Can you who were brought up by your grandparents summarize your own characteristics?

Thrifty, my grandparents don't spoil me too much, so I am now very self-reliant, which is one of the things I am more grateful to them for.

A little autistic tendency.,I'm embarrassed to talk when I see strangers.,I'm embarrassed to speak.,I don't know if it's the relationship that I've followed my grandfather since I was a child.,I don't have many friends.,I like to talk to those grandfather's old friends about their hearts.,There are some year-old friends.。

That's how I grew up, let me talk about my feelings, I grew up with my grandmother since I was a child, and I have been living in the countryside, and when I grew up, my parents said they wanted to take me back, and when I returned to the big city, I found that I didn't fit in at all or liked the days with my grandmother, and I didn't have much affection for the city, and I didn't have much affection for my parents.

Maybe I lived with my grandmother when I was a child, and I was influenced by her by my grandmother's side, and some habits were also formed with her, I like to drink egg soup when I eat, I like to eat rice soup, I like to eat all kinds of pasta, I don't like to be clean, I don't like to take a bath or something, which makes my mother very angry.

I especially like the life in the countryside, but I don't like the hustle and bustle of the big city at all, I like the simple and mellow countryside, I like the reality of the people in the village, I don't yearn to live in the big city at all, I don't like the excitement.

I live with my grandparents, who are very nice to me. It makes me feel that I am not lacking in father's love and mother's love, because my grandparents give me full of father's love and mother's love. For me, my grandparents are the best grandparents in the world.

A few years later, my dad died. My grandparents and I are still living as a family of three, and my grandparents have raised me for 20 years. I consider myself very lucky because I have the best grandparents in the world.

It seems that I have been used to a body of problems, I have been held by my grandparents since I was a child, I have been growing up in their doting, I can't do anything, and I am used to having a princess disease, I really regret that I should live and grow up with my parents.

I feel like I lived with my grandparents, and I became very self-reliant, and I could do everything, and there were few things that I couldn't. When I was very young, I could cook and cook, not to mention washing clothes, and I would tinker with clothes and so on, which was a piece of cake.

I'm not very good at expressing my feelings.,I like to hide anything in my heart.,I don't want to confide in anyone.,I'm very introverted.,I like to solve things by myself.。

The first is to be more filial, the second is to have a strong sense of responsibility, and the most important thing is to understand the hardships and difficulties of life.

Children who have been brought up by their grandparents since childhood are more timid and cowardly, and they have no autonomy for anything.

Because grandparents are more doting on their children, they will try their best to satisfy them with whatever they want, so this kind of children are generally more selfish. And I don't know how to care about others, I just want to get love from others.

Being brought up by grandparents is a special upbringing experience, and the depth of affection for them varies from person to person, and it may not be possible to generalize. Some people may develop deep feelings even if they are brought up by their grandparents, and some people may not be emotionally deep even if they have been with their grandparents for many years. People who have been brought up by their grandparents may face a single family structure.

1. Problems such as unique growth environment and complex kinship relationships, which may have an impact on their feelings. Some people may be cared for by other relatives and friends while they were brought up by their grandparents, and their feelings may be more based on these people. At the same time, some people may also be blamed, pressured, or even abandoned by their own parents, which may also have an impact on their feelings.

Whether we are brought up by our grandparents or our parents, we should regard them as our closest family members as much as possible, understand, respect and care for them, and at the same time, we should strive to love ourselves, constantly enrich our lives and experiences, and lay the foundation for our own growth and development.

The advantage is that the ability to innovate is very strong, because the grandparents are very good to the child and will not overly restrain him; The disadvantage is that they will be very willful, because the doting of parents will make their temper very big.

These children are very creative, will be very sensible and well-behaved, and sometimes there will be impolite or too willful behavior, and they will be particularly lazy.

The advantage is that the body is generally relatively healthy and will be very lively, and the disadvantage is that it has been pampered a lot, and sometimes it will be very self-conscious, and there will be some disrespect for others.

Children are the happiness of the whole family. If there are children in the house, the atmosphere will be different. Not only are the parents happy, but the grandparents will also be very happy.

Many mothers are office workers, so the responsibility of bringing the baby falls on the grandmother, do you know, in fact, the grandmother and the mother are different.

Grandma will spoil children, especially younger ones. A lot of it can be reflected when a child is in kindergarten. The kindergarten teacher revealed: children have these three habits, and it is very likely that they were raised by their grandmothers!

The first point: the children brought out by the grandmother are more squeamish

For grandparents, they may be more pampered with their grandchildren or granddaughters. Therefore, if the grandmother single-handedly brings up the children, these children are also more squeamish. Because grandma will help them with everything, including self-care.

When these children are raised by their grandmothers, they go to kindergarten without their grandmothers, and these things cannot be done by themselves. Children take better care of themselves if their mothers bring them up. The children brought out by the grandmother will also look more refined.

The second point: most of the children brought by grandmothers do not like sports

For the children brought by the mother, they will have more opportunities to exercise. Because mothers will let their children go out and be in contact with the outside world. As a result, such a child will have more opportunities to exercise.

In this long campaign, they also love sports. But grandmothers with older children have fewer opportunities to go out. The grandmother was more afraid of the child and hurt outside.

In sports, wrestling takes place.

The third point: communication skills are relatively poor

For moms, they teach their children to follow the rules outside. When you see your elders, greet others and so on. These children, who are raised by their mothers, can develop this habit from an early age.

When you meet any elderly person or teacher, you will take the initiative to say hello. But children brought up by grandmothers will not be educated so much.

Why is it easy for a kindergarten teacher to tell if a child is a grandmother or a mother? Actually, the reason lies in the three points mentioned above! Do moms think this standard is correct?

The children brought out by the grandmother are more squeamish, because the grandmother will help them do everything well, resulting in the children not being able to take care of themselves, and the children brought up by the grandmother have fewer opportunities to go out. Grannies are more afraid of their children and are hurt outside. Most of them don't like sports, and their communication skills are relatively poor.

The elders are more doting on children, and the children brought up by the elders are generally more willful, disobedient, and have a big temper.

1.Grandma brings out children who are more squeamish, and they may be more pampered with their grandchildren or granddaughters2Most of the children brought by grandma don't like sports, because they are older, they lack exercise, and they are more afraid of children and injuries outside.

3.Communication skills are relatively small, and children brought up by grandmothers will not abide by the rules outside, which is mainly manifested in the fact that they will not take the initiative to greet the elderly or elders.

When I was very young, I would think about repaying the favor. They will work very hard, and they are afraid that the speed of their struggle will not be able to keep up with the speed of their aging. There will be gains and losses, especially the fear of losing them. When I see other old people embarrassed, I can't help but think of my grandparents and will do my best to help.

The feeling is that you can't imagine that they will leave you, and you can't even accept this cruel fact of birth, old age, sickness and death, every time you look at them and listen to them say every word, make them laugh on the surface and make them happy, in fact, the whole sea is about to pour out in your eyes, in short, I hope they can live a long life, and can rest assured of me, because they are most worried about me, afraid that I will not have a good life in the future, and I will not find a person who truly loves me, afraid that they will not see me getting married, etc.

It's that when I was a child, I was very happy and happy, and then when I grew up, I lived in fear every day, afraid that my grandparents would suddenly be absent one day, and the last thing I wanted to live every year was the birthday and New Year of my grandparents, because it meant that they were a little older. I always think about the problems of birth, old age, sickness and death, and sometimes I will wake up suddenly in the middle of the night and go to their room to see if they are sleeping well before falling back asleep. After graduation, I didn't dare to go, I just wanted to go home to guard them and accompany them for a few years.

My parents are very important to me, but I don't feel good if I don't keep in touch for half a year...

I suddenly remembered that when I was a freshman, I was still lying in bed in the morning after not coming home for a long time, and at eight o'clock, I dimly opened my eyes and saw my grandmother pushing open the door and looking at me with loving eyes. Boy, get up and have breakfast. I said I still wanted to sleep, and she said let's eat and sleep.

Brought the noodle soup to my bedside, watched me get back to the quilt after eating, and smiled and took my dishes and chopsticks to wash. I never thought she would leave me, and this is probably the warmest memory of my life. Maybe it's spoiling, but I know that no one can give me this kind of love anymore.

Since I was a child, I had no concept of my parents and didn't feel abandoned. Instead, they would cry and fuss when they wanted to take me out. I feel that the days of living with my grandparents are the happiest.

Until now, my grandfather is a university professor and my grandmother still works various jobs in old age (both of them are in Korea), because of my grandfather's education level, he knows the importance of education, and has always insisted on supporting me in various trips and further education. It can be said that all my expenses are burdened by the second elder. Unmotivated parents only waver in my resolve when they can't help me.

It can be said that my whole life was given by my grandparents. It's not that there is no conscience, grandparents are always the first, and parents are in a very indifferent position under the relative. I'm sad at most when they die, and if something happens to my grandparents, my sky will fall.

When I was a child, I had to practice every day after school. And it's a long way from home, usually twenty minutes walk. When I first went to school, my grandmother picked me up, and then one day after playing football and it rained, I ran to my partner's house to play on a whim.

Then when I got home, my grandmother was not there, so I squatted at the door like a chicken in soup and waited for her to come home. After more than half an hour, Grandma finally came back, and she didn't know why she was also wet. As soon as she saw me, she made me kneel down (it was the first time I had seen my grandmother in such a hurry) and beat me hard, crying and beating.

She said that she thought she would never find me again, she walked all over the street, all the little shops, but she didn't see me, she said I was really disobedient, she just went to buy me some chicken legs, because I told her in the morning that I wanted to eat chicken legs, but she was ten minutes late, and I was gone. Afterwards, my grandmother caught a cold for a long time. From that day on, I learned to go to school on my own, never to her off again, and to listen to her forever.

It is said that my grandparents started taking me when I was 40 days old, and now I am 21 years old. The total time spent with parents each year does not exceed one month. There are good and bad things to be brought up by grandparents, and the bad thing is that there will be a lack of quality education and cultural education, for this point, I don't recommend that children bring to grandparents (when parents are not around), it is best to educate parents, after all, many concepts of the elderly are not suitable for children to learn.

There are also a lot of good aspects, you can fully feel the love of your grandparents, that kind of love is really different from your parents, I can't say what it is, I only know after experiencing it. Then the children grow up, the old people grow old, the children will be more mature, I have been thinking about the birth, old age, sickness and death of my grandparents since I was in high school, I feel that this makes me mature a lot, although it also makes me very afraid. In fact, this question is very complicated and complicated, and it is really not something that can be explained clearly in a few words.

I live in high school and college, my family lives on the 2nd floor, every time I want to go back to school, my grandmother opens the window and pokes her head to watch me go, waving to me, in fact, I go downstairs very quickly, every time I deliberately wait for her to go to the balcony and wave to me, and tell her that I am gone, and often when I look back, I can't help but cry out.