Do you confide in your family when you encounter grievances at work?

I belong to the type who doesn't talk to my family much, and I usually "report good news but not bad news". If you have a problem, you will choose a friend who is more similar to your own situation, and everyone will spit out and complain, so it will naturally be comfortable, and you will not expect others to solve the problem for you, that is, just talk about solving it. In fact, many people around me also have this mentality.

Everyone's outpouring is actually a kind of venting, but basically there is an expectation that the problem may still have to be faced by itself. Therefore, it is right to improve your problem-solving skills and find suitable channels to relieve stress.

No, I have been reporting good news to my parents since I was a child, and it doesn't help if I say it, and it will make them worry.

Parents are getting old, unconsciously we have become the pillar of the family, many times parents do not know much about the current situation, our grievances and pressure and parents will not have much effect, on the contrary, can only increase their troubles, so let those grievances stay in the heart. Parents want to see their children grow into a strong person who can reassure them and be independent. Let your parents' wishes come true.

People who are willing to take the initiative to communicate, regardless of their age, may find someone to nagging to relieve stress. And people who are unwilling to open themselves, even if they are old, may digest and resolve themselves without looking for people, including family members. Many people think that talking to family members is not necessarily the best option.

If we have brothers and sisters, we can also talk to everyone about our situation, eat together, chat, complain about our own lives, and find that everyone's life is not easy, no one is special, how about it? Do you still feel that you are the most wronged and stressed? Our troubles are just a drop in the ocean.

Family members do not work in their own units, so interpersonal relationships and work content may not be clear. Sometimes you don't necessarily understand what you say, and you even have to criticize it based on your own judgment. It makes people listen to it even more annoyingly.

You should talk to your family. Because family will always be our best support. And it can help us alleviate the grievances in our hearts.

Should. In this way, you can get emotional catharsis, and your family can also enlighten and comfort you, so as to avoid getting into the horns.

I think I should confide, because I am very depressed psychologically after being wronged, and I can only vent my emotions when I find someone to talk to.

I think it depends on the situation.

1. Types of troubles.

Human feelings: After living for decades to deal with some things that you feel very troubled may be very easy, so some troubles at work can be confided in your parents, such as getting along with the leader, or how to alleviate the unhappiness with colleagues, this belongs to the troubles of human feelings, the elderly or parents at home have eaten more salt than you for so many years, walked so many roads, have seen the warmth and coldness of the people, and have experienced more sophisticated feelings than you. So I suggest that you can talk to your family about your troubles in this regard**.

Ability: If the problems you encounter at work are simply caused by your lack of academic excellence and lack of ability, then what kind of face do you have to confide in your family? What are you doing early, what are you doing when you should learn and improve yourself?

If you talk about this kind of trouble, your family can't help you solve it, how can they help you? Help you get to work? Don't hurry up and improve yourself as soon as possible!

2. Parental acceptance.

Acceptable: For example, if a rival company comes to poach you, do you want to change jobs? Talk to your family about the conditions of both companies, discuss them with them, and listen carefully to their opinions.

If the family is relatively not so open-minded, but more rigid, you know that the result of the discussion must be somewhat, such as if you have a job, you should do it, don't think about changing jobs, so as not to skip the job, then don't discuss it.

Unacceptable: For example, the company you founded can't support it and needs a lot of money, but you don't have the money, and you can't wait for financing, and the elderly and parents in the family have worked hard for so many years, with some retirement funds, and they can't afford to sponsor you. Instead of telling them that they can't help you if they are in a hurry, it's better not to say it, dare to do it, and bear it yourself no matter what the consequences are.

If your family can easily help you, then don't hesitate to talk to them, they want you to rely on them.

Your family is the person who wants you to live well in the world, they watch you grow up, and the starting point for analyzing problems is always good for you. So, no matter if the result of your talk to them is what you want, good or bad, you must continue to love them.

After all, we have been our parents' biggest concern since we were young, and they have been worried about us for most of our lives.

As the saying goes, good news is not reported. People are always growing, and you will have different perceptions of things at different times, and you will also keep a moderate distance from your parents in the process of getting along with them.

I should be able to talk to my family about my worries at work.

If you blindly cover up and don't tell your family, it will make your family worried, it is better to talk about your troubles with your family at the right opportunity, maybe your family can provide some help, or you can relieve your depressed mood.

The troubles at work, talk to your parents, it is still more reliable, because your parents have a lot of experience and rich life experience, maybe the troubles we encounter are also what your parents have encountered before, although their experience may not be copied and used until now, but it is no problem as a reference.

After all, your lover is your closest person, and if you have something unpleasant or difficult to solve, your lover will always be aware of it, and if you hide it too much, it may lead to misunderstandings. Even if your lover can't help you solve your problem, it's definitely okay to comfort you.

You can also talk about your work troubles with your siblings. If you have a good relationship with your brothers and sisters, you are actually a very lucky thing in life. Siblings generally have similar perspectives, but they may differ from perspective.

They may allow you to broaden your thinking about problem solving.

In short, in life, there must always be more ways to vent emotions, and don't hide your emotions and isolate yourself from your loved ones. Family and loved ones are the greatest wealth in life.

I don't talk to my family about my worries at work.

The fat family lives well, lives at ease, and the health of the family is the purpose of my struggle, as long as they are good, why not be wronged outside?

Besides, the troubles at work are temporary, as long as you plan carefully, plan properly, and work hard, the troubles will pass quickly. You can't talk about it just because you're a little troubled, and it's a kind of immaturity in itself.