What do you guys think about high school students falling in love

1. It's best not to fall in love during high school, but as an elder and a high school student, it's actually useless to say these things, because the elders also came from that stage, in high school, just in the rebellious period, they think you don't understand their innocent love, in fact, it's not, the elders are also from the past, the elders used to be young, and what the elders said is actually quite reasonable.

2. High school students come to stretch their hands with their mouths and clothes, they have not experienced the hardships of life, nor do they know the hardships of making money, so they do not understand the difficulties experienced by their elders.

3. Life is very hard, work is very hard, only on the grounds of falling in love, they are not tired of reaching out for a mouthful of food, therefore, they can not understand the dissuasion of their elders, perhaps only when they have grown up and experienced the hardships of life, they can understand the hardships of their elders!

On this issue, I want to tell you that there are pros and cons to falling in love, especially for high school students, in fact, when you reach the age of high school, it is the age when many students fall in love, and many people's first love is at this time, so in this case, then I think the advantage of falling in love is that it can release our mood, because from the perspective of human nature, boys and girls at this time are in love, although the first love is young, but I think it is quite good, This future love may be a little simpler, then his shortcomings, in fact, are obvious to everyone, then it affects learning, many parents attach great importance to learning, and teachers also attach importance to learning, so this is indeed the case.

First of all, I'm also a high school student. I think it's generally not practical to fall in love in high school, and it doesn't last long. High school is really intense, and your task is to take the college entrance examination and enter the university, and falling in love at this time seems to be competing with yourself for time.

And after graduating from the college entrance examination, they all went their separate ways, how many people can be together? If the original feelings are not very innocent, they can't withstand the test.

If you like each other, just stick to it, get admitted to a good university together, and strive to be admitted to the same school, long-distance relationship is very painful.

1. Don't have too much hope and expectation for this brother's relationship, because the greater the expectation of another person, the greater the disappointment. And I don't have to express my feelings to her with particularly warm and energetic feelings, because it may also be a kind of pressure for the other party.

2. Keep your distance, because sometimes there will really be some unnecessary suspicion and suspicion. And once this happens, it's hard to dissipate.

3. Don't focus on falling in love, there are more important things to do in college. Girls won't change their minds because you envy the bureau and how much you love her. She needs to see that you have advantages that others don't have, which can be appearance, experience, and grades.

4. Don't have too many lies, paper can't contain fire.

Lies can silence the other person again and again, but this is only a stopgap measure after all. The most important thing for couples to get along with each other is trust, so you don't want to consume this trust again and again.

5. Love is unfair, the more you give, the less you may gain, the less you will be valued, and the less you will be cherished.

What you can't get is always disturbed, but what is favored is fearless. Personal experience, when you fall in love in college, don't devote yourself to it, but also allocate a considerable part of your energy and time to study, otherwise you may lose your wife and lose your soldiers in the end.

In middle school and high school, learning always comes first. If you want to fall in love, it's not impossible, but you have to put learning first, and it's okay for two people to study together. In college, it's more free, and falling in love can be seen everywhere.

However, I personally think that it is best for two people to study together, encourage each other, and the most important thing is to find someone who shares their interests. I think that the love of junior high school students is the kind of youthful love that is first opened, and it is not mixed with any financial benefits at all, so it should also be cherished, and it will slowly fade into memories in the future. Although it may be said that I swore love at that time, and even did some crazy things, but it was mostly the curiosity of the opposite sex in adolescence, and when I was in high school, my thinking would change, and those relationships in junior high school would not be too important.

At this time, it is more about worship of the opposite sex, and of course there will be true love. If high school is on the premise that both parents agree, it will be very happy and happy. And college, the impulse to fall in love for many years can finally be indulged, and college is the highest and lowest success rate in love.

Because at this time, the thinking is relatively mature, and it is more practical to think about the problem, but after all, I have not entered the society, and after graduation, I will find more realistic problems, and of course, I am also faced with the situation of regretting and running to things. But you must be in love in college, no matter what the result is, you must have experience, and you will be deceived after entering society.

Do you want to fall in love in college?

If energy allows, this can be regarded as a compulsory course, I hope that you can ensure that you can find your favorite lover and have a vigorous love without affecting your academic performance in college during your college years, because it is difficult to experience campus love after leaving the campus.

Campus love is a very beautiful love, we can walk hand in hand on the campus of the university, experience the scenery and charm of the university.

What is the difference between a college romance and an affair in high school?

Difference 1: The essential difference is age.

In high school, we are still teenagers and minors, and after entering college, we have become adults, and there is still a very big difference between looking at love from the perspective of adults, so we must take some responsibility for our own behavior and must establish a strong sense of responsibility.

Difference 2: Studying is slightly less stressful, providing ample time for love.

When I was in college, many times, we didn't have too many courses, everyone just simply studied the course, and then made up for the exam, so that the relaxed learning atmosphere left a lot of blanks for your spare time, everyone has time to interpret love, so you must make good use of the time, study hard at the same time, and enjoy the beautiful life that love brings regret to rent.

In the love of love, we must improve our awareness of learning, and the two of us must be positive, so that we can really reap a good love result, don't just play and waste our studies. Be sure to understand the truth carefully.

Difference 3: The degree of freedom of time and space is relatively high.

When I was in high school, we were all living at three o'clock and one line, going to class, eating and sleeping, and the time was very tight, in addition to studying or studying every day, and when we arrived at university, time and space have changed a lot, creating a large range of our learning space, we must use this time and space to experience life.

Difference 4: Love has changed from love to love.

In high school, we are all ignorant teenagers, whether boys or girls, everyone stays in simple likes, and in college, our ideological realm has risen, our thoughts are more mature, and we begin to really understand what love is, what is love, and can clearly see through the difference between love and like.

I think it's actually very normal, because in high school, at least the age is about 15 years old, in fact, they are already going through adolescence, there is this kind of admiration, like it is actually very normal, then at this time, parents need to establish a correct value for them, tell them the pros and cons, I think this Zen circle is what parents should do. When you get to the age of someone you like, there's nothing wrong with learning to love, I can't understand why you want to suppress people's nature, and I deeply believe that falling in love will affect learning, my best friend fell in love in high school, and then I was admitted to NTU, you must know that she was only able to wander around Benyi before, I envy this kind of love. I recommend that high school students don't fall in love.

I also fell in love when I was in high school, but I still don't recommend falling in love in high school, because this is early love, especially in high school, which is a more important stage, involving the college entrance examination, and you can't let falling in love affect your learning.

I'm an example.

The girl is now a freshman in high school, and her boyfriend is a junior, and the two of us have known each other since childhood, and our parents have a good relationship, so we used to play together.

I didn't know how to like him, and then I confessed to him at the instigation of my friends, and I regretted it as soon as I finished speaking, but he actually said that he liked me, and at that time I didn't really want to be with him because I still didn't think it was suitable in all aspects.

He also said to get along, if not, it's the same as before, now we have been together for several months, in the same city but I live on campus, and I am busy on weekends and rarely see each other.

I felt embarrassed on the only two meetings I had (toes picking at the ground!! Woo woo woo is so embarrassing.

I felt that he was also quite shy, and he said that it was all because he struggled inwardly for a long time before he wanted to hold my hand. Falling in love with someone five years older than me may be like finding a parent for yourself, and my boyfriend also raises me as a daughter...

It still doesn't affect my studies, I studied in the International Department, and I don't know how to live with him in the future when I go abroad in two years.

There's no special brother socks other feelings.,It's the same as online dating.,Years and but never quarrel.,It shouldn't be a quarrel.,He rarely gets angry, especially to me.,Almost not angry.,I belong to the kind of temperament and personality that is very explosive.,I used to quarrel with others.,Now I'm much more docile with him.。

Really if you can experience it, I also support the experience.,But to combine your own situation.,I'm because the academic pressure is not great.,Usually mobile phones, ipads, and computers are quite free.,So if you have time to fall in love.,Friends still have to think deeply.。

Love in middle school is no longer an individual phenomenon, nor is it an accidental phenomenon, but it is not a whole phenomenon. Falling in love has become a topic that cannot be ignored in middle school.

On the issue of middle school students' love, many parents are more entangled and completely opposed, and it is not very realistic, but in their hearts, sometimes they are unwilling to accept such a reality.

What should we think about the love of middle school students?

First of all, we may have to distinguish between male and female classmates who are not in love, and some are just male and female classmates who have a good impression of the attraction between the opposite sex after entering puberty, we don't label this relationship, thinking that the child must be in love, so don't magnify this problem.

In addition, it is also necessary to come, what is puppy love, the definition and standard of puppy love, and now everyone's views are different from before. How early is it!

Even if the child is really in love, don't beat him to death with a stick. We have also met many of these students who have been admitted to prestigious schools in our work, and they have more or less some love experience in high school, so we should also look at this aspect positively.

In middle school, what needs to be cultivated, of course, love is not the main thing, but if the child is at this stage, he can make like-minded classmates in learning, and there is no study between the two people, he can also cultivate a feeling, so that feelings and learning are grasped with both hands, such a love should have a certain positive energy.

Of course, we should pay attention to this phenomenon, if we say that children who are better at learning suddenly have this kind of major fluctuations in learning, or that children who are originally good in personality because they have a relationship with the opposite sex that is not suitable. This should attract the attention of parents, and parents should still pay attention to the signs and have a heart-to-heart talk with their children.

Of course, even if it is a particularly positive relationship, it is necessary to divide the time and occasion. First of all, from the perspective of time, junior high school is not suitable for love, and in high school, when you are in the third year of high school, when you are facing the college entrance examination, you must also put your mind away. In addition, from the perspective of the occasion, after all, middle school is about learning, it is impossible to spend the first and second month, and do not influence other students in the classroom, occasionally express their love for each other, and convey a feeling, but you can't revolve around each other all day long, but should revolve around learning.

After all, the sovereignty of love is in the child, parents can only observe and analyze from the external perspective, if it is found that the child has a tendency to fall in love, and this tendency causes the child to be unable to control himself, then the parent should communicate more with the child from the angle.

How to look at high school students falling in love, it is inappropriate for high school students to fall in love, you should do a good job in studying, and in the case of studying well, you can fall in love appropriately.

1.High school is not the best time to fall in love.

I always tell my students that you are all very good, and it is normal to appreciate a certain boy and a certain girl. But right now you don't have the capacity to take responsibility for your emotions, and it may not be the best time to put most of your mind to that for four reasons:

1.You can't control your emotions well, you can't do a reasonable allocation of energy in your feelings and studies, wasting too much time will undoubtedly affect your studies, the most important task in high school is to study, and strive to improve your overall quality, and strive to be admitted to the university of your choice.

2.There are too many unknowns. After the college entrance examination, you will go your separate ways, and if you don't go to college in the same city, it will be difficult for the long-distance relationship to maintain. I've followed the love journeys of my former graduates, and all long-distance relationships have lasted less than two years at most before they break up.

4.People will have a certain amount of aesthetic fatigue. In high school, we were together, and when you reach your junior or senior year, you may be too familiar with each other, so you can't feel each other's advantages, you lose your heartbeat emotions for each other, and you won't wait for the moment of love.

For puppy love, there is no need to be afraid of a tiger.

I don't know if the teachers who read this article, especially the high school teachers, have noticed that there are not many students who make friends in the first and second years of high school.

I think it may also be because of the excessive pressure of studying in the third year of high school, and the two of them can study and communicate together together, which can alleviate this pressure to a certain extent. There is an obvious generation gap between children and parents, and if there is something on their minds that they are unwilling to communicate too much with their parents, it is more appropriate to find someone to talk to than early love.

If the child's learning attitude is still positive and does not invest too much energy in communication, there is no need for us parents to blindly reject and interfere rudely. The children in the second and third years of high school are a little rebellious, and if they are not handled properly, they may have consequences that the teacher will regret. For so many years, if it's a positive emotion, I'm not against it to a certain extent.

Interactions must not be carried out in a way that goes beyond being a student.

I made it very clear to each of the students that the two of us are together to better stimulate their enthusiasm for learning, and there is no objection to discussing issues, and I have no objection to eating together in the cafeteria at noon, but I can't behave beyond being a student in public. Especially in classrooms and study rooms, they should not be glued together and affect the learning atmosphere of the whole group.

It's normal for men and women to appreciate each other, but each flower has a different flowering period, and if you prefer plum blossoms to bloom in the summer, it will decay quickly, and I personally think that high school is not the best time for love flowers to bloom. But I'm not against students trying it, after all, it's an experience that life has to experience, sooner or later.