What do you think is the least necessary thing to do in college?

This question reminds me of my college roommate, who chose to sign up for a ballet club with another roommate of mine, and the fare was not very expensive, only 100 yuan, and they went there every night to chat or sit down, and their troupe leader would not teach them some dance skills, so it was a waste of money. <>

In my opinion, the least necessary thing to do is to join a club, because although everyone says that joining a club is chosen according to your hobbies, in fact, you don't know that you are just a miscellaneous person for the club. Because the sophomores and seniors feel like they see the labor force when they see you coming, even if you think you can stick to it in the end, more and more things will stop you.

As an old student who is about to graduate from college, I think the last thing to do in college is to participate in some meaningless clubs, or activities, and some clubs are just for the purpose of charging. In essence, nothing is taught to students, and at this time, the little budding who enters the freshman year must keep his eyes open, learn more about it, and don't listen to what others say.

There's no need to do anything to find a partner. I once found a good boy in college, but it didn't work, and in the end I broke up because of work problems. Therefore, the sweet talk in college is a lie, and you are very likely to disagree because of some work or other problems.

If it were me, running for class committee would be the last thing to do. Because at the beginning, I really wanted to contribute to the class and went in to become the class president. But when you choose this person as a class committee member, you will find that he is actually only for himself and does not want to contribute to his classmates.

But what can be done? Your initial choice was still wrong.

Then it's time to join the student council. In fact, at the beginning, I was in the mood to want to exercise myself, but when I actually participated in the student union, I found that in fact, you can't learn anything here, because everyone is just a normal interaction, and there is nothing to ask you to exercise or anything like that.

When I first entered the university, I didn't understand anything, so I joined some clubs, as well as student unions and the like, so in my opinion, there is no need to participate in this kind of organization, sometimes it is not our brain power that exercises us, but our physical strength, and I often give some seniors cheap labor in my freshman year, which is really too bitter.

First of all, in my opinion, what you need to figure out in college is what you like, what you are interested in, and what you must do.

1. There is no need to get used to certain people, college life is equivalent to half of society, if you are willing to tolerate certain things or certain people during college, then you have to tolerate social work, you should be angry when you should be angry, and you will not help when you should not help, and learn to refuse.

2. There is no need to be gregarious for the sake of being gregarious, presumably there is often such a saying in the university, and if you don't fit in in college, you have autism and so on. Then there will be many people who find ways to enter other people's circles, participate in various social activities, participate in various parties, etc., and as a result, they meet a bunch of people, and other things are worse, and there is no use of friends they can make friends.

3. There is no need to envy some people and some things, the development direction of the university and even in the future is inconsistent, just concentrate on doing a good job in your own field.

4. There is no need to deliberately raise your value for the sake of face, just know what you are like in your heart, just be natural on the surface, don't pretend.

5. There is no need to fall in love for the sake of falling in love, don't go to the kidneys and not to the heart.

College is half a small society, unlike junior high school and high school, where your friends and even some things are very simple.

It's better to hang out with a group of people than to find real good friendsGive up useless socializing and improve your abilities. There are many students who start to give up their studies when they are in college and start to indulge their lives completely. This is very wrong, because college is a stage where we can talk about our abilities very well, and we can take a lot of certificates in college, which will help us find better jobs after graduation.

Your useless socializing in college will only make you happy for three years, but these certificates will keep you happy for a lifetime.

Four years of college, four years is not short, but not long. If the college entrance examination is the first watershed in life. Then the four years of college are an important stage of your self-awakening.

The four years you thought were fulfilling and meaningful. In fact, you waste a lot more time than you think!

Because of some inconsequential activities, the study is delayed. Tell me a true story, I'm sure there must be one around you. Because the student union has all kinds of matters, various tasks, and meetings.

As a result, I skipped class and failed the exam. I also said helplessly, the student union can't get away here, help me get it!Work wholeheartedly, ignore and study.

Brother, university is still about learning!Even if you can't pass the top few in the class, it's not a matter of failing the course. Many seniors who serve in the student union will basically quit in their junior year.

After all, you still have to think about yourself first.

Take confusion as an excuse for decadence!

It's normal to be confused, and at this age, the confusion that should come will come.

However, many people say that I am confused, and I also want to work hard, and then go to decadence with peace of mind.

The appearance of confusion is to allow you to break through yourself, to find yourself, and to do meaningful things. Of course, the process of breakthrough will be a little tormenting, the inner struggle will be constant, and even you will have a lot of strange thoughts, and you will slowly begin to study the meaning of life. None of this is much, but the most feared thing is.

Here's what universities don't have to do:

Force yourself to fit in

Everyone else skips class, you don't run away and be ridiculed as a nerd, okay!You run away, too. Everyone else plays games all night, you don't play being laughed at corny, okay!

You're also all-nighters. Everyone else goes shopping and watching movies after class, and you go to the study hall to study and get laughed at for being serious, okay!You also play.

Participate in all the activities you can

Participate in more activities to exercise yourself, yes. But be sure to make trade-offs, too many extracurricular activities will take up a lot of your study time, and repetitive activities will not effectively improve your personal ability.

Forcing yourself to fall in love

This is only for girls, if you are not in love with someone, but in order to make yourself not lonely or fall in love for the so-called "youth without regrets", then you will lose more in a college relationship than you gain.

Studying is just to get a high score in exams, and for scholarships, all courses are put into studying

What kind of Marxism-Leninism-Mao Deng or elective food appreciation, to invest so much energy in studying to improve the test score of a dozen or even a few points, is simply a waste of time.

Too much time to sleep

How many people in college have developed the habit of sleeping until noon just enough to go to lunch? Still have a good word, can't sleep well, and the learning efficiency is not high? How many hours do you sleep a day before the college entrance exam? Was the study inefficient at that time?

Focus on people who don't matter in your life

gossip about the teacher's marriage and love situation, laugh at a certain strange person in a certain dormitory, and denounce a certain scumbag boyfriend. There is no positive meaning other than wasting time and leaving yourself with a body of negative energy.

In order to expand the so-called network, they deliberately cater to others

After working, you know how nonsense college connections are, and it is better to improve your personal ability to expand those illusory connections, and when you have the ability, the network will automatically find you, which is far more effective than eating and drinking with your classmates every day in college.

1. Research.

Try to test the professional-related certificates: the fourth and sixth levels must not be passed, the teacher qualification certificate even if you don't become a teacher in the future, there is a career subsidy (1000 yuan), psychological counselor, accounting, human resources, and so on too much (many cities have vocational subsidies, that is, the exam is paid), as long as it is related to the future career, it must be examined, and the certificate is still very useful after going out of society.

The driver's license must be tested in the university, and your time after work is money, and it is hundreds of days off a day, and now there are 4 driver's licenses, and you can't get off for half a year.

2. Postgraduate entrance examination. Improving academic qualifications is the most important thing to do in universities, graduate school is definitely not a waste of time, changing fate may depend on it, I have a best friend, Henan Normal University undergraduate garbage major, graduation salary 3500, and then desperately admitted to Beijing Foreign Chinese graduate school, and then the school has exchange students abroad, and then graduated in 2 and a half years, Audi product manager, monthly salary 18000, don't hearsay that it is useless to go to graduate school, those people are definitely not graduate students.

3. Internship. If you really feel that the graduate school entrance examination is hopeless and you need to work to solve economic problems, you must do an internship in the summer, it is best to have a proper company, and you must also make a high-end offline promotion for the xx brand, which will be the most important stroke in your first resume in life.

There are many students, who have just entered the university, will have a period of confusion and do not know what to do, and then, it is easy to step on the thunder. When some people see what others are doing, they blindly follow the trend, have no thinking of their own at all, and do not take into account their own actual situation, thus wasting a lot of good time in college. Next, let me talk about the last things that college students should do in college.

First, make friends blindly. When you first come to the university, many students may feel that they have no friends and feel lonely, so they begin to take the initiative to do some good things in the class or dormitory, and desperately pretend to be a good person to get along with by their side, the purpose is to find some friends as soon as possible. Maybe this approach is good, but it is easy for a person to lose himself, forget what kind of person he is, and have no bottom line for making friends by himself, and the friends he makes later are not sincere.

In fact, as long as you are good enough, those sincere friends will naturally come to you, so you don't have to deliberately please someone.

Second, blindly fall in love. It's normal to fall in love in college, but there are many people who still can't meet their love in college. Therefore, when they see others talking about sweet love, they will be very envious and mistakenly think that falling in love is something that must be done in college.

In this way, they will fall in love for the sake of falling in love, that is, they are not so sincere in finding a partner, but they have a fluke mentality, maybe they just want to experience the feeling of falling in love. Therefore, this kind of love has no future, but will waste time, we should wait, if you are good enough, the right person, will come naturally.

Third, sleep and play games. In college, many people choose to lie flat, will degenerate in the dormitory, play games and sleep. This practice is a waste of time and a waste of youth.

Our college life should be exciting, in college, we can do a lot of meaningful things, make our college life colorful, and sleep and play games can also be done after we retire, why waste time doing these now. Our youth is not a few years, and we can do things that should be meaningful.

1.There's no need to see all kinds of people around you and think you've arrived in an ideal country.

Being content with our surroundings makes us frogs at the bottom of a well, and it's getting harder and harder to jump out.

Never think that you see the whole world, the world is much bigger than you think.

Get in touch with great people and see the outside world.

It doesn't have to be a big achievement, at least you'll understand what it means to be hardworking, humble, and in awe.

2.There's no need to pretend to be sophisticated.

The average undergraduate student is probably 18 to 22 years old. It's the time to get in touch with the world and explore it.

Your nature has not been extinguished, and there is no so-called "people in the rivers and lakes, and you can't help yourself".

These four years should actually be the four years in which personal nature is vividly displayed.

Pretending to be sophisticated in the university has a sense of worrying about new words.

3.There's no need to stay up late.

Staying up late is really something that doesn't have any benefits, and there is no need to say more about the negative effects of heart palpitations, liver damage, etc., please keep in mind that staying up late is overdrawing your life.

In order to catch up on dramas, play games, and scroll Weibo, I stayed up until two or three o'clock, and then slept until noon the next day.

You can choose to go to bed at 10 o'clock, get up at 6 o'clock, have breakfast, and you can also catch up on dramas and Weibo.

Maybe I still think that the most unnecessary thing in college is to fall in love. In fact, in real life, you will find that many, many college students are particularly boring when they fall in love. Every day is nothing more than everyone walking together in and out of class, and then everyone eats together during meals, and then they go back to their respective dormitories, in fact, there is not much communication.

In this case, it is better to go to dinner and class alone, which not only saves time, but also does not delay other people's trips. So I think this is the most unnecessary thing, because your relationship may not be so pure now, and some of them are even mixed with some interests. And the most important thing about college love is that there is a graduation season, and this season is often the season with the most breakups.