How can I see myself as I am?

I'm in college right now, and in fact I often hate who I am, and I feel like it's not real, what am I like to be so real? Sometimes I talk to my roommates, I talk to my friends, we do some things, and I don't really feel very happy about them, so why do I do them, what motivates me to do them, and do I get happy after I do them? I didn't get happy, and I think about it, in fact, if I had done what I wanted to do, the reflection of what I did might have been what I really was.

So how do you see what it really is? I think it's when you're doing something, after you do it, you don't feel any uncomfortable reaction in your heart, you don't feel resistant, you don't feel annoying, that's what you want to show, if you do something, you feel that you don't like it, then you can think about it at a deeper level, why you like it, why you don't like it, after thinking about it like this, you will have a general understanding of yourself.

I want to say that don't think about it, it's very simple, you can see the true appearance of your heart at once, well, see the true appearance of your heart, in fact, it is impossible to achieve it overnight, what is your heart like, everyone has many aspects, you can't know it all at once, so accepting yourself is the most important thing. Come on 0

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To get to the point, if you want to really see your true self, the mirror must have these conditions:

1. The length and width should not differ too much (except for brand-name mirrors, because if the length and width of the general mirror are different, the texture will be uneven, resulting in inconsistent imaging).

2. It must be of sufficient size, the general standard is that when the distance is 50 cm, the two hands are placed on the ear, the two hands can be seen, and the direction of the fingers is facing up).

3. The shape is square and not round, the same as 1

4. Shine in the sun, because the imaging of the mirror is suitable for light, so the sunlight is the most real.

5. The mirror must be upright and cannot have a declination angle, otherwise it will not be real. When looking in the mirror, do not tilt your head, otherwise you will have the illusion of an uneven face.

In this way, you can reflect your true self, and what is true is not right. Also, don't get too close to the mirror, generally one meter away is the best effect.

I said here that you can't get too close to the mirror, and the reason is the problem you're having.

The reason for this is very simple, because the proportion of the distance of the human eye to the size is actually generated by the spatial difference, which is a kind of subconscious.

The behavior, for example, if you look at something with your eyes on the screen and feel that the screen is so big (a little naïve to say, but easy to understand) is because this is the screen that has no comparable objects, so it feels big.

So the closer the distance, the bigger it is, in fact, the real real distance is 1 to 1 meter away from the mirror, which is the best distance.

Summary. Hello dear, 1, the mirror is actually the closest to their true appearance or the mirror, some people say that the appearance in the mirror is 30% higher than the real one, in fact, no, if you observe yourself in the mirror from a distance, then it is consistent with the distance between people, after all, no one will look at you on your face.

How can you see yourself as you really are?

Hello dear, 1, the mirror is actually the closest to their true appearance or the mirror, some people say that the appearance in the mirror is 30% higher than the real one, in fact, no, if you observe yourself in the mirror from a distance, then it is consistent with the distance between people, after all, no one will look at you on your face.

2. Strangers can actually find people who are not very familiar with them and verify their appearance, after all, no matter how beautiful you are with someone who is too familiar, he doesn't feel anything, and relatives will always favor you, so it is more intuitive to find strangers to judge your appearance. 3, **Actually** is not very accurate, the current **resolution is very high, it can intuitively see the flaws on your face, as well as magnify your shortcomings, and the person itself is not static, but active, **can only be used as a reference for appearance, but it is definitely not a person's real appearance.

Kiss, the following methods can allow you to see what your real self looks like: 1. Look in the mirror at a distance of about 25cm to observe yourself, and the appearance of this distance is what others see you, so that you can recognize your true appearance. 2. When looking in the mirror, you should put yourself in a place with a blank scene to look at the whole self, and you must observe yourself from the perspective of the whole of the oak stove hall, so that you can see yourself with an objective eye, so that you can recognize your true appearance.

3. Look in the mirror to focus on observing your own posture, people are a whole, the correct way to look in the mirror dynamically, in order to be able to recognize their true appearance. 4. When you look in the mirror, you should move appropriately, and then your own appearance in the mirror is what others look like you, so that you can recognize your true appearance. 5. When looking in the mirror, you should observe the proportion of your body in the mirror, and you must correctly understand the defects of your body

You can use this ratio to compare your figure. Only then can you recognize your own Liang Yin in the eyes of others, so that you can recognize your true appearance.