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Hypocrisy itself is a derogatory term for those who are duplicitous, vain, and empty and unrealist, but many times many things, many people will behave hypocritically, but these do not refer to bad people. There are also many people who are distorted by psychological shadows because of the helplessness of life, the cruelty of reality or serious physical and mental sores, and hypocrisy is the disguise of how people behave. Of course, there are many character problems, narrow-minded, or mercenary, so in order to survive, we should see people's hearts more clearly.
Society is a big dye vat, the law of nature for the survival of the fittest, people are usually constantly changing themselves in order to adapt to this large group, becoming ruthless and insensitive, while hypocrisy is manifested as sleek and flexible, just like a chameleon changes its color in order to adapt to the environment. The most important thing is that we can do our best, there are a lot of helplessness in life, and we also have a lot of choices, I believe that sincerity is more suitable for those false disguises.
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Let's take an example. If I were your colleague.
Of course, I will talk to you, ask you how you are doing, pretend to care about you, and have a good relationship with you.
Because we are colleagues, we must always create a peaceful atmosphere when we look down and don't see each other. Good for getting along and working.
Actually... BY MY MEANING ... I don't want to say a word to you at all, I don't even want to look at you, what is there about you that makes me look unpleasant, I even want to scold you.
But why should I be hypocritical? Because I need this job, because I have to survive, I have to eat, I have to get a salary to support myself and my parents... Therefore, I was forced to be "hypocritical".
If you want to survive in this society of the jungle, "hypocrisy" is also a necessary survival skill.
This is the culture of a group society. It is the ladder of human progress.
We need to unite in order to do a lot of things and be more conducive to everyone's survival.
What can you accomplish on your own? So we have to be hypocritical.
The hypocrisy that is necessary is confined to the work ... That's why friends are precious, because in front of friends, we are very comfortable, we are very real, what to say...
Maybe you don't quite understand me right now ... But sooner or later you will understand! If you want to do something, you have to be hypocritical to have a good relationship with people, you have to ask for help!
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There is a reason why people are hypocritical, and sometimes they have to be hypocritical. People can not live so tired, but the quality of life cannot be guaranteed. For example, becoming a monk, seeing through the red dust, not being disturbed by troubles, deep in the mountains and dense forests, the air is fresh, suitable for health preservation, leisurely and self-satisfied, but everyone can't be a monk, and it's not realistic.
Hypocrisy can be an act of self-preservation, generally influenced by something, and if you feel that you have that influence over others, then you can also change him from hypocrisy to sincerity.
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Because people are afraid that they will be hurt, they wrap themselves tightly with hypocrisy.
Hypocrisy comes to an end. I don't have a friend in my heart.
Moreover, others will slowly find themselves alienated from you.
The best way to disguise yourself is to open your heart.
Right, do you really understand your friends and pull them in?
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Hypocrisy is a way for people to hide their own inadequacies!
There are many kinds of friends, depending on what kind of people you make and what kind of friends you make!Friendship makes people happy, but it also hurts.
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