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Hello: First of all, I want to tell you that it is not easy to forget a person, or to forget a relationship. It takes a lot of effort from us.
Someone once said that it is impossible for a person to forget the person he loves, because once he forgets, it is not love. If you think about it, it still makes sense. So you don't have to blame yourself and be distressed that you can't forget someone.
But we can't forget what we don't want to remember, and it will be very uncomfortable, so we still have to try to forget or look down on it.
1.It is not easy to forget a person who has a weight in his heart. It's not impossible.
You can distract yourself by using the distraction method, such as: play more with friends, find more fun to do, read more humorous books, and relax. Watch some comedy and relax.
Listen**, and remember not to be sad. Go out and mingle!
2.Time will make you forget her (him), it is better to keep yourself very busy every day, it is better to stop living in the same city with her (him), it is better for you to make some new friends, maybe which one is your favorite in the future. In fact, you don't have to forget her (him), because the more you want to forget, the more you want to forget, you will subconsciously think of her (him) again.
You can recall little by little about her (him), when you recall, you will feel that you are very happy, but if you recall a little bit every day, every day a little bit, you will find that your memory is slowly unable to remember, just like we eat three meals a day, sometimes even what you eat in the morning, you will forget. Don't go out of your way to forget someone, because then you will love her (him) more than before, it's easy to love someone, it's hard to forget someone, it's even harder to really hate someone. You just need to leave the forgetting you want to her (him) to time to solve, and it's okay, after a long time, you will forget if you don't forget.
3..In fact, sometimes you can think differently: you love her (him)!
But sometimes, giving up is for a better option. On the one hand, you can find your own true love and get someone better than her (him). On the other hand, you love her (him), but you want her (him) to live better, maybe she (he) left you and lived better than now, you should actually be happy.
Friend, I can tell you a thing about me: to be honest, I have always liked someone, but that person doesn't like me now, but I also want you to be the same, every time I think about it, I have a feeling of regret, but I tell myself that I still have a long way to go, and that person doesn't accept me, no matter how hard I try, it will be useless. So bury this feeling in the bottom of your heart and treasure it.
Let me tell you one more sentence: the current girlfriend (boyfriend) or wife (husband) around me is not the person I love the most, in fact, it makes sense to taste it carefully.
The above is my summary, although it is not comprehensive, but I hope it will be helpful to you.
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Go play, hehe, love yourself.
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Quickly find the next person you like.
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Have a normal heart.
The more you want to deliberately forget something, the more you can't forget, the more you remind yourself to forget, the more you will remember it, if you are a bland sweep of everything, after all, what has happened can not be changed by anyone, and it is very easy to have a normal heart to deal with everything.
Tourism. Travel allows a person to forget all their worries and plunge into the lap of nature. This trick is also very effective, allowing you to come back from your trip and rejuvenate.
Don't blame yourself too much.
After we break up, we are also prone to a kind of wrong psychology - self-blame, we will blame ourselves for the fault of the breakup, and feel that it is because we have not done a good job that leads to the departure of the other party. Time is the best healing medicine Hide him in the bottom of your heart, hide the memories he gave you in your heart, and occasionally take it out and reminisce about it It is enough to live a lifetime, it is not easy to meet a person you love very much, and it is even more difficult to have a good time with someone you love very much.
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Let time forget, if you want to quickly forget, only have a correct understanding of yourself and recognize your own value and strive to realize it, it is normal to have hardships in life, and only by constantly finding the right direction and working hard can you succeed.
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Make yourself busy, you can go to the gym to keep fit, there are studies that show that exercise can increase the secretion of polychloride, reduce the possibility of depression, you can choose to travel, change the environment, maybe there will be surprises waiting for you, and you can work hard and do what you like, you might as well try it.
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Try to do some hobbies that you like, play with friends and girlfriends, go shopping or something, try not to stop thinking about him, keep yourself happy every day, and then slowly fade away.
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Here are a few expert methods: 1It is not easy to forget a person who has a weight in his heart.
But it's not impossible, play more with friends, find more fun to do, read more humorous books... Relax yourself·· Watch and write comedies·· Definitely forget... Hehe 2I remember the first time we fell in love, when we were apart, she was right.
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Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!
Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.
Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.
When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.
When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.
The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!
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Forget. A heartache ...
In the end, forgetting the past is deceiving yourself and others, and as long as you have a little bit of something that can be related to the past, you can't forget the past. Don't run away, it's useless to regret ... Isn't there a saying that says?
You may meet someone in 1 second, fall in love with someone in a day, but forget someone in a lifetime... That's love!
Deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, let everything tend to be flat, what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think, as time goes by, it will slowly fade away... Instead of trying to forget, it is better to keep yourself busy, to make your life full, and to let yourself have no time to miss. Don't deliberately forget, if you deliberately will only make yourself remember more ...
Try to expand your circle of friends and contact as many people as possibleTry to discover your hobbies and do something you enjoy to play an empathetic role. I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of TA again, your heart will no longer ache, and it turns out that before you know it, TA has become "that person".
Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.
Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun... Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude.
Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up. Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...
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If you can't forget, don't forget, don't really forget! Brother, I once loved someone so hard that I couldn't forget her, I also asked people everywhere, but there was no answer, and suddenly one day, the day before her birthday, I got up in the morning and suddenly unraveled, is it worth it? I was suddenly less obsessed with her.
I threw away the gifts I had bought the previous month. Step out of the shadows, sometimes forget not to be deliberate, it's that simple. If you can't forget, don't forget, Lao Tzu said go with the flow, do your daily things, and one day you will forget.
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You have a past, but why forget. If you want to forget, be friends with her, time can prove everything, when you find that you can return to the happiness of being friends with her, maybe you will forget the love you once had, remember that "it takes a minute to fall in love with someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget a person" so you will not forget it in any way.
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It's okay to forget, but it's hard to forget quickly.
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Three ways to make you forget about people or things you want to forget.
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Don't see him, don't inquire about him, ignore things that have to do with him. Very useful, I tried.
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Emotional transfer, let yourself become heartless, so that you will not sink.
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You just don't think about it, and you can forget about him soon.
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Hello, how can you quickly forget a person you like, Sister Xiao Yu tells you with her own experience.
First, when you especially want to get something, you often can't get it, whether it is feelings or others, it is to attract rather than force.
Second, when I want to forget someone I like, ask myself, in fact, I don't want to forget it in my heart. I don't want that person to forget about me.
Third, when your mood affects your normal work and life, and you have to forget about the person you like very much, my approach is to transfer, all-round transfer, exercise (do your favorite), travel (go to the place you want to go the most), and accept a new relationship.
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It's all about psychological factors such as if you can let go of anything at all.
It is possible to forget.
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Quickly like other people or things.
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Tell yourself that she doesn't belong to you anymore and force yourself not to think about her.
If you want to forget a person you have loved, you have to tell yourself that she no longer belongs to you, force yourself not to think about her, don't think about her anymore, whenever you think about her or think of her, tell yourself like this, "what do you want her to do, she has nothing to do with you", "why do you want her to do, she is someone else's woman", so many times, you will gradually stop thinking about her, figure out this fact, maybe you can completely forget her.
If you want to forget a person, you might as well keep yourself busy, let yourself be full every day, so that you don't have time to think about her at all, and put all your thoughts and energy on what you need to do, such as career, when you put all your time, thoughts, and energy on work, and think about those things in your career every day, you won't think about her anymore, and gradually you can erase her from your memory.
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