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Many people feel this way you do, especially when we are aware of the complexities and stresses in our lives. However, life is a process that is constantly moving forward, and we cannot dwell on the past, nor can we stop the passage of time. Here are some tips to help you deal with nostalgia for the innocent days of your childhood and the emotions of not wanting to grow up:
1.Accept reality: Although we may miss the simplicity and innocence of the past, life is not always set in stone.
Learning to accept the complexities and uncertainties of life is part of growing up. Everyone's growth path is unique, and we all have a responsibility to face the reality and learn and grow from it.
2.Look for positive memories: When you think about your childhood, try to focus on those memories that make you feel happy, safe, and warm. This can help you maintain a positive mindset and can provide strength in the face of life's challenges.
3.Connect with others: Building strong connections with friends, family, and community can make you feel more stable and secure. By sharing your feelings with others, you can gain support and understanding, alleviating some of the nostalgia for the past.
4.Nurturing Personal Growth: Shift your focus to personal growth and development. Learning new skills, pursuing hobbies, challenging yourself, and discovering your potential can make your life more fulfilling and meaningful.
5.Find psychological support: If you find yourself unable to shake off nostalgia for the past and emotions that you don't want to grow up, it may be a good idea to seek professional psychological support. A counsellor can help you clear your mind, adjust your mindset, and find coping strategies that work for you.
Finally, remember that life is a process that keeps moving forward, and we can't stay in the past. Learning to accept reality, face growth positively, connect with others, and seek personal growth will help you feel more confident and strong on the path of growth.
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I think it has to do with the individual's satisfaction with life
Compared with your current life, you should not feel as happy as when you were a child, and there may be happy times now, but it is often mixed with a lot of things, and you can't find that kind of clear and translucent happiness and are not satisfied with your own life
What to do? Time is one-dimensional, many things cannot be repeated, imitation is also very difficult, so it is better to live in the moment, so that everything you do is satisfied, if everything is satisfied, you will not think about the current problem anymore.
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People always have to grow up, and parents have worked hard all their lives for their children, so every child should have the courage to face it and repay their parents when they grow up
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There is such a sentence in the movie "My Neighbor Totoro", when I was a child, happiness was very simple; Growing up, simple and happy. When we were children, we felt that friendship was simple, having a best friend and staying together for the rest of our lives; We feel that there are only good people and bad people in the world, and the standard of judgment is very simple, and we must be able to distinguish right from wrong; But when we grow up, we realize that there will be best friends at every stage of life, but they can't be with you forever; Not everything is black and white, there is more of a gray area, and a person cannot generalize as a good person or a bad person.
The world as a child is innocent and simple, but life as an adult is more complicated and anxious. So we yearn to go back to our childhood, yearn for the fearlessness of children who can be coquettish, envy the purity that children can cry out for being protected by adults, and look forward to reliving the beauty of childhood memories, as if only a song called happiness is left in the memory to allow a child to circulate**. No longer trapped in the troubles of adult life, learn to "think about problems with Akeno's childlike heart, and many troublesome problems will become easy to solve".
In fact, each of us has missed the beauty of childhood, and those beautiful memories are beautiful precisely because they are sealed in the depths of time, pinning on our young hopes and dreams. And growth is irreversible, and everyone must learn to grow up, because the journey of life will not stay in one place forever. Looking to the future, there are still many beautiful scenery to be explored on the road to growth.
Let "if you can go back to your childhood" a beautiful assumption, nostalgia is not the whole of life, the road is at your feet, growing up in Lizhou is a necessary process, and you need to continue to move forward with the original dream.
May we all be able to join hands with our childhood selves and see the infinite possibilities of tomorrow together.
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For a long time, our lives have been spent in darkness and sunshine alternately.
We are immersed in the sun-drenched days, and we are far from the darkness; It's like we're wrapped in a transparent, huge chrysalis!
Simple and ignorant time, when we were young, lawless youth. As night falls, we enjoy the unique tranquility that darkness brings.
We look up in the sun, the hustle and bustle outside the chrysalis. We sleep quietly, the world is far away from us, and life is far away from us.
We are like walkers who stay out of things, indifferently passing by other people's lives. When did you start to feel that life is infinitely long, but you can't stand the consumption?
If you go back to it, sixteen, seventeen, eighteen, infinitely beautiful years; Time is like riding a horse and a car, moving forward on a road that we can't see or touch.
All of a sudden, we grew up, and our lives were infinitely stretched out in those three years; It seems to be a heavy time, but it is ignorant and happy.
In the days of our ignorance, they quietly disappeared far away, and we could never look back to find them.
If you can turn back, those who are tired by the test papers, and the muscles that are soured by the results at that time; Definitely not in life!
In the darkest of times, they were so clean and bright, even though at that time, it was considered the heaviest topic of our lives.
It's a pity that there are no ifs in life, those ignorant, innocent, and nostalgic pasts; is because it is too beautiful, so in today's life, it seems particularly fragile and messy;
Because we have all experienced it ourselves, and in the days to come, it will no longer exist. So when recalling, tears always wet the corners of the eyes.
While you sigh and reminisce, life will also give you many, insignificant things, make you feel warm in an instant, and brighten up your life.
For example, on a strolling afternoon, you saw at a thrift stall the toys you loved with your childhood and laughter; Or an old friend, a casual greeting.
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1."Bought a manual whisk".
My sister and brother really wanted to make cakes, and they wanted to buy an electric egg beater, but they wanted to let my sister and brother play with it and let them experience the fun by themselves, so they bought a manual egg beater.
2."Before I grew up, I began to miss you when I was a child".
Before going to pick up the delivery, we went around the neighborhood to play on the slide for a while.
Seeing that my younger brother is running steadily and fast now, and my sister is getting taller and taller, I always sigh silently behind the child, the child grows up so fast! "Before I grew up, I began to miss you when I was a child".
My sister and brother played on the swing, slid the slide, and met 2 children, saying hello and saying goodbye!
3."Make a Cake and Eat a Cake".
After returning to Qingdan, my younger brothers, sisters, and younger brothers beat eggs and stirred them together, and I added milk, eggs, and flour to prepare to make cakes.
The two of them are positive, and my younger brother is still reluctant to let my sister and I beat eggs, so I have to beat them all the time.
When I put the cake in the pot, my brother turned it off and opened it, and fortunately the cake was cooked.
The cake was made, my sister and brother and Ding Sinuo ate a lot together, and the three of them were really cheering.
As a result, the younger brother ate the cake and fell asleep on the ground, and the elder sister was at home and the younger brother did not sleep at noon, and he was too sleepy in the evening.
4."Say I want to protect my mother".
When we had dinner, my brother hadn't woken up yet, and after we had dinner, when my brother woke up, he ate some voltaic cake and drank some milk and went to sleep.
When I was sleeping, my brother suddenly ran to the bedside, and I asked you why you ran outside to sleep?
The younger brother said: Protect Mom.
Oh, when I heard my brother say this, I felt like my heart was going to melt, and I felt very warm.
5."Sister is very conscious".
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When I was a child, I was always full of longing for the future Just because we don't know anything Looking at the sky, we will imagine the infinite starry sky Every child hopes that they will grow up quickly and can live like an adult You can do a lot of things that children can't do Often a movie A book can be remembered for a long time.
But when we really grow up, we realize how boring it is to grow up, although we can do a lot of things that children can't do, but we always want more, and we are more and more dissatisfied than when we were children, and when we grow up, we find that although we can do a lot of things that children can't do, we have a lot of responsibilities that we should have, but we don't have the freedom that we should have before, although we finally live the life of adults, but every day is like this, and we are tired of it.
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We always imagine that everything that has not yet come is beautiful, and we always like to think that everything in the future is better than the present. And when we arrive, we look back and feel that everything we have experienced is the best, even if there are regrets.
Many of the futures we once imagined are actually real presents.
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Growing pains!
That's what the siege article is about. The people in the city always think that the people outside the city are good, and the people outside the city envy the people in the city, and in the end, the people who go out feel bad again, and the people who come in also regret it.
There is nothing, people always have to grow up, the past is gone, and there is no turning back. The fact that you can miss your childhood means that you were quite happy when you were a child, and that's enough, isn't it? You don't know how hard the childhood is for many people.
Another year, we're both a year old again, and we're growing up again.
Don't miss your childhood and celebrate our growth!
Happy New Year!
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This is the same for many people, when I was a child, I thought that the world of adults was very beautiful, and when I grew up, I realized that it was good to have no worries when I was young.
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There is no innocence at any stage.
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Because when I was a child, we thought that we adults could do a lot of things that we couldn't do when we were young, such as being able to spend money casually, nothing to do, adults can watch TV casually, adults can play with mobile phones casually, adults can do a lot of things, and we can't, we have to listen to adults what we want to eat, what we want to play, what we want to do, so of course we want to grow up. But when we grow up, we know the hardships of life, it turns out that adults don't do whatever they want, but they have the trouble of making money, he has the trouble of family, he has the old and the young, his troubles come from the family, from the unit, from the society, so how much we miss our childhood, because at that time we didn't have to do anything, we can simply go outside, eat, heat, this is all our life, how beautiful!
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Because I was carefree when I was a child, I felt that it would be the same when I grew up, but when I really grew up, I found that there would be a lot of troubles.
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Hello, when I was a child, I wanted to grow up because I understood that I was too weak and easy to be bullied, and I couldn't do anything. And when I grew up, all kinds of troubles kept coming, and I understood that life is short, and I realized that it was best to be carefree when I was a child. Have a great day.
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Because we all like things that we can't get, when we were young, we felt that the future we couldn't get was good, and now we feel that what we can't get when we were young is the best, anyway, we are constantly entangled in this contradiction.
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This question is a very contradictory question, and I am sure that many people have this kind of thought, because when I was a child, I wanted to grow up, because I could do something when I grew up, but when I grew up, because of the broken forehead, I feel that this is said to be whether I want to grow up? This will be less stressful.
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When I was a child, I saw that the life of adults was colorful and that they had the right to dispose of money, so I wanted to do what I wanted. But when I really grew up, I felt the hardships and hardships of adults, and I longed for the carefree days when I was a child.
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Because when I was a child, I saw that adults had a lot of money to spend, and the world of adults was very exciting, and when I grew up, I realized that the world of adults was too troublesome and too tired, so I wanted to go back to the carefree life when I was a child!
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Growing up is a lot of stress. I hope you will adopt it, thank you.
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When I was in the department, I thought that adults could do anything with magic, but when I grew up, I felt that I was still simple when I was a child.
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When I was a child, I felt that I would get a lot of things I wanted when I grew up, and I felt that life was very beautiful. But when I grew up, I felt that I had lost more, had less happiness, had more pain, and missed the innocent and immaculate years of my childhood even more.
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Dear, this is a kind of heart that everyone has, when I was a child, I was disciplined by my parents, and I wanted to be undisciplined when I grew up, but I found that I faced countless pressures when I grew up, and I missed my childhood.
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