My husband died, and I wanted to take my one year old son back to my parents house, but my in laws

They will definitely not agree, I think not because they are reluctant to you, but because they are afraid that you will take his grandson away, if they are just your husband's son, you can consider raising the child for them, so that you can also have a new life, and you can negotiate with them, you can see your son, I am also a person with children, I know that I am very reluctant, but there is still a long way to go, you must think carefully.

Wishing you and your family well.

Do more of their ideological work, and it is best not to use legal means, otherwise the family relationship will not be guaranteed.

If you really can't, use the law to protect your rights.

Generally, the in-laws don't agree, mainly for the sake of the little grandson, if the son dies, if the grandson leaves again, won't they have no hope? You can communicate well with your in-laws, including that your son will never change his surname, including letting your son know his background, including letting your son go to see his grandparents regularly, etc. You have to communicate more about everything, and if you think about the elderly, they will naturally think about you.

Good luck.

You must first know what your in-laws think, you can't make claims without permission, everything is solved slowly, if they are sensible, they will think about you after all, you are still young. There are many solutions, after all, the husband has not been gone for a long time, and he can't do anything out of line. Your in-laws may be afraid that you will not come back, their worries are understandable, talk to your in-laws about your thoughts.

Leave your son to them and go back to themselves!

Summary. The husband does not let you take the child back to her parents' house, this situation is not very common, and the husband is generally very willing to let his wife take the child back to the child's grandmother's house. Can you know what the reason for not letting him bring it?

My husband won't let me take the children back to my parents' house.

The husband does not let you take the child back to her parents' house, this situation is not very common, and the husband is generally very willing to let his wife take the child back to the child's grandmother's house. Can you know what the reason for not letting him bring it?

I don't know, I already have two children, so what does it matter to take one with me.

Didn't you communicate with him about the reason for his strange thoughts? Does he feel that your relationship makes him feel insecure and that once you bring the child back, he feels bad for him?

I've been home for half a month, my husband is out of town with his parents, and there are two children, he goes out to work with his father, and her mother is at home with me with two children, have you ever taken the children back to your parents' house before? What was his attitude at that time? Did he misunderstand your mother's family?

I didn't take it, I took the child to go to him too, he had a car to drive me there, when the Chinese New Year was about to be, I asked him to take my daughter to my mother's house, he made excuses that he was very busy these days, and he had time to take it over, usually I was at my mother's house.

Do you think it's because your family gives him some insecurity? Think your child will be bullied when they come to your mother's house?

Legal analysis: Hello, in this case, you are the guardian of the child, you have the right to raise the child, according to the law, your in-laws have violated your legitimate rights and interests, you can sue the court to exercise the custody of the child, and the court will unconditionally support your claim. The child will be handed over to you to raise.

However, in this case, I noticed that you don't want custody of the child, you just want to see the child regularly, this is okay through litigation, if you sue, you are fighting for the custody of the child, then the child's grandparents will inevitably fight, if you don't give up, the child will inevitably belong to you to raise, you can give up the custody of the child, however, your request is to visit the child regularly, as a condition, if they don't agree, you ask for child custody, I think they will give in.

Legal basis: Article 1084 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China [Parent-Child Relationship after Divorce] The relationship between parents and children is not eliminated by the divorce of parents. After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother.

After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children.

In the event of a divorce, children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers. For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child. Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.

Summary. Hello, if this is the case, it means that your husband and mother-in-law are divorced, and the child support issue can be resolved through mutual negotiation between the two parties, and if they are not willing to raise them, you can sue them to the court and ask them to pay living expenses every month.

After arguing with my husband and carrying my sick child back to my parents' house, my husband didn't ask, I took my mother to send the child back and filed for divorce, and my in-law's husband had no retention, 20

Hello, if this is the case, it means that your husband and mother-in-law are divorced, and the child support issue can be resolved through mutual negotiation between the two parties, and if they are not willing to raise them, you can sue them to the court and ask them to pay living expenses every month.

20 days later, the child's first birthday, at my door to entertain, the two families do not come and go, bought clothes and ordered cakes for the child to send, and did not go, now the New Year, father-in-law called ** to me and my dad, now I hope we have a good time, I hope I go back to take care of the child, my mother-in-law is sick and can not take care of the child for a long time, since we divorced for two months, my husband has been evasive, saying that my parents let me divorce, he can't understand, I don't want to face my parents in this life, my parents have seen my husband's character clearly, He has no responsibility, and his brain is tendoned, or like his mother, his father-in-law has a family outside, basically not in this family, and he is also a calculating small businessman, and now the situation is that his family wants me to go back to take care of the child, and he does not face my parents, my parents let me divorce, I am reluctant to let the child become a single parent child in this kind of family, calm down and don't want to divorce, but I can't accept the attitude that my husband doesn't want to face my parents, he means, either go back for the New Year, or divorce after the year, Either I want my parents, or I want him and my children, teachers, I hope I can get your analysis and advice!

I listened to these descriptions of yours, I feel in a dilemma, since ancient times, it is difficult for Qing officials to cut off family affairs, I think if you go back, you can have a complete family for your children, but for you and your husband, because of this estrangement, as long as you quarrel, you will think of this matter, and at the same time, your mother-in-law is sick and can't help take care of it, and your father-in-law has a small family outside, so it can't help you or anything in your life, but if you don't listen to your parents, If you choose this, they will support you, but if you don't have a good life in the future, your parents will definitely complain about you and don't listen to them to cause this phenomenon to happen, so the final decision is still up to you, I can only help you analyze it, and remind you to do so.

Summary. During the marriage, the husband and wife should respect and care for each other, so the woman has the right to return home to live.

I had a quarrel with my mother-in-law, and my husband didn't let me go home, I haven't been home for a month, but he didn't tell me to go home, but I miss the child, me.

At. If your husband doesn't let you go home, you won't go back, that's also your home, why can't you go back?

If you have a conflict with your mother-in-law, you don't go home, and the contradiction is not resolved.

When I go back, I always feel like I'm an outsider.

If he refuses to let you go home, you can call the police.

That's your own home.

I don't have a key.

I want to have children too.

I made a suggestion to my mother-in-law, he just didn't know anything about me, he would take care of it.

During the marriage, it is illegal for the husband not to let his wife come home, so he directly calls the police to deal with it.

I don't give living expenses either.

During the marriage, the husband and wife should respect and care for each other, so the woman has the right to return home to live.

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My mother was absent when I was very young, so after I got married, I treated my mother-in-law as filial piety. Although my mother-in-law is my husband's stepmother, it makes no difference to me, my mother-in-law is very good to me, and people in the village say that we don't get along like mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but like mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

When I got married, my dad took out 100,000 yuan to save money, and my in-laws supported some of the money, so we bought a small truck and started transportation. Although it is more tiring to run the transportation people, the income is not bad.

After we got married, every time my husband took the money, he didn't give it to me, but gave it to his mother-in-law. He said that he had never seen his biological mother since he was a child, and his mother-in-law raised him, so his mother-in-law was his real mother. In fact, I know that she is reluctant to spend money on her mother-in-law, but she is happy in this way.

We have been married for more than a year and our daughter was born. After the birth of my daughter, my husband became more energetic, getting up early and running the car greedily at night, I reminded him more than once to pay attention to safety, but he always said that he was strong, let me not worry!

Although I said yes, whenever he ran the night train, he was always scared. It didn't take long for what I was worried about to finally happen, my husband had a car accident while running a night train.

When the news came, I fell ill all of a sudden, but my mother-in-law was very strong and dealt with the accident, the claim, and the burial of my husband. Originally, I thought that I would depend on my mother-in-law in the future, but what I didn't expect was that after everything was dealt with, my mother-in-law's attitude towards me suddenly became indifferent. Always looking for my faults everywhere, saying that I will remarry sooner or later anyway, the words are all trying to drive me away.

I really couldn't understand why my mother-in-law did this, so I took the child back to my parents' house first. My mother cried and persuaded me to remarry as soon as possible, saying that my mother-in-law was not my husband's mother after all, and now that I have lost so much money, and my husband is gone, she must be worried that I will have to share the money to do this. But I never believed that my mother-in-law was such a person.

I lived in my mother's house for more than three months, and suddenly I got the news that my mother-in-law was dying! I left my daughter with my mother, and hurried to my mother-in-law's house, and saw that my mother-in-law was indeed dying. I sat at the head of my mother-in-law's bed with tears in my eyes, holding her hand, and when my mother-in-law saw me, her eyes lit up, and with great difficulty, she took out an envelope from under the pillow and handed it to me.

It turned out that her mother-in-law had been diagnosed with cancer before this, and she knew that after she was terminal, she asked her husband to help her hide it, saying that she would treat it slowly in the future, but she didn't expect her husband to suddenly have an accident, if she didn't drive me away, when I knew the situation, I would definitely use my husband's compensation and savings over the years to treat her, and she felt that it was all a waste. So she came up with the idea of driving me away, but she left a special will, leaving all her property to me and my daughter.

After reading this letter, I could no longer hold back my tears, knelt at the head of the bed and cried bitterly, crying and saying, "I knew you wouldn't drive me away!" ”

Although my mother-in-law didn't drive me away, but now I have to leave me alone, looking at my sleeping mother-in-law, although I feel very distressed, I still feel very lucky to meet such a good mother-in-law.

I smiled happily with tears in my eyes, and secretly made a decision: I must try my best to keep her, even if I spend all the money on me, I will not feel distressed!

I don't think you can ignore your mother-in-law at this time, at least help her find someone who can take care of him. Otherwise, you will be blamed by others.

You still need to take care of your mother-in-law, in fact, your mother-in-law's approach is not to want their family to delay your future life, such a mother-in-law is a good mother-in-law.

You should take proper care of her, because she used to be your mother-in-law, you do a little filial piety, but you can't be dragged down by her, because you still have your own independent life.

First of all, his grandparents must be unwilling, his son has died, and the only support is this grandson, but you want to take it away, they are definitely unwilling. Although they know that if you want to take them away by force, they can't stop them.

They are inevitably sad, and there is no way to have it both ways, while telling them the actual situation: you have to leave here and go back to your mother's house, for the reason you say, they will definitely not force you to stay. The child must follow you, because the child is too young, and the child cannot live without maternal love.

So there's no way you have to take the child. This reason is sufficient.

We can understand the feelings of the two elders, but there is no way to do it, we can only say this, and then go ruthlessly.

If you feel that it hurts the elderly too much, you can often bring your children to see them, send them **, and call them. Comfort them more, comfort them.

Everyone is a victim.

First of all, you should choose an environment that is conducive to your child's growth, not for your own convenience. After deciding, explain the pros and cons to your relatives, and I believe they will be reasonable.

Personally, I think you should have the right to decide, but it is best to take into account the feelings of the man's family.