-
You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!
When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.
But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;
The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;
What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;
And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.
Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!
No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;
In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.
When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;
If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?
Love is not possession!
You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.
In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:
Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.
You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;
The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.
After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;
Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.
When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.
The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!
knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;
Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.
When making a promise, be careful not to make a promise that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "unfulfillable promises are the most moving".
In love, one thing is said and another is done;
The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......
Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.
-
Love is a gratuitous giving, is willing to help, is each other's heart induction, since you choose love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him (her) when he (she) is in difficulty, when he (she) is happy with encouragement, when he (she) is happy, happy together, sad to him (her) comfort. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him (her) happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is the slightest harm.
Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a token that does not fade....All this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love.
-
It takes time to completely let go of a person after a breakup, and this time is not fixed, some people are long, some people are short. After all, there will always be someone who proposes to break up when falling in love, and the attentive one will always need more time to forget about a person, some for a month or two, some for half a year, or even a year, and often the person who proposes it will not remember it after a day or two.
If you want to really let go of a person, you have to completely clear the things between you, such as the ** that you filmed, the ** that was recorded, and other sweet things that were before, which can make it dusty in the long river of memory, but don't appear in your life anymore. Seeing things and thinking about people, and this is also a burden for your next relationship, and it is also an irresponsible behavior for your next one. Maybe you don't feel the need to be so clean, and you will want to keep some items as a souvenir, but the next one will definitely have more or less opinions.
So if you want to cut off your thoughts about a person, you should be ruthless and say goodbye to you before.
Moreover, if you want to let go of a person, you can let yourself shift your focus to other things, such as study and work, and you can motivate yourself to improve, because this society is advancing with the times, and you have to think that if you have the strength, you can grasp everything, and you will not let yourself have regrets in life. Therefore, you can encourage yourself, love can be let go to achieve your own life, and continuous motivation can reduce the useless thoughts of a person, and you can let go after a long time.
In short, time will wash away all traces, maybe this will be a pity, but it is also a process of growth, I hope that the couples in the world can grow old for a long time. If you really break up, just accept this reality, be happy when you come, and be calm when you go, no one will know the end of a relationship, what you can know is the current situation. At the moment of breakup, I hope you can let go, because if the mirror is broken, don't think about getting it back.
-
In this life, all people want is a person who truly loves each other, and even this simplest wish is not fulfilled by everyone.
The most regrettable thing is that if you love each other but can't be together, there may be practical reasons, and you may find that the two people are not suitable later, etc., but after two people separate, they don't necessarily let go of this relationship immediately.
If you have a person in your heart, how can you say that you forget and forget? Even if you let go, it will take a process, a difficult time, so that you can completely delete that person from the bottom of your heart, and stop thinking about him and thinking about him.
And before that, you may toss and turn, thinking about him all the time, you may still be reflexively excited when you hear his name, and you may want to contact him again to know how he is doing.
Maybe you shouldn't do this, but before you completely let go of a person, this practice is really normal, how can a person who puts it in his heart say that he will let go?
If that person has ever walked into your heart, you will not let go of him so easily, as soon as he appears in front of you again, your heart will be disrupted, as long as he says to start over, you will rekindle hope.
If you are still persistent and refuse to let go, that is your problem, in the face of a love that does not belong to you, you have to wait stupidly, this is your stupidity.
Although that person has been in your heart and you haven't forgotten him so quickly, it doesn't mean that you won't let go of him, let go of that past, as long as you think about it, you can do it.
You can't let go, it's just because the past is too good, or you love him too much, and you always feel that breaking up is like a dream, and you will still get back together, or you will be together again.
But the reality is not a TV series, even if it is reunited, the existing problems will still exist, and they will still be separated, if you are not fully sure, it is better not to do this, be brave and look forward.
Perhaps, when each has its own happiness, when you finally find that everything is in the past, that longing will fade over time and eventually be forgotten.
Don't feel sorry, don't feel sorry, if there is no fate, then say goodbye!
Some people, after coming for a while, you have been thinking about it for a lifetime, and no matter how deep the love is, there will be no result.
If two people are destined to only accompany each other for a ride, it is better to let yourself try to let go, learn to forget, and don't keep dwelling on this past and refuse to let go, which is not good for each other.
Forget it, not all love will have results, and not all people who love each other can be together, since fate is so arranged, then accept it.
It's better to miss each other than to see each other, and it may be difficult to forget it, but you must learn to forget, and those who have missed it, let it go!
-
Be a stranger too.
Lovers who were originally in love with each other, in the face of a breakup, may have unavoidable reasons, or have unspeakable reasons and still want to be a pair of friends after the breakup, don't they bring everything in the past back to their lives? Why bother? Of course, I don't approve of breaking up and becoming enemies and enemies, slandering each other, and wanting to kill each other.
When you see your former lover living happier than you, will you be jealous? When the former lover excitedly brings the new lover to make an introduction, even if you pretend not to care, but the taste in your heart ......
Why do you bother to find a yellow lotus to chew yourself? If the life of your former lover is not happy, your old love plus compassion will definitely think a lot ......After all, you used to be lovers in love, and you also used to have a good love life, in the face of the frustration and confusion of your former lovers, will you lend a helping hand? Will you fall into that emotional vortex again?
In the end, everyone has a new half, you continue to be friends with the old love, what will the new lover think in his heart, the connection will be broken? The new love must be dissatisfied, and what is even more terrifying is that in the suspicion and justification, a geometric relationship is generated. Of course, there are some successes, but it always sounds like there is a slight embarrassment.
It has never been unforgettable, how easy is it to be friends after a breakup? Look at your former lover, kiss me and me with others, and rejoice, you will definitely have a ......Why bother making your own drama for yourself and for them? has broken up, why do you want to deliberately maintain a relationship that is close to going beyond friendship?
It's better to seal it in your heart, miss it, or throw it away, and welcome a new life.
If you break up, why bother to be friends again? Otherwise, how to break up?
-
If you break up, why bother to be friends again? Otherwise, how to break up?
-
The night before the breakup, I sent him a message, but I never replied, and at noon the next day, I said, "If you don't want to pass, forget it", he said "Okay". Since then, there has been no news for three months. The day before yesterday, he finished his graduate school graduation defense, and he sent me a message in the early morning saying that he was sorry, but I didn't reply.
I'm always cautious when I'm together, he doesn't like to reply to my messages, I just wait, wait until he returns, sometimes I hold the phone and don't dare to leave my hand, and he will only reply two or three sentences for a day, but a dozen words. Our dormitories are only a few hundred meters apart, and he is very idle when he has no classes in his third year, and we often only see each other once or twice a week, and I have been waiting. No matter how much he makes me angry, I will only sulk if I leave me alone, I will still reply in seconds when he sends a message, I have waited too long, and I have no temper if I wait for a long time.
Because I love him so much, very much. I haven't let go of him until now, and the memory of the sedan chair is always longer than love.
What you love the most. Often there is no choice for you; What loves you is often not what you love the most; The longest-lasting is not what you love the most, nor does it love you the most. >>>More
If you still love him, you can't forget it.
If you don't love him anymore, you will naturally forget. >>>More
Forget? That's impossible, after a long time, you will slowly find out that it doesn't matter if you have a ta or not, of course, this is after a long time. Or fall in love with someone else, or let someone else take the place of that person.
The stronger the love, the shorter the duration; The more sensible the love, the longer it lasts. Some people can only last a few days, and some people can grow old.
Because he came into this world, he has to live for many relationships: first of all, for the parents who brought you into this world. You have to make them happy, and this is their reward; Secondly, live for your relatives and friends, and make them feel happy, which is also for them, and at the same time for yourself; Then live for your lover, this is the time when you learn to accept love, and then learn to give love; You have to live for your children from now on. >>>More