How can you not be sad after a breakup? Why not be sad after a breakup

Updated on psychology 2024-03-01
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't push yourself, don't put too much pressure on yourself, people should always look forward, the road walked, the people who have loved, will not come back in the past, and coming back is not the original scenery of the original mood, love is a sad fairy tale, anyone who has read it, have more or less left regrets, when we finish reading, we will understand a truth, that is, in the world of love, fate dominates everything, if there is fate, time and space are not distances. If there is no fate, even if we get together, we won't be able to understand, so let's let everything go with the flow.

    Everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience everyone is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have happened, time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as the beginning, adjust the mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Go with the flow and take one step at a time. People who are not sad are people who have no love, don't force yourself not to think, time is the best antidote. After a long time, you will slowly figure it out. You don't need to forget, or you'll never forget.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Ay! People are emotional animals, and after being emotionally hurt, you can not be sad! Take your time!

    Everything will pass, let time dilute the pain of this injury! If you lose it, don't worry too much about it, it's better to run dozens of laps outside and then sleep tiredly. Wake up, it's a new day!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Forget everything and come again, this is the best way, forget the most beautiful memories of the past, and find your own love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Overcome yourself and no longer have any thoughts about him between men and women, and if you don't have the desire to want, you can let go of everything.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Do something you think you are happy, and you won't think about her "him" in happiness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Think of something to be happy about.

    Thinking about the former him, she is not good.

    Try to admire other handsome guys and beauties.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Find someone who loves you is someone you love.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Time can help you forget about sadness.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Unless you don't care about him, you'll be sad...Time is everything.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Time can erase your memory!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Go for the next love.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Just broke up. No, you can't be sad.

    Because you loved each other after all.

    But after a while I hope you try to forget.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Now that we've broken up, forget it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The saddest thing for two people is that one is preparing for the future, and the other is preparing to leave. No one can know what is going on in the heart of another person, and even the person he loves the most cannot guess when he doesn't show it. When one party suddenly proposes to break up, maybe the other party will feel that things are too sudden, life is good, and he loves him very much, why break up?

    At this time, I blindly thought about whether I had done something wrong, and whether I could go back to the past if I corrected it. In fact, the other party proposed to break up, which seemed sudden, but in fact, he wanted to break up for a long time. At this time, the other party has accepted the 10,000 possibilities of separation, and the sadness has long since disappeared.

    People are looking for better and better characters, which is admired and looked up to, and the requirements for the other half are no exception. When there is a better person around you, you can also get in touch with it, and you will slowly shift your mind to this person, and the idea of breaking up will appear over time. You may also care about accompanying your other half, but after a long time, your enthusiasm will fade, and you will start to run away.

    When an excellent person appears around, he will slowly forget the person who accompanied him, and the sadness when he broke up will naturally be gone. With a new person by your side, the sadness of the breakup will be replaced by a new relationship, and you will only think about how to accompany your new lover at this time. For some people, love is not the whole of life, and when he experiences an unforgettable love, he will not indulge in it.

    For him, feelings are just an experience, a part of life, and they are discarded after they have been experienced. After falling in love, I was bored, and I decided to focus on my work, and I no longer forced myself to fall in love, and I would have an indifferent attitude after the breakup. Breaking up is a new beginning for him.

    When two people first start together, they may be infinitely tolerant of each other and ignore each other's shortcomings. But if you get along slowly, you will find that the two people can no longer calm down and chat well, the two have different visions, which will produce many contradictions, and they will torture each other together, so one party will propose to break up. The party who proposed to break up must be unbearable anymore, and after the breakup, he is no longer nostalgic for the past, for him, the past is a kind of torture, and going back to the past will only be painful, only looking forward, no longer nostalgic.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The reason is actually very simple, that is, because you don't love him, so you won't be sad, and if you love him, then you can't control your heart at all, and you will be so miserable that you can't breathe. Because you don't love, you won't be sad at all after the breakup, and you even feel a little relaxed.

    When I was in college, there were six girls in the dormitory, and four of them were in love a year after the start of school, and then I was the only one who was not in love with another girl.

    That's right, it's because I see that everyone else has it, so I want to have one, not because I like who wants to have one, and the girl who is single like me also thinks the same, and we are worried about finding a boyfriend all day long.

    Later, she had a suitor who chased her for about half a year, she didn't really like the boy very much, but she really wanted to fall in love, and then she agreed to date the boy, and when she dated the boy, she thought that love was sweet, that is, the kind with pink bubbles, but it was not.

    She was still relatively fresh in the first month of her love, and ran out to play with her boyfriend every day, but she didn't want to go out and didn't want to see her boyfriend in less than a month, she should be in love at that time, but she was not interested in dating, she was not interested in meeting the boy, and she was not interested in talking to the boy, and then the relationship ended, and they had just been dating for two months that day.

    You don't know how happy she is after she broke up, she feels happier than the person who announced her love, not sad at all, because she doesn't like the boy, so she feels like a burden with him, and she doesn't feel happy at all.

    And you're probably similar to her, because you don't like it, so you don't feel sad.

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