Is a child s reluctance to say hello rude ?

Every parent hopes that their children can be polite, and when they go out with their children and meet others, they hope that their children can take the initiative to greet others, but sometimes their children are not willing to say hello. Some people will think that this child is rude, but I don't think so, I think some children are reluctant to greet strangers or unfamiliar people, just because they are more shy and introverted. He's not the kind of person who is crazy and arrogant.

I myself often see parents who go out with their children, and when they see some neighbors in the community, they will let their children greet them and call them uncle and aunt. But his child is reluctant to speak, and at this time, the parent will be very faceless, and he thinks that his child is so rude? Maybe at this time, parents will continue to force their children to let their children speak, but the more this is the case, the more the child does not want to speak.

I think if your child doesn't like to talk to strangers or unfamiliar people, parents should never force him, the more you push him, the more unwilling he is.

I've been in this situation myself, when I was a child, when I was young, there were relatives in my house who I hadn't seen a few times at all. And then I don't even know what to do, and I don't have anything to say. These relatives are very close, asking this and that everywhere, and they don't treat themselves as outsiders at all.

Later, when these relatives were leaving, my parents kept forcing me to say some pleasantries to these relatives. However, I don't think there's anything I can say, and my own personality is not so cheerful and lively. The more I was in this situation, the more I didn't want to talk, because it was really unfamiliar.

So I especially understand that there are some children who are reluctant to say hello, and that is just because of their own personality, and it has nothing to do with whether they are polite or not.

No. Because some children are shy and don't like to say hello, but they have already said hello in their hearts, so it is not rude.

This is not the case, there are many times when some children are more introverted, and they don't like to interact with others or say hello.

Well, in the eyes of most people, it is rude for a child not to say hello, and it is better to let the child be a polite and good child.

I don't think so, I think that children are reluctant to greet others during the rebellious period, and it will also have something to do with the child's personality.

Personally, I don't think so, parents don't need to impose their own ideas on their children in life, don't think about problems from an adult's point of view, which is unfair to children.

Don't be stingy with your praise.

Your praise is crucial for your child when they are young. As long as the child is doing the right thing, or only a little improvement, we should give the child appropriate praise. This will be the motivation for your child's progress.

Praise the child to the point, there must be a basis, to let the child know that he is doing something right, or has improved, so that the child will receive your recognition of him, so that he can do better and better.

Lead by example and set a good example for your children.

If you want your child to learn to say hello, you must first respect your child and set an example for your child to see how you do it. The power of a parent's example is endless. Whatever you want your child to do, parents must do first.

Social etiquette is a science, greeting is only one of the simplest and basic ones, parents should be patient, master the right method, correct guidance of children, will be able to cultivate a civilized, polite, cheerful and lively good child.

The child just doesn't know how to say hello, and the parents haven't taught how to express it, or it may be that the child is doing it against you again, and usually has too much control over the child, and does not give the child the right to choose and autonomy.

The child does not like to say hello, is it an impolite behavior, he is just shy, and it is up to the parents to guide the child at this time.

Seriously, if parentsIf you have to make a shy child become cheerful and generous, the child will be extremely painful, and they will think that they are a problem child after repeated hints, so they may become more anxious and restrained, and may even have a negative attitude towards life.

If you feel that your child is introverted, I think as a parentDon't deliberately try to make your child an extrovert. Although psychologically speaking, a child's personality may change over the course of a lifetime, butA shy personality tends to stay with you for a lifetime.

American psychologist Regina Pally has made a special analysis on this topic in "Reflective Love". She says if you're trying to turn a shy, reserved child into a more "outgoing" person, or an anxious child into a more "courageous" person, you're not helping the child. The most important factor in helping shy, reserved, or anxious children do as well as possible is to maintain a warm and non-judgmental attitude towards their feelings.

If these children feel that their parents have given them a safe place where they can feel these feelings, they are more likely to cope with these emotions in an adaptive way.

If parents express more empathy and give them kind and gentle support, it is possible for a shy child to build up the confidence to handle the problem on his own. And, in fact, there is no such thing as a good or bad personality, personality is just a certain tendency of a child, and extroverted and lively children do not necessarily have greater achievements or higher happiness than introverted and shy people in adulthood. In short, in terms of personality, I think respecting children and letting them be themselves is the most appropriate way.

Human personalities are all natural, if children are introverted, please do not scold harshly, this will encourage the seedlings to grow. Please communicate patiently with him, so that he can learn to step out of his own small world and be brave enough to contact people. In the process of continuous exploration and growth, it is natural to be cheerful and brave.

No, most of these children are more introverted and afraid to communicate with their elders, but many parents don't understand their children very well.

Children who don't like to greet are not necessarily rude, maybe they are more introverted and embarrassed to greet others, and parents do not understand this kind of children, thinking that they are rude and will not understand their real thoughts.

No, many children may be shy and embarrassed, parents should understand and give their children more encouragement.

It's not that they are not polite, it's just that such children don't like to come into contact with strangers and are more timid, parents should understand such children and let him accept them slowly.

Children who don't like to greet each other are not necessarily impolite, and many parents don't understand this kind of child at all, and this kind of child is generally introverted and unwilling to communicate with others.

It's not that children who don't like to greet each other are rude, it's because their personality is like that, and it may also be because they're afraid of life. Rarely comes out. Parents will understand this kind of child.

No, it may be that these children are less timid and insecure, so parents will not understand these children at all.

I don't think it's all, such children are partly due to shyness and introversion, and parents should understand and guide them correctly, and not blindly blame.

If the child does not say hello, it is not necessarily that he is not polite, and it is not easy to detain all kinds of hats for the child. Understand the truth why your child doesn't greet you, and help your child according to the specific situation. For example, practice greeting with children by playing games, so that they can learn to say hello in the game.

My kids love to say hello. When he walked with people he met, he would say "Grandpa is good, grandma is good, aunt is good, uncle is good, brother is good, sister is good, and children are also very loving, give good food," did not wait for me to say hello, he greeted first, the child greeted people, and others also responded kindly: Okay, the young man has grown taller and handsome, and if he is really sensible, my heart is also full of the good feelings of the baby children.

Greeting people is like eating, it is a necessary ability for people, but children need the guidance of their parents, and God has nothing to do with whether the child is polite or not, and the two must not be easily involved.

The two children have the ability to open and dismantle, and they are very gratified.

First of all, you should tell the child the importance of greeting and how Gao Lu becomes more polite, Liang He and then always correct the child's behavior and supervise the child, and at the same time set an example for the child.

The best thing to do is to tell your child that this is rude, and they will meet and greet him later.

First tell the child what the relationship is with someone, what the elder brother should call him, and then tell him that whether you have the ability of a person is not the most important thing, the most important thing is to have a certain moral quality, and you are not even willing to say hello, and it is too much of a failure to be a Lu Xiao.