How to forget someone who hurt you?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-01
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......What do you think it will be to give up, is it so easy to give up someone, and is it still called true love? Love will make you happy, and thinking of her "him" will be very happy and powerful.

    But you know how you'll feel when you don't get her? Do you feel that the sky is falling, people are tired, and your heart is tired? I'm sure you've encountered it, because I've also encountered it now in trouble, in pain.

    I can understand your feelings. I want to love so much, I give love, but she wants you to give up on her, I said I will, but is it really okay? When I was lonely, when I was lonely, I quietly thought of her, her voice, and every word she said, it was so unforgettable and heart-wrenching.

    I really want to love, but I get a lot of pain, and my body and mind are haggard. Is this called abandonment? Therefore, it is impossible to give up a person you really love, you can only cry and remind yourself that you want to forget, to escape, although you don't want to, you are very unwilling, but what else can you do besides escaping?

    I'm like that now, and I can understand your mood somewhat. If you want to let go, I think the best thing to do is to change your focus. Turn your attention to something else.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When you have loved someone deeply, you can't forget it, he once occupied a very important place in your life, how can you say forget it!

    If it's so easy to forget someone, it only means that you haven't loved them deeply.

    If you want to forget the pain caused by the breakup, I suggest you find more friends to talk to, participate in more outdoor activities, make your life richer, and slowly forget the pain.

    When this love becomes a thing of the past, please remember it, remember the joy and happiness that once were, and it was not in vain that you loved it!

    When love comes, hold on tightly!

    When love is a thing of the past, remember!

    May you open your heart and get the happiness you want!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's a bit difficult indeed. You ask that question, which means that you probably still love her, right? Otherwise, you wouldn't have asked that.

    Now that it's decided. You have to go on bravely. Although it hurts very much in my heart for the time being.

    The days still have to go by day by day. Time can bury everything. Pleasure, pain are all the same.

    Think more about happy things. Until that day you really won't be able to think of her words. You're basically on the verge of success.

    It's hard to love someone. It's harder to forget a person. Hopefully you'll get out of a day like this sooner.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't hate him, if you hate him, it means that you regret it, regret why you like him, doing so is a punishment for yourself and will weaken your self-confidence. And it's wise to let time fade (or find someone else so you don't know about it).

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Since you think what he said is nonsense, the mulberry field is gone, it is difficult to recall when you look back, it is not easy to forget, as long as you can't think about him, you will slowly forget.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What does it mean to be "obsessed"? Sometimes, when we insist on one wrong thing, we will make a lot of excuses for ourselves, and from time to time we will deceive ourselves. It's the same with feelings, and psychology blames "sunk costs" for our obsession.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    After falling out of love, we always like to ask:

    How can I forget him? I wanted to forget him, but I just couldn't. ”

    If you can't forget him, don't forget him.

    Why so painfully forget someone? Time will naturally make you forget him.

    Now, I ask you not to think about a big stupid pink elephant.

    Excuse me, what do you have in mind?

    You immediately think of a big pink stupid elephant.

    The harder you try to forget, the more you can't forget.

    It is a matter of course to still love him and not forget him, and there is no need to feel ashamed.

    Some people can't forget, but they deceive themselves and say:

    I've forgotten about him. ”

    However, as long as others mention him, she can't control herself.

    One day, you'll forget about him.

    True forgetting doesn't take effort.

    One day, you came out of the bathroom and took a shower, twisted the record player to listen to your favorite **, you suddenly remembered that you once loved someone, ah, it turned out that you loved this person, it seemed to be a very distant thing, and you didn't feel it at all. That's forgetting.

    One day, when someone mentions so-and-so, you suddenly remember that you once loved this person, but now you don't remember. That's forgetting.

    If time can't make you forget those you shouldn't remember, what's the point of the years we've lost?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Shift your mind

    Don't put it on sad people anymore, do you?

    Think about the other person's badness, in fact, you still have feelings for him, right?

    Otherwise, why is it so unforgettable?

    I have a friend who made me very sad, and it wasn't until later that I completely died, and then I walked very resolutely, and then I really forgot. There is no nostalgia . . .

    Bless you for not letting the sadness stay with you.

    Life is only a few decades, isn't it? Let's have a happy time

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's really not easy to find a friend who says it, so you shouldn't hate him, even if you are strangers again now and don't communicate with him again, then he has brought you a happy time, hasn't he? Whether it is true or false, there are not many ways to make yourself happy, so it's not that you are useless, and what you think about is not him, but the comfort and happiness he gives you. It's normal to want to be happy.

    So don't be sad, it's like you just listened to Guo Degang's cross talk and want to listen to another truth. As long as you make friends with sincerity, you will definitely find like-minded people.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Drink to kill your worries, and then try it out with the pressure of work. Can you forget.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Leave it to time, it can make you forget everything!

    If you still hate him, it means you still love him!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    We've loved someone deeply, and that person has loved us deeply. Later, for various reasons, we had to break up, so we felt pain and wanted to forget someone, but the more we tried to forget, it seemed that the more we couldn't forget, it was very painful. How can we forget someone who loved you and hurt you?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I know I want to forget.

    But、Actually、The only thing you can forget is hatred for him

    And for him, you may not forget.

    I know you're sad right now

    But、At the time you asked the question、

    Have you ever asked yourself if you really hate him that much?

    I really want to erase him from my memory.

    Or are you still in love with him.

    If、You want to downplay the damage he has done to you、

    Fade your memory of him.

    Just don't think about it for a while, travel and relax.

    Perhaps, you can try to keep yourself busy

    Being busy is the only way to do this.

    It's just time to dilute.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Why forget it.

    It doesn't matter if everything in the past is good or not.

    But it's all a memory.

    The best thing to do is.

    Don't forget it.

    I've been thinking about this question a lot

    Time will dilute everything, but it won't wash everything away

    Sometimes it is still touching the scene, because love is not easy to forget, it comes from the bottom of my heart.

    You don't have to think about nothing, it's impossible. But don't be sad when you think about it, since you have loved and tried your best, what are the regrets?

    So, please go with a smile.

    Memories, the bits and pieces of those you love!

    If you have been injured, you can become stronger. Don't dare to love because you are hurt, as long as you are sincere, you will find your happiness one day!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's hard to forget a person. You might as well try to find something to keep yourself from thinking about him. Or looking for one of your own.

    Intimate friends talk about their feelings.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Why do you remember such people?

    Ignore him. Ignore him.

    Let him fade from your world

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It is impossible for such a person to forget completely, so let's put him in a corner of my heart.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't forget it, time will figure it out.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Just think about his bad, and then look for someone who is not good for him.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Let him continue to hurt, and you will naturally forget about him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Find someone who really loves you, and you love it even more.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    1. Organize your sad emotions. It's normal to have a failed relationship, but you can't never get down from there. Because love and marriage are never the whole of life, you still have your job, and your family and friends.

    The result will not change because of your depression, the only thing you can do is to face it. When you sort out the negativity in this relationship, many things in your heart will slowly be released.

    2. Divert your attention. If you've failed in a relationship or marriage, you can find something you love, but you've never dared to try, or something you haven't had the opportunity to do. Divert your attention through these things.

    You can do more exercise and don't let yourself be in a daze all the time. Slowly, you will find that it is not a big deal to forget about a person.

    3. Don't mess around. In love, there is another kind of person who has an obsession, even if there is no affection between you, it is not okay to break up. Although both of them are in an unhappy atmosphere, for some reason, the other party just refuses to let go.

    In fact, you still have to learn to end decently, and don't dwell on it endlessly.

    4. Learn to talk to friends. Know how to talk to friends, the first is to seek comfort from friends, and the second is also a kind of venting, say your depression and grievances, say your reluctance and deep love, don't hold back because of that little self-esteem, people's body needs metabolism, emotions actually need metabolism, when a person's emotions are too much, it is easy to be occupied by emotions, and venting will keep you sane.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Forget? You? Impossible, don't find any way and don't deceive yourself, asking this question itself shows that you value love and righteousness, you can't be as soulless chic as some people, so you can't forget it at all, not only can't you forget, your life state may also affect your mood for a long time, all of this comes from your dedication, from your emotional investment, if you want to forget unless your soul can be cut, so don't forget it, your love and righteousness determine your loveliness, There should be someone who understands you to help you heal the trauma and dilute everything unpleasant, let's wait together...

    Love is a sad fairy tale.

    Anyone who has read it has left more or less regrets When we finish reading, we will understand a truth, that is, in the world of love, fate dominates everything, if there is fate, time and space are not distances. If there is no fate, even if we get together, we won't be able to understand, so let's let everything go with the flow.

    。Everyone has their own journey, there will be a variety of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience everyone is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have happened, time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as the beginning, adjust the mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future...

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In fact, many things, many people, we have always wanted to forget, we have never forgotten, but is this really the case? In fact, we can't forget the shackles in our hearts, maybe you can't forget it now, but after many years, you won't find that these things about you have been so inadvertently forgotten? The key is not to deliberately do something, no matter what it is, there is a chance that he will be worse!

    You say, is he simple? Is this just your word? And one sentence can affect your whole life!

    Isn't it?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Hello landlord.,Are you talking about the virtual world?,My game's wife also lied to me.,Said I don't play.,Later, I looked at the boys who chased other boys.,Although I'm very angry.,But I didn't blame him.,After all, when we played together, she accompanied me through that bad time.,If it's a game.,You pay more attention to real friends.,Or go to real play.,For example, watching the sea.,Climbing or traveling can be.。

    Yes; If it's reality, you broke up, it was he who gave up, no matter what happened to you. It is just a beautiful scenery in the slow long road of our life, there are many good men in the world, there are always must be in life, and there is no time in life to ask for it. It's ours after all, it's us, it's not that the tighter you hold on, the faster you run, and her departure from you is his loss.

    Since there is no contact, choose to give up, look at the scenery outside, we still have a long way to go, we need to live to face our future, we need to face our husband or future wife, that is our real destination, no one is left here, there is a grandfather. I believe that the one I find in the future will be better than her! Cheer up, come on!

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