Confident understanding, understanding of self confidence

Suddenly I have a deeper understanding of self-confidence, and I share and record it in the hope that it will be helpful to others.

Text: Everyone knows to be confident, and it is good to be confident in Qi Zhen, but they don't understand what self-confidence is, why self-confidence, and how to be confident.

1.What is self-confidence?

Self-confidence should be a kind of analysis and judgment ability based on one's own experience and knowledge, and self-belief in one's ability to face problems, rather than simply a literal word concept, it is more of a combination of personal ability.

2.Why Confidence?

In order to be less likely to be coerced, it is easier to make decisions that suit you.

3.How to be confident?

Improve your experience and knowledge level, think more about yourself, face and solve the problems you encounter in life, even if it is not practical, you can think more.

4.In short, there is only a thin line between self-confidence and blind self-righteousness and arrogance, but there is a world of difference.

Don't be confident for the sake of self-confidence, self-confidence should be a reasonable understanding based on experience and ability, rather than a simple literal cognition, social drive. (The result of the latter is either that you want to be confident but never get confident; Either you have an extra self-confidence label on yourself, but the essence is blind self-confidence, which doesn't make much sense, and you may suffer from it. ）

Self-confidence, the explanation given in the modern Chinese dictionary is only four words "believe in yourself".

Self-confidence is a kind of true trust and affirmation of self. Of course, ordinary people will appreciate their own good qualities, but I am afraid it is difficult to appreciate their own shortcomings, especially those that are in serious conflict with general concepts, such as laziness, cowardice, selfishness, stinginess, and so on. Therefore, when most people think of self-confidence, not only will they not appreciate their own shortcomings, but they will also try their best to hide their shortcomings and highlight their strengths.

What we may not realize is that when we do this, we are actually rejecting the opportunity to recognize our own shortcomings. In fact, any shortcomings have no substance, just a certain personality tendency, which itself has its benign side, such as laziness, which often brings people a relaxed mood and gives people stronger inspiration and creativity; For example, cowardice often has the advantages of kindness, thoughtfulness, and self-protection at the same time. If we can face up to these shortcomings, often their benign side will expand into another advantage of our own, and conversely, when we take them as shortcomings, reject them, suppress them, and avoid them, they will really become shortcomings.

Therefore, a truly confident person is a person who knows how to love and appreciate himself, and a person who can accept himself generously and peacefully. Only such a person will truly discover his own strengths, and in a situation of self-acceptance, people's internal friction will be minimal, and creativity and potential can be maximized.

On the other hand, if a person lacks this kind of mentality, then even if he shows off his might in front of others, in essence, he still hides his shortcomings that he is most unwilling to admit in his heart, how can he be truly frank and confident? Therefore, true self-confidence lies in self-acceptance. This kind of acceptance is not only a conceptual understanding, but also a kind of emotional freedom, a person begins to dare to love and hate, and can properly express emotions.

He sent the Sparrow to enjoy the emotions of others more fully. This requires us to not only face up to our own shortcomings, but also to trust our relationships.

Therefore, just like flowers, it is not necessary to cut them into peonies or roses to be confident, any flower, as long as it can grow happily and bloom freely, even dandelions and daisies are the most beautiful and vital way to live.

The simple understanding is to be yourself, to know yourself correctly, and to dare to accept your imperfect self, which is the foundation of self-confidence!

Confident" means:

1.Believe in yourself: Heart. Be able to complete the task of leather preparation.

2.Self-proclaimed integrity.

Self-confidence refers to the result of a person's positive evaluation of his or her personality, psychology and social role. It is the belief that you have the ability or use some effective means to accomplish a task or solve a problem.

Sentence formation: 1With self-confidence, we can face difficulties.

2.We should know how to be self-respecting, self-loving, self-confident, self-reliant, self-reliant, and self-reliant, and should not be dependent on others.

3.I am confident in my heart, failure is the mother of success, a stepping stone, and I will overcome it.