Are girls really realistic nowadays?

<> society creates people, there are indeed some girls in this society who fall in love more "realistic", think about it carefully, the existence of this phenomenon has its inevitable reasons. First of all, starting from themselves, these girls may generally go out to work for a long time, in their own words, the hardships they have experienced in life have been almost experienced, why should they embarrass themselves in the future; There are also some "emotional injuries", they may have had a very happy relationship, until the kind of marriage, and finally it is because of these so-called "realistic" reasons that the lovers have to separate, the deeper the injury, the more dare not easily fall in love, so in the future, she thinks that it is better not to mention feelings than to hurt feelings, and there is nothing bad about having a rich material life. Of course, some of them are influenced by their families, and some of them have been educated by family since childhood is more realistic, they clearly know what kind of person I want to choose, and what kind of conditions this person should have in order to make my future life comfortable.

There is also a part of it is due to the reasons of the parents, which girl does not have a little pink in her heart, but these careful thoughts in the heart will always be worn out by their parents, they will clearly put forward, what kind of person you want to find in the future, material, what kind of person will agree to the family, if you don't meet the conditions they propose, you don't need to start, as a lot of people, parents still have to listen, there is no need to argue for a person who has not appeared now, but after a long time, This point of view of parents will subtly affect girls, they will unconsciously look at those who are good in the eyes of their parents, and then slowly feel that this is not bad, and slowly become the kind of girl who is more "realistic" in love in the eyes of people.

<>Of course, if a boy's family conditions are not good, he has no stable economic conditions, he is unwilling to work hard, and he has worked for three or four years and has no savings at all, why does such a boy want a girl to follow you without regrets? Are you set with gold or with diamonds? Seriously, I've heard boys say that some girls are too money-worshipping, too realistic, and very disgusting.

What's wrong with money worship? What's wrong with reality? Life is not a fairy tale, and love without bread will not go far.

If you don't have a little economic foundation, how can you live with other girls? Do I want to stick you upside down? Especially now, when prices are so high, if you don't plan for yourself well before marriage, do you have to regret it when you don't even have the money to buy diapers after marriage?

Seriously, if a boy has no money now, but he is willing to work hard, work hard, and work hard, there will still be girls who are willing to follow him. Girls are very realistic, but they are not rich and handsome. It's just that she can't see the future in you, and she doesn't have a sense of security, how can such a person be entrusted with life?

Not long ago, I saw a news that a girl could only live by nibbling bread when she was pregnant, and finally died because of childbirth at home. Such examples are not common in our lives, but we have heard too many examples of poor couples mourning everything because they have no money, and the husband and wife are living miserably. It's nothing to suffer for a while, but knowing that it is a pit of a lifetime of suffering, the girl is willing to jump down stupidly?

Don't talk about the reality of girls, you have to know that which girl at home is not treated as a pearl by her parents, although she is not pampered, but she has not suffered anything. Why should I go to your house and suffer? Speaking of girls' reality, most of them are men who have no ability and no responsibility.

is like a poor scholar in ancient times, full of complaints, not only hoping to have a beautiful wife when he is down, but also abandoning his wife and children when he is famous, while spitting on the person who is an official, and on the other hand, he hopes that he will be named on the gold list. For example, the famous Chen Shimei. A man who has the ability and responsibility will not suffer his woman for a lifetime, he will consciously struggle and work hard to create conditions for both parties to live comfortably.

Most of the girls now are very realistic, I think this is understandable, because in real life, the whole society, everyone is all looking at money, and the comparison is very serious, so girls are affected in this environment, and many of them have become very realistic, and everything is measured by money, this phenomenon is also understandable, after all, life is inseparable from money, and money can live a better life, however, maybe there are many girls who are not so realistic, or pay more attention to spiritual connotation, I don't pay so much attention to money, but I still advocate the belonging of the soul, I haven't been polluted by society, and I have a kind and pure heart.

Because there are too many men nowadays who have no conscience and no sense of responsibility. Many good women dig out their hearts and lungs for men, and pay selflessly for men, but in the end, they say that they still kick it? Many times, no matter how much a woman pays for a man, no matter how much she sacrifices, the man will not appreciate or cherish.

On the contrary, I will feel that such a woman is too stupid and cheap. It depends on which man this woman is facing, if the two are happy and love each other sincerely, it is not impossible to grow old together. If this woman is sincere to a ruthless person who likes to mess with real flowers, and finally gets tired of playing and kicks it away, then this woman is stupid and does not deserve sympathy.

When a woman is scolded for reality, in fact, there is no one in the world who is unrealistic, who does not love money, and who does not love Xiangche Villa, because they are all human beings and have seven emotions and six desires, so why cause contradictions for which side of reality? As long as you are doing nothing wrong, what does it matter if you are realistic?

Why are girls so realistic now? This is very normal, because the current society is relatively impetuous. Therefore, everyone just thinks that it is better to live in the present, and if you want to live in the present better, you must have the support of a material foundation.

Because it's human nature.

Nowadays, it is very realistic for both boys and girls, so this is a very common phenomenon.

Everyone wants to have a good life, so it's understandable to be a little selfish.

Because living in this society, there are no unrealistic people, no matter what, they will choose rich people, only in this way can they live a good life, and the reality persecuts.

The current society is like this, first of all, you have to live, and when you are done, you will compare with others, he talks about money with the poor, that is, you have no money, if you have money, then what kind of money do you talk about, if you have money, you will have love!

In fact, it can only be said that it is a part of the girls.

People are more or less realistic. It's just that women like to talk about reality, while men mostly just don't say it. So giving people the illusion that women are realistic. In fact, it is the same for men.