Whoever the husband likes, the wife will be the person, what is there to point out to outsiders?

Yes, it's good to be happy.

First, do nothing without asking your opinion or consulting you. Second, he is very defensive financially, and he doesn't even know what his monthly income is. Third, he never asks about his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and talks to his mother about everything.

Your husband is an important role at home, and if your husband treats you like this, others will be even better.

I'm about the same as you, and I've been married for 33 years and have been treated worse than you for 33 years! Because I love him, I can be financially independent, but I can't be emotionally independent, and my relatives and friends all look at me as cheap! I have no dignity, I am not loved, my mother, my mother-in-law's family only have endless labor!

Later, when I got older, my body slowly declined! Thinking of the endless torture in his life, the idea of divorce kept creeping up in his heart, finally! After a husband and wife war, I viciously filed for divorce, counting all the things that he and his family are not!

Am I a slave or a human being? I don't want to live a life without dignity and personality anymore! Then he treated me better than he used to be!

Especially since he's going to bring his mother home! I am firmly against it! I said I had no problem taking care of your mother!

But I'm not the roundworm in the stomach of your mother and son! In case it's not thoughtful, the two of you are a united front against me, and I'm having a hard time! If you really want to take it, I'll go!"

I let you! If she doesn't come, I can go to his family every day to serve her like I go to work! You just can't live together!

I am a daughter-in-law, I have no inheritance rights in my in-law's family, I have no right to speak, and I was not raised by her, she has treated me as an outsider for a long time! Why should I serve her! She has four children and is responsible for hers!

I am your wife, and I can only do my part for you! It depends on whether you treat me well or not! Be good to me, I'll bang you!

It's not good for me, I can leave it alone! You can do it! Handle things properly!

Don't overdo it! Walk to the ** are all ringing! The last two years have been good for me!

So a woman must love herself! Stand up and be a man, others will fear you! This is a little bit of my experience, and I hope it can be used as a reference for you!

Wishing you happiness!

There's no need for this family to stay any longer! The whole family is a pig!!

Daughters-in-law are outsiders, just live a good life, do what you want to do while you are young and leave no regrets, people are not just saying that they are mothers, and they are irreplaceable relatives, they can bring joy when they are young, and it is also an investment to cultivate well.

Women should be self-reliant! Be financially independent, be able to manage yourself, and pay attention to your dress, and when you do it, men will love you more!

It's good for a woman to marry and teach her children! Don't think about it!

The problem is all with your husband! Then you want it! 1 Must be financially independent!

2…Something about your husband's house! Do it no matter what! They don't treat you like family....You don't have to do anything for them?

Just do your own thing and don't rely on anyone!

Like me, it means that your husband doesn't love you at all.

Only by putting your heart together in this home can you not feel like an outsider.

I guess this family is all children's IQ, at least not adults!

When the economy is seized, the status is reached.

Leave early, find another good one.

If you hold the economic power, you will have status.

Divorce, if he dies, you won't live.

Because most married men feel that their wives are their own and can be treated as they want. We will feel that the goods on the shelves of the store are very good-looking, especially those things that we like very much but can't afford, we will work hard to be able to buy these things as soon as possible, but when we really have these things, this feeling disappears, and the things that originally sparkled in our eyes begin to fade, and we become numb, and married men treat their wives like this. But after getting married, the husband's attitude will change significantly.

When dealing with outsiders, my husband thinks that this is not his own person, and he should have a good relationship, so he will be as polite and patient as possible. In the eyes of married men, people from the outside world need to be dealt with well, because the quality of connections can determine our social status and whether we can get those things we seek. So even if they don't try to please them, they will still try to maintain a semblance of calm in the hope that at some point in the future, we will be able to use these relationships to get what they want.

But the wife is something that the husband has already gotten, so the difference in attitude happens.

Many men work hard to entertain outsiders outside, and when they get home, they start to get angry with their wives. They regard their wives as toys in their hands, and they don't need to be treated kindly, more often, they regard their wives as their own punching bags, and after they are angry outside, they will habitually vent all their temper on their wives when they come home. Ignoring his wife's inner feelings.

Of course, not all men will do this, it depends on the man's ability to control and personal character literacy.

Men who are gentle on the outside, but speak ill of their wives, are often incompetent. Really capable men will not be angry with their wives, nor will they use their wives as a punching bag, only those men who have little ability but have a heavy burden on their bodies will not be able to control their temper and be angry with their wives.

My husband is very patient with outsiders, why doesn't he have a good temper with his wife?

The husband's performance often starts from a period of life after marriage. It's not that between husband and wife, the initial acquaintance is sweet, especially a couple of men and women in love, at this time, the boy's attitude towards the girl should be the most patient, and the temper is also the best time period.

With the passage of time, two people have gone through a process from acquaintance to acquaintance, to later love, to marriage and forming a new family. After two people get married, the long-term life of the two people makes the two people know each other more than they know themselves. At this time, the initial politeness between the two people is gone, and the boy's patience with the girl is gone.

Especially many men, after being angry outside, the first thing they do when they come home is to get angry at their wives. A careful woman has experienced the changes in her husband and seen clearly the gap in men's attitudes towards herself from the beginning to the present. I felt that my husband had changed.

In fact, there is a reason why my husband behaves like this.

We say that talking to people outside is called socializing. When I see people outside shaking hands and saying hello to others, that's called politeness. When anyone sees their husband come home, he shakes his hand and says hello?

Between husband and wife, there is never a need to be polite. If two people are polite once they get along, then there may be problems in the marriage. Just as a wife cooks and washes for her husband, the husband also expresses his gratitude and says thank you with a smile to his wife; When the wife does something wrong, she has to say sorry to her husband like an outsider, and the husband and wife will feel uncomfortable like this.

At least, that's what I think.

There is an old Chinese saying that "a family does not speak two languages", which means that a family does not need to speak polite words. This sentence is also useful to locate the relationship between husband and wife. If the husband and wife become polite to each other, the two people will seem to be separated.

A family doesn't speak two words", on the other hand, only if it is not a family, will be polite.

To sum up, I think it should be relatively normal for my husband to be very patient with outsiders and not have a good temper with his wife.

Because they are very stupid, this kind of person is the stupidest, always lose his temper with the people around him, leave the worst side to the pillow person, but he is very good to outsiders, such a person is also the most incompetent, and does not know how to cherish the people around him.

Many people give their patience to others rather than to their families, because they are too familiar so they will ignore each other's feelings, not only husbands, many people will be like this, we have to self-reflect.

Because my wife is the closest person around me, even if there is a little contradiction, she still loves her the most, and if you offend outsiders, she will leave you.

This is because the wife is not an outsider, so there is no need to show patience to the wife to treat outsiders, after all, the wife is her own family, and people are like this.

Explain that her husband is not particularly good to herself, and if she is really good to herself, this situation will not occur.

Acting outside, being yourself at home hehe