For marriage issues, please invite post 80s and post 90s boys to come

Updated on society 2024-03-01
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't know what your future brother-in-law thinks, but if it were me I wouldn't take it.

    It's not that your conditions are harsh, it's that I don't want to buy a wife, I want to take a woman who is in love with me.

    These demands are honest, not excessive, and in some respects they should be.

    But making such a request when I was about to get married made me feel that it was not a sublimation of love, but a transaction.

    Especially never having children, if a man says yes.

    Either I love this woman very much, or I don't care about this woman at all.

    But I think that if you don't love, a man can not consider getting married.

    As the sister of the bride-to-be, it is understandable that you have set this condition for your sister.

    But when the groom-to-be's family finds out, will they have some ideas?

    This will undoubtedly add some possible hidden dangers to their later life, family interactions, and the handling of family relationships. What do you think.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    To be honest, I can't take it. If your sister doesn't stand on the man's side, think. Marriage is not a man who loves you when he meets your conditions, and he who can't meet your conditions means he doesn't love you.

    Also, I feel like you're signing a contract of sale. I don't feel like I'm in love. Also, your sister keeps saying that she is in love with his boyfriend, and I feel that it is only verbal, but in fact, she may not be like that in her heart.

    Personally, I think that since 2 people are going to get married, after forming a family, as long as both husband and wife work hard, whoever has the ability to take on more for the family can bear a little. There is no need to divide the responsibilities so clearly, if they do, in my eyes, they are at most the same as sharing a house with each other. Didn't feel like home.

    In addition, although material things are important now, if you start a family, it is best not to build your feelings on a material basis, but to build them on the basis of feelings. In this way, it can last a long time. If feelings are based on material things, then those feelings will not last.

    At least I haven't seen much of the material foundation of love far, far away.

    I also agree with the travel marriage, and I don't agree with the back door 3 points at all. Buying a house is not a one-person thing, the second point, why don't you want a child, why can't you adopt, and third, why does the man have to give 2,500 family women every month? There is also the fact that after giving 2,500 households, the mortgage is divided, so it is estimated that the man will not have much money.

    Think for yourself what the consequences will be...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Such a girl is difficult for men to accept, especially not to have children, and the man's parents can't accept it. I don't think I can get married to such a girl.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's completely unacceptable what you're getting married for.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Marriage is a union of feelings, and the happiness of life is created by two people together.

    Despise women who exchange their feelings for money!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I'm a girl born in the 80s...

    I don't think it's a question we can't choose... Whether it's a boy or a girl... It's all the crystallization of love...

    The most important thing is the way to educate children... If your education style is successful... Maybe both boys and girls will be useful talents...

    Boys are not as intimate as girls... Girls know how to be filial to their parents... I also like girls...

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    18 A little bit is acceptable.

    Thinking about the nose or something.

    Too much on it. It's scary.

    Think about it, the mirror doesn't look at your own face.

    And if only it was too much worse.

    It is the child who suffers, is it also called a child plastic surgery?

    And then the continuation from generation to generation.

    If it were like an elephant, my father would have nothing to say.

    But who can guarantee it.

    You can't just think about yourself.

    Also plan for the future.

    Of course, if you don't want to get married.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you fail plastic surgery, I'll mind, hehe.

    The soul is not beautiful, and plastic surgery is still annoying 24

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's a man will! There are no boundaries for age.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you don't know plastic surgery, you won't know, and you will definitely 22

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It will, because it shows that she used to be ugly, 16

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    What my husband said may or may not be.

    The reason for not is that it is very long to take it out for socializing!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I will, because I don't like hypocritical things, besides, the quality of a girl is not entirely about her appearance, no matter how beautiful she is, it is not easy to be affirmed by others, as long as she has a beautiful heart, she doesn't care whether there is sugar coating or not, I am sixteen, male.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    On behalf of the boys around me, I tell you, yes, age: 17-21

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    How to say it, if it's single, then there's no explanation, but it's best not to tell your girlfriend in the future, she will definitely accept it, and if you have a girlfriend, you have to stop immediately, if you have a girlfriend now, it's best not to, we are all only children, and girls at this age can't accept their boyfriends stealing, and girls are very important to love! He's only right, and he's sure to be done!

    It's only 50 points for stealing a man.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    At least I won't forgive him! Not to mention giving points, disdain such people!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    As a personal character, it must be morally corrupt, but now that I don't have a girlfriend, I don't have to be responsible for her for the time being.

    If a good man is 100 points, then such a person can only be counted as less than 20 points, because a person mainly depends on his morality, which is the most important scoring criterion in life!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The moral turpitude was serious because he was not married.

    In fact, as long as you are willing, there is nothing.

    People are going to solve their physiological needs, just to see how to solve them.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This can't be scored, just be good to your wife after getting married, don't make your woman sad, just play outside and don't play with fire.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you are not married, but you have a girlfriend, it is not right to steal fish, as for whether morality is corrupt or not, it can only depend on the individual, I personally think that this is counted, and the person who steals is not a good person, at most 50, which is too much.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you don't confirm your girlfriend, you can't be considered stealing, if he has an affair with several girls at the same time, then call him amorous, if a good man has 100 points, then I will give him 0 points.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    100 points. What I'm giving is, why do you say that, because people are emotional creatures, and sometimes the person who marries you is not necessarily your ideal soulmate, but at some point, you meet your soulmate, and when the love is deep, no one is so rational, but his only reason is to stick to his original approach and marry the woman he is going to marry, so we can't deny that this man is morally corrupt

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    This kind of man must not want, too distracted, and must not be included in the ranks of those who get married.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you don't have a formal girlfriend, what kind of stealing is that, let alone moral turpitude. He is just as good as the girls around him, which shows that his personality is to attract girls to like, and he is born with no way. First of all, you don't position him right. I'm '87.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Encountered. Didn't do anything though. It's fine.

    If something was done. I really want to smoke him.

    But. It still depends on the woman. The girls I know have chosen to be inclusive. Although there are big flaws. "We're all from Begogo. >

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Whether you are unmarried or married, stealing outside is a sign of moral turpitude and poor character. Such people are not only not scored, but also negative!!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I don't think he's married and stealing outside, which isn't morally turpitude. It can only be said that sometimes boys still need physiological venting. As long as he genuinely loves his girlfriend, it's fine.

    Occasionally it is still forgivable, and it cannot be said that it is morally turpitable. If I rate it, I will judge it by his character and how good he is with his girlfriend.

    It's just my feeling because I don't have a boyfriend yet, hehe.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    What man doesn't steal?! It's nature, just like a lion was born to hunt. Since ancient times, the idea that men steal fish is instinctive, and women who steal fish is shame has been deeply ingrained in people's hearts.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you're unmarried, it's not stealing! Man, sometimes, can't control his own. Do you want to see if he is playing with your "stealing"?

    Or is it serious? A good man, a hundred points, then, what is the standard of a good man? Love is not the same as marriage, marriage is sacred, it is responsible, and it is the bond between two people.

    The road of life still has to be walked by yourself, I wish you happiness

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you're going to get married, that's irresponsible, and as for moral corruption, society is a garbage society.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's simple, do.

    Don't panic.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I'm a post-90s girl, it's very cool to do, but she is the goddess in the hearts of all Zhi fans!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I don't criticize you, it's a very practical matter of thought, and I'm sure most men will do. Next time, you can ask this (Andy Lau, 80, 90 girls do not do it, many women below do not see it well).

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Or don't want it, I'm not interested in old ladies!!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    The premise ,,, premise is that I am not a man, I am a girl born in the 90s, and I am really speechless when I see this question

    There's nothing to say, in the final analysis, it's a matter of "quality"... Flash.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    The old woman is not going to be home with you.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    When I was a child, there was a high possibility of lack of love, and people who lacked love liked the opposite sex who was older than themselves.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    There are many men who are not married, and the reasons are probably as follows: 1First of all, the preference for sons over daughters is still deeply rooted in Chinese families, and the number of boys born in the future is high due to miscarriages, etc., resulting in a high proportion of boys; 2.

    Nowadays, many marriages are material, money requirements are relatively high, and there are not many post-80s and 90s with superior conditions, and many of them also rely on their families, so the high cost of marriage is also a reason; 3.Sexual orientation has changed, and now the number of homosexuals is also increasing year by year, which is not a good phenomenon; 4.Fear of marriage, unwillingness to take responsibility, loss of direction in life, and don't want to get married.

    Close friends, relieve your worries.

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