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It's okay, just make a few genuine friends.
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Personally, I think that to make classmates, you have to make good classmates, not necessarily students who study well, but also classmates with good personality and good character, and learn from him, and students with bad character must stay away to avoid being taken badly.
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It is necessary, after all, there is no intersection of interests, and it is still worth remembering.
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I think it's very necessary, even after graduation, there are still class reunions, and if the relationship between classmates is not good, how can I go to the class reunion.
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It is very necessary, when you work in the society in the future, you will inevitably need classmates, one more friend and one more way.
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You don't need to think too much about it, after you go to college, you will find that your college classmates are much more important than high school, and you won't have much chance to contact them after graduating from high school.
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There's no need, no matter how good the relationship between classmates is, after graduation, they go their separate ways, and there are very few opportunities to meet each other.
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There's no need, I'm in college now, and my high school classmates basically don't have contact anymore, so I pay more attention to college classmates.
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As a recent high school graduate, I think it is necessary that the relationship between classmates determines a person's popularity, and if the relationship between classmates is not handled well, how to get along with others when it comes to the work society in the future.
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It must be necessary, being together for three years in high school, giving people an impression that is very important, you must handle the relationship with your classmates well, and if you have difficulties in the future, others will help.
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I think the most useless classmate relationship is high school classmates, and there is not much intersection in later life, so there is no need to think too much.
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It's still necessary, what's the matter is a three-year relationship, if the relationship between classmates is not good, your reputation will be very bad in the future.
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I'm a lonely person, so I love to think like this, and I often think, haven't I had a classmate worth making friends in the past 20 years? In elementary school, my classmates and I were all very close to each other, and some of them have even been playing together since kindergarten, and it is not uncommon to visit the house. I also thought that this kind of friendship would last forever, but I still underestimated the power of time and place, and we were separated from each other in junior high school, especially in high school.
If there is still occasional contact in junior high school, high school is completely cut off, and I even wait for them to give me a thumbs up every day, but I think the one who is closest to me has never given me a single click. I think it's a good little to be like this, and there is no connection.,There's no **.,Not to mention other elementary school students.。
In junior high school, children's ideas began to sprout, they knew how to build a group, hold a group, and after graduation, they also knew how to organize two or three meals, but even so, this group will eventually become a dead group, the so-called classmates, it is estimated that it is only in the name.
High school is a period of gradual maturity of thought, this period is actually your most unforgettable, the most vivid memory, the most intimate period of class life, as long as you have feelings for this class, no matter how many meals you get together at the end, there are still a few people in the group to speak, whenever you talk about these classmates you will find yourself smiling, in your mind there will always be a lot of people's image is so vivid, although time is passing, but you will find that you and many of them have a trace of contact, at that time classmates are real classmates for me, Although each one may not necessarily be your true friend.
University, for me there is no classmate love at all, a class, only see each other in class, the same class men and women almost do not get along, you live most closely with you in fact only a few dormitories, no matter how many times you get together, iron food, flowing people, people care not about you come or not, more is that the food is not delicious, and you are unhappy. Classmates? Everyone is reluctant to give, and I think it's more of a socializing and socializing apathy.
Of course, in these four periods, it is another matter if you have true friends forever.
So, if you want me to cherish my high school life, to this day, it seems to me that the words that the high school teachers told me at that time are right: when you look back, what you miss most is your high school life, and the friendship between you is also the most real and worth cherishing.
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Everyone's life trajectory is different, and there will be no common topic. Because after graduating from high school, everyone will go to their own different path, and it is also possible that they will go to different cities and different universities because of the difference in college entrance examination results, so from this time on, your relationship will never return, because there are many reasons, first of all, the circle of people you envy the manuscript is different, and you will also meet new friends and new interpersonal circles in college, and your majors may be different, and the content of your study may be different. Then there are no more topics to talk about when chatting together. Therefore, in the face of different life trajectories, it is actually very difficult to keep this friendship with the washing of time.
When you grow up, you become more sophisticated. Because we will experience a lot of things in the process of growing up, high school is a very pure and happy era, but when we go to college, we will find that the things around us will become very utilitarian, and at the same time, this era will also urge us to become rapid growth, so we will also become more sophisticated, because in this process, time will always push us forward, although it is very sweet to recall the high school days, but the relationship between people is to be managed, if there is often a lack of contact, the relationship will fade, and the lack of a story relationship between the two people will gradually drift apart. Pai shed <>
And with the separation of high school, everyone's social class will also change, because some people have good grades in the college entrance examination and go to a good university, so the social class will become higher, and the social circle is also different, and there is no need to forcibly integrate if the circle is different, which is also the fundamental reason why the relationship between high school classmates is becoming more and more cold. Different circles will meet different friends, with different trajectories and high school classmates will have little contact, and the distance between them will become more and more distant, and there will be nothing to say if you don't see each other for a long time. <>
After going to college, the relationship between high school classmates and friends becomes weaker and weaker, in fact, this is a normal phenomenon, because the interpersonal relationship has changed, so with the passage of time, classmates get together less and leave more, so the relationship is naturally not as good as before, but this is also a very normal phenomenon, we should learn to look down on this kind of thing.
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Because many of us are married or working, our lives are getting busier and busier, and our usual contact will naturally become very few; I think it's all a normal thing, and if you have a good relationship, you will always be in touch, and if you have a bad relationship, you won't be in touch.
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When I was in high school, the friendship between classmates became weaker and weaker, because they knew that they would have a different life path after three years, and at this time they were not willing to pay too much in their relationship.
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This phenomenon is very normal; I believe that as long as people don't have intimate contact with each other, the relationship will fade.
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1) You don't have to deliberately seek to make others appreciate you.
2) Do things with your own principles, don't be too weak. I'm used to being bullied. Don't be too strong, it's obviously a huge disparity in strength. That's a fool's decision, and as a last resort, ban this stunt! Harmony is precious.
Of course, it depends, the minority obeys the majority! This is the trend is also unstoppable, and if it is blocked, it is not only useless but also greatly reduces the impression. However, if you commit a serious disciplinary violation, you have the right not to abstain from the election.
I believe that there are many people who are unwilling to commit serious disciplinary violations. It's best not to be the first to pull out (grab the first bird) except in an emergency. In short, grasp it yourself.
3) Doing something "bad" with classmates or friends appropriately will also help you mingle with your classmates.
4) You can see that you have not had a good relationship with each other. However, college is different from high school, and there are still naughty students, but there are very few. Don't fall behind in learning, only grades and ability can really please people (this is what I only understand now, hey. I got it a little late)
5) Don't have low self-esteem and have confidence in yourself. It's going to be flattened. Blind confidence, that's narcissism, haha. Listen to the opinions of others appropriately, and pay attention to it is appropriate.
6) The most failure of being a person is wall grass, don't be wall grass! Everyone is disgusted, disgusted, and angry!! Phew
6) Don't worry too much about anything! , it's so hairy that everyone is hot! `
7) No one is perfect, don't get angry with people about something, make awkward trouble, and break off diplomatic relations. Even speaking ill of others, etc.
8) Speaking of which, I would like to remind you not to gossip too much, say bad things about others all day long, or spread the ugly things of others when there is an awkward disagreement, so that others will be wary of you in the future! Naturally, there is a gap.
9) Seriously summarize how you have problems getting along with your classmates in high school, who is the problem, and are they all responsible? (Be strict with yourself and be lenient with others).
To tell you the truth, I was a failure in high school too.
But I feel good now, because luckily I made a few friends at that time! Damn, it's really not easy to meet good friends now, boss.
It's been more than 1 year since I graduated from high school, and I haven't had the kind of classmates who used to get along happily!
I used to bully the big guys in high school, but now I'm sensible. This holiday, he took the initiative to play with me. What an accident...
It's really endless, anyway, learn to get along with people in life, and pay attention to it yourself. Confidants can be met but not sought. Take advantage of it.
The above is purely a personal opinion! )
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High school students are growing up.
The ideas are also very simple.
It is also necessary to talk.
This is also very helpful for children's emotional growth.
My high school life is very rich, because I have achieved a combination of work and rest in high school, I did not blindly study, I also made a lot of good friends in reading, and I did not fall behind in my studies, and my grades were very good. <>
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