gram is understanding, one gram is thanks, one gram is correcting, one gram is understanding, one gram is liberation, one gram is not enduring, one gram is not questioning, one gram is not demanding, one gram is not forgetting, and the last gram is not to hold hands casually, let alone let go casually.

** "21 grams of love".

What you can't let go of is a regret of youth. So if you can leave no regrets, try not to stay. Since there is such a great opportunity, don't miss it.

Contact her, and then seize the moment to confess. It's important to be consistent. You and her are former classmates, and it's not strange that old classmates are in contact, but they got it by accident anyway.

When you contact her, say hello or something, and then tell her who you are. The first time you hit ** should not be too long. A simple greeting and an introduction to the current situation can make an appointment to meet. We will talk about some specific things when we meet.

It's just a normal classmate relationship、、Familiarize yourself with it first.。。 At the same time, see if you still like her 、、、

If you like it, confess it boldly! Meeting again shows that you still have fate, and maybe your feelings for her are still the same as when you were studying. And so it is. Sort out your mood first, and decide whether to look for her.

In fact, this kind of thing is very simple, you can't let go because you didn't get it, at that time it was just a crush, everything you didn't get is beautiful, and you will leave a fantasy in your heart, you just call a ** to see, say hello Say hello After so many years, how are you doing, if he asks you how you know his **, you just say that you are chatting with an old friend, and you know it by accident, first look at his tone and then say! Do you understand?

What you can't let go of is that you silently liked this person in your heart back then, to tell you the truth.

Now that you have a contact method, let's get in touch.,Just chat like a junior high school classmate.,Maybe she just likes you.,Isn't it just right? If you don't even dare to try, you might regret it in the end? Don't let your life leave regrets.

Is it the girl or him?

There is a little bit of a feeling between the two of them, just a little bit, and you don't have to get too excited, take your time.

Hehe, women are slow heating type, she may also be a little tempted by you, you can observe and observe, ask her out, if you don't refuse to dodge you, it means that I like you!

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Everyone is an emotional person.

Empathetic, spending money very much, her family and your family are strongly divided.

Taken together, these three key points show that the girl is very smart and she basically knows what she does. What is the purpose of the girl? Or do you usually act like you're too rich and generous?

Like", the word, that is, you don't know if she bought a gift for you not. This is not discussed.

It's okay if the woman doesn't give anything to the man's house, but according to her personality and attitude towards her family, hasn't she asked you what to buy? This is a bit unreliable, or there may be another reason or purpose.

Since you subjectively think that she spends money very selfishly, and you have never talked about money. Even her empathy has never come close to money here. Then you are admitting to some extent that she is selfish, discriminatory, too protective, and empathetic but not able to understand what she does.

So I wonder what you mean by describing her empathy?

I just feel that the girl's vision is too narrow, living in her own vision, and she is more immature, maybe she will get better after coming out to work.

Forget it Although money cannot measure feelings, money is also the most basic of feelings. So I think if a person loves each other, he must care about the other person's family and friends, and he must do a good job in some etiquette, but this girl obviously treats you as an ATM again.

Hehe, if she loves you, she will think about you, and she will plan for the future of both of you so that she doesn't spend your money indiscriminately.

You can go and tell her about your future plans, such as whether you should save up for marriage or something. If she wants to be with you for the rest of her life, she will change.,Maybe verbally promised.,But in fact, it hasn't changed.,Then she probably treats you as her humanized ATM.,This kind of woman... Hehe, you know!

Personally, even if you are in love, you can't be overly accommodating, if it were me, it would be early, she wouldn't be that because you have money.

You don't want to spend the rest of your life in distress, go ahead, tell her these feelings, and make a break.