If you say too much, you will lose, and the really wise people never say anything

Talking less nonsense is a virtue. Influence others, if you can, don't say it.

Not saying mean things is a kind of upbringing.

Not making promises lightly is a form of respect.

It's not a pointless argument, it's a kind of open-mindedness.

It is wise not to speak from the heart. The speaker has no intention, but the listener has the intention. Inadvertently, the news was leaked.

Smart people will definitely understand the truth that if you say more, you will lose, in ordinary communication, like praising yourself in front of others, "I am strong, I am more capable than you", "you are too bad", they basically rarely say, let others listen to it will definitely be unhappy, although on the surface do not say, the heart has already written down. Gradually, it will be estranged.

I think you're wrong, I don't believe you, etc. I think you are wrong, it means that you don't recognize the abilities of others, and I don't believe that you represent that you don't have a sense of trust with other people, and you will lose people's hearts.

Better than you. The truly intelligent people are calm, and the truly intelligent hearts are silent.

Nonsense, mean words, casual promises. Wasting time with nonsense, making enemies with mean words, and making random promises without being able to do so is disrespectful to others.

Truly smart people never show off how capable they are, but like to listen to others, and instead of boasting about themselves, they keep a low profile.

If you say too much, you will lose, and the 4 sentences that smart people don't say are as follows:

1.Don't complain: It's better to smile than to complain.

Don't complain about God's injustice all over the world when you encounter a little thing. You can whine once in a while, but you can't complain all day, and no one likes to be in front of a resentful woman all day.

You have to understand that many times, it is useless to complain, and complaining about a day is far less rewarding than working hard for a while. So, go for it! Turn all complaints and dissatisfaction into motivation and show the world powerfully!

Complaining and complaining has become the norm for some people, no matter how big or small, at work or in life, they often complain. This doesn't work, that one is not good, it doesn't seem to be going well.

2.Don't talk nonsense: It's better to review than to talk nonsense.

Nonsense is nonsense, nonsense, nonsense, mediocrity disturbs itself. Nonsense is often known as soon as the brain is hot, without being filtered by the brain, and people are often not so sober when they talk nonsense, and they don't have much memory afterwards. It is easy to produce bad emotional endings, and in the long run, it is not conducive to the establishment of personal magnetic field.

Some people love to think crankily when they encounter something, and the more they think about it, the worse it gets, and the more they think about it, the more sad they become. Under the control of this pessimism, it is easy to say some brainless nonsense. These words may be just venting for you, and you don't remember what you said afterwards.

However, for the listener, the negative impact can be significant. After a long time, who will dare to be close to you? Therefore, the best solution to the problem is to find the problem quickly and solve the problem!

3.Don't gossip: It's better to gossip than to do more.

Chatting, we are inevitable at work, when we are free, chatting, talking about family life, but each of us will have jealousy, once people have a jealousy of building rocks, it is inevitable that there will be sarcasm and sarcasm of you. Cneism always makes people feel uncomfortable.

Jealousy is a stinky problem for many people. When some people see the people around them, when they get good grades and success, they start to talk about it, and even say some sarcastic things, and everyone has a problem in their eyes. It is impossible for such a person to focus on his own career, but will put all his energy into paying attention to the every move of others, and in the end, it is himself who will hurt the most!

4.Don't talk crazy: It's better to introspect than to talk crazy.

Some people love to brag, and they can really blow the cow to the sky, and they don't even take others in their eyes, and they can't rub sand in their eyes. I always feel that if I call myself the second in the world, no one will dare to say that I am the first in the world. Too much shopping, too proud.

Many people can easily lose themselves in success, applause, flowers, compliments, ......If you can succeed, it means that you are really good at it. But you must not lose yourself because of some flattering scenes, let alone crazy words.

It is necessary to know that "there is a sky outside the sky, and there are people outside the people", and the real master has always been quiet. Smart people know how to restrain their light. It doesn't matter if your IQ is high or not, and it's not a big problem if your EQ is high, but the pattern of being a person must be big!

To put it bluntly, you can be unsmart or unsociable, but you must be atmospheric.

1. Don't complain.

Complaining is a negative emotion, which can make people lose their enthusiasm for life, hit people's self-confidence, and affect people's mood.

In life, we are surrounded by all kinds of complaints. Complaining about paying too much, paying a low salary, complaining about family members not understanding them, complaining about unfairness, complaining about stressful life, complaining about many unsatisfactory things in life, complaining is a way for people to vent their dissatisfaction. However, at present, complaining has become a habit of life for some people, and it has become a means for them to confront the contradictions of reality.

2. Don't gossip.

It's better not to say anything that is useless, because if you say too much, it will be a waste of time and tongue; Don't say things that hurt others maliciously, if you say too much, you will hurt others and yourself; When talking to people, be honest and don't talk about what is wrong with them.

3. Don't talk crazy.

In a lifetime, each of us will have something to be proud of, and we don't have to show it off.

We can't be complacent and complacent just because we have achieved a little bit of success, and we can't even be complacent about it; One win doesn't mean you can have the last laugh forever.

Don't always think that you are omnipotent, there are many people who are better than you, the most important thing in this world is people, you always think that you are the best in the world, in the eyes of others, you are just a frog at the bottom of the well.

4. Don't talk angry.

In anger, people are most likely to say hurtful words, maybe these words are unintentional, maybe just for a momentary pleasure, but to others, maybe it means something else.

You can get angry about something, but you must hold back your emotions and keep your mouth shut, because some words are like the water that is spilled, and you will regret it sooner or later.

Bad words hurt people in June, not all angry words can be remedied, sometimes lost, it is a lifetime. We always hurt each other with the most harsh words when we are most angry.

When you get angry, you throw out all the words in one go, but you never think about it, maybe a casual word can make you regret it for a lifetime, but not all people can forgive you unconditionally like their parents.

The five sentences that smart people don't say are: don't talk nonsense, don't say harsh words, don't make promises easily, don't do pointless disputes, and don't talk about what is in your heart.

1. Talk less nonsense

Speaking a lot and being eloquent are two different things, they have nothing to do with each other, some people are like a river, but they are nonsense, they can't talk about the key point, and others casually hit the point, and they are choked up and speechless.

2. Don't say harsh things

Although some words are false, they sound good, so most people don't mind, on the contrary, they will like it very much.

3. Don't make promises easily

Frivolous people always like to make promises to others, but they always go wrong afterwards, giving people the feeling of being unstable and unable to entrust big things. To be a man is to do what you say and what you believe.

4. Don't do pointless disputes

Life is precious, and human time is always limited, so we should not just do some meaningless things, especially pointless arguments and quarrels, and what if you win, it is just a matter of one or two words.

5. Speak less from your heart

Seeing people only say three eyes and divide the words, can not throw away a heart, has always been the truth of the world, not can not tell the truth, but all told others, they are finished, meet the villain hypocrite, may have to suffer a big loss, a few years of hard work in life may be in vain, so people drift in the rivers and lakes, have to be cautious, often walk by the river where there is no wet shoes.