In the end, I chose to break up, should I do this?

Updated on society 2024-03-05
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hehe, all parents think the same way. I hope that my children will be able to live well in the future.

    Can you let go of him and love someone else? If it works, you can break up and find another rich man to cultivate a relationship. But now you are sad and sad ... I don't dare say you don't love him, but if you really love him that much?

    A friend of mine once said to me that if a girl loves you, then no matter how poor you are, she will not dislike you and leave you. If you are a beggar, she will be willing to follow you. Of course, this statement may be too exaggerated.

    Maybe there is no such firm love in today's society. What exactly is love? Are you going to find someone you really love, or are you going to complete the task your parents give you (it's not easy to combine the two)?

    If you can give up everything for your boyfriend, then maybe you will give a lot later on. But who knows what will happen in the future? In the world of love, giving and gaining are not equal...

    Think twice. Blessings to all of you No matter what, I hope that both of you can live a "happy" life

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Successful men are the first to endure hardships, a comfortable life is not the best choice, you should choose to wait, for their true love, men will succeed, I feel, there will be successful people in the countryside,

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you really like him, you won't care if he has money, if you like rich people so much, you might as well go to a big money, no money, the two can earn together, 2 years only, as long as 2 people are happy, 2 people really love each other, 1 life and 1 life what's the matter, (but he must be sincere to you) money is something outside the body, life does not bring, death does not take it, I hope you can think about it, now a good man is difficult to find, can find someone who really likes you, has basically become extinct. Wishing you happiness!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It depends on whether you love him or love reality, if you love him, you will suffer with him, if you want to live a comfortable life, leave now.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What the family said also makes sense.

    However, you have to think about what you want.

    Now are you emotional, or is it really love.

    Nothing is impossible, even if you are separated from him, time is the best medicine, and if you don't contact him for a long time, you will forget it.

    There are many options.

    Everyone has a first love.

    Of course, you also have to look at the problem calmly.

    If you can, you can divide it, and if you can't do it, you will continue to insist on it. However, you have to make sure that the other person also loves you. Otherwise, at the end of the day, after he meets someone more attractive than you, you flash.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I've seen other people who have been together for eight years and have been separated for this reason In fact, two people are very happy to work together I don't know why some people say that they love very much, why they don't insist so much It's not that a marriage without a house and money must be unhappy Unless you yourself also want to live a comfortable life and even love that kind of life more than him Anyway, if it is me, I will definitely insist on what I love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Wait two years, I hope you are happy, maybe when you win the lottery, haha.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Divide it, divide it, it's not a good man, you should succeed first and then start a family, **There is a reason to make people wait! ~

    As the saying goes, men are forty-one, but women are forty? It's unimaginable, I don't know if there will be a successful man who will fall in love with a woman in his forties who has never met, at least, I know that there will be n more young and beautiful women who will fall in love with a successful man in his early forties who have never met

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Wait, lest you regret it in the future, two years will pass in a flash.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Why can't people who love each other ?.. together

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Believe him, I have to work hard in the past two years If he comes back and has achievements, he is not a burden to him. If there is still no achievement, then, I can only say that you have lost your eyes, and then, you work hard, dilute the thoughts, and when you forget about it, then, go to find another paragraph, the real waiting. Go for it!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Remember to listen to your parents at all times, and your parents will not give you the responsibility. If you don't listen to the old man, it's you who regret it, your parents are from the past, and they know more than you. They won't lie to you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Take your time, and don't give up if you really like it.

    It's rare to find someone in life who cares about everything.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you really like him, you won't care about it, as long as you're happy.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Dear, hello, I'm glad to answer for you In the world of feelings, there are many feelings that others can't understand. For example, those who should grow old together in the eyes of outsiders eventually parted ways. And two people who seem to outsiders to be impossible at all have become husband and wife.

    So no matter what kind of relationship it is, it's a kind of fate. If two people love each other but can't be together, I separate for some reason. That can only be said that fate is not enough.

    It was originally a very strong thing. You see, the two of them love each other very much. But sometimes fate will break it up.

    Even if two people who love each other can't be together, they have no regrets. So if in the end, if the decision is to break up, I will gladly accept it. Hopefully mine can help him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Of course, I won't regret it, since I wasn't together at the time, it means that the two of them have no fate. If I dwell on it any longer, it won't make much sense, and it will even affect my happy life now, so I won't do it.

    Because as you get older, it's easy for you to understand the people who really make us like. In fact, it won't be long, maybe it will only take half a year at the longest, and the person who was particularly sad and sad at the beginning will find his new love. I know it sounds particularly cruel, but it's also a good thing in a sense:

    After all, when we realize this, we don't stay in the emotional hunger socks for too long. In a relationship, it will be easier for us to let go if we do our best and finally separate peacefully. But if you love each other deeply and fail to use all possible ways to save this relationship, it will end up burning for a long time and unable to let go.

    When you understand this relationship, understand that you are just tormented by unwillingness, there is no possibility for each other, and there is no way to go back to the past, it will be easier to let go of each other. A few years later, you feel that it is a pity that you missed each other, but what you don't know is that you may have escaped and made the best impression on each other. I used to like someone very much, even if the limbs are cultivated, they will fade the edges and corners of each other, and they know how to love each other better.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I especially regret that I didn't slap him at the time, because I feel that I am particularly wronged, and I am very sad when I think about it now, and secondly, I also regret very much that I didn't see what kind of person he was when I was with him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It will be very sad, and at the same time regret being with him, and there is a lot of dissatisfaction in my heart, and I will feel very uncomfortable, regret making the choice to break up, and regret leaving his side.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    After the breakup, I felt that no one else was so good to me except him, and he could tolerate some of my small shortcomings, and I was very lonely after the breakup, and I also regretted it very much, but I didn't have the face to get back together.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    This question depends on each person's situation and needs. If you know that you have to break up with your lover at some point, but you still want to continue to be with them, you need to seriously think about the reasons and consequences of doing so.

    On the one hand, continuing to be with your lover allows you to have a great time and enjoy each other's company and support. Sometimes, even knowing that a breakup is inevitable, there are people who choose to stay in a relationship because they believe it is a worthwhile experience.

    On the other hand, this kind of love can bring unnecessary harm and pain. You may feel unable to truly engage knowing that a breakup is imminent, and they may be sad and disappointed when the other person learns of your true attitude, which can exacerbate the tension between you. Additionally, continuing to be in love may prolong your painful time and prevent you from starting a new relationship.

    Whatever your decision is, you need to consider the ultimate benefits and costs, and communicate with your lover as much as possible to understand their thoughts and emotions.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's best not to start a new relationship in a hurry.

    After a breakup, I personally recommend that it is better not to start a new relationship in a hurry. That said, when you've just ended a relationship, you may need some time to buffer, and you may need to take time to slowly calm down the hurt feelings.

    If you start a relationship quickly as soon as you break up, it can seem like you're a little hungry and too hasty. If you don't know anything about a person and are in a hurry to start a relationship with the other person, then you may be deceived and you will encounter the Waterloo of love again.

    In the face of any new relationship, you should have a proper attitude and leave enough time for each other to better adapt to each other's habits and temperament.

    Only if you know a person well enough can you consider whether or not to associate with them. If you don't know or know someone at all, then it's best not to start a new relationship with him easily.

    Love is about quality, not speed. Love requires stability, not too haste or hastiness. Love that is too hasty and hasty is often easy to wither prematurely. Praise for the hidden reputation.

    When you really let go of your ex and the past, start over.

    After a breakup, if you want to start a new relationship, then you might as well ask yourself, have you completely let go of your ex?

    If the answer is no, then I suggest that you better not rush to start a new relationship. That said, it's only when you've truly let go of the past and you no longer have any expectations and hopes for your ex that you can really think about starting a relationship anew.

    If you have been obsessed with your ex since you broke up, or even severed ties with your ex, then you may not be suitable for starting a relationship again.

    If you still maintain close contact with your ex after you have a new relationship, and you are in love with your current and wild Ren while breaking off the connection with your ex, then this is unfair to the current one, and this is also a manifestation of irresponsibility for the relationship.

    So, when you want to start a new relationship, you must completely disown your ex, and you must really let go or forget about your ex from the bottom of your heart. It is only when you properly empty the past that you can truly embrace a new partner and new feelings.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    When you finish the previous section, you should move on to the next section, and the beautiful scenery is waiting for you on the road you haven't walked.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    A Korean drama starring Song Hye Kyo and Jang Ki Ryong"Now in the Breakup".ushered in the finale, probably for fans of the showThe open-ended ending isn't perfectHa Young-eun didn't go to Paris with Yoon Jae-kook, and gave up the Sono brand and quit his job to start his own business. Two people can only choose to break up, put love in their hearts, and achieve each other.

    However, two years later, Yoon Jae-kook returned to Busan Fashion Week and met Ha Young-eun again. The good old days are still there, and both of them have lived the way they want, and they can live well without each other. So, maybe it's just a meeting between friends, and the fashion week is over, and the two of them are all right and well.

    Although the second female Huang Zhishu and the second male Shi Daoxun had a sweet life, they lived together first and did not get married, and this ending is also very individual. Ha Young-eun's best friend with cancer died, leaving behind her husband and children, and it was rare for her husband not to accept the mistress.

    After Ha Young-eun's parents divorced, his father rented a house near his home, and the two became neighbors and fell in love again. Zheng Suying of the design team also has a successful career and holds hands with the rich second-generation Huang Zhiheng.

    In the play, Song Hye Kyo and Jang Ki-rung are six years apart, and sister-brother love forms a big gap between them, but the most frustrating thing is that there are still many obstacles between them, not only Ha Young-eun is the old love of Yoon Jae-kook's brother, but also the unblessing of the two family members for the relationship.

    He said: "The reason why I set these barriers is because even in the face of difficulties, what is true love? And how do we love?

    That's the point I want to make. And emphasized that the two experienced conflicts and frictions in love, and finally learned to grow, which is the concept of love that "Now Breaking Up" wants to express the most.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Indeed, as you think, the three views of the two of you are really incompatible, and your temperament and temperament are also different. The most critical thing is that he goes to find his ex-girlfriend, which is an insult and betrayal to you. It can be seen that he is also more fond of vanity, and he doesn't care about his girlfriend, and he lacks the responsibility and courage that a man should have!

    So in the face of such a man, whether it is necessary to continue to be together, you should think carefully about whether it is too risky to entrust him with lifelong events, and it is better to break up completely if you quarrel all day long, which is good for both parties.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you really can't stand it, you don't have to grieve yourself, and breaking up is also a good choice, after all, the sooner you make a decision, the better.

    You feel that he has so many shortcomings because you or he is not too invested in your relationship, and your relationship does not make you tolerate and ignore each other's shortcomings. In fact, for a couple with deep feelings, the problems you mentioned above will not be too much of a problem, and the reason why it has become a problem for you is because you are not in a relationship enough.

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