What are the principles of life that the post 70s generation needs to keep in mind?

Remember: health is the greatest blessing. Because the post-70s generation is slowly getting older and facing many health problems, we must pay attention to our physical health so that we can live a healthy and happy old age.

1: Raising children and daughters is not to prevent old age, and you still rely on yourself when you are old, and you must know how to leave a way back. 2: When people are old, the person who is really good to you is the wife, don't lose your marriage.

When people get older, the most reliable is their wife, and it is very important for two people to have a particularly good relationship.

Time is selfless, it is ruthless, it does not increase to a certain extent with happy people and people with arduous tasks, nor does it reduce with a certain ......decrease in people who are in pain or anxiously waitingTime flies. The duration is like flowing water, and it is better than flowing water. The memories of childhood linger in my ears, but I don't know that I have reached my thirties, and the post-70s generation who is older than me, even if the youngest one is no longer in his 30s, but in his 40s, he is really entering middle and old age, and is moving towards the elderly.

After the 70s, I have experienced a half-pull life, and I have also tasted the various aspects of life, and I know the ups and downs of life. As a post-70s generation, slowly transfer the world to the hands of the next generation, and the burden on your back will be slowly relieved, so you should also know some great principles of life, just like the following 4, if you don't remember it after 70, life will be very bad.

There are some relatives and friends who are rare to contact once a year, and when they contact them, they either borrow money or drink alcohol, and then disappear. This kind of family and friends not only does not do much good to your life, but will cause a bond in your life, if you can, throw away this meaningless family and friend, and try to learn to let go of some useless people.

This is the case with good friends and classmates. Some people seem to have a lot of classmates, good friends, and teammates, and they can often hear him coming to party with this group of people, but they don't know that every party is not only to eat but also to drink, not only hurting their bodies, but also spending money in vain. If you take a sudden vacation, it will also anger this group of people, and you will be labeled as "boring and withdrawn".

For this kind of fox friend and dog friend, I think there is no harm but no benefit, what is the use of keeping it?

Some people are very infatuated, and they have been thinking about the past emotions. Even if he already has a family and children, every time he thinks of his predecessor and his life with his ex, he can't help but want to contact his ex, communicate with him, and talk about regret and regret. Maybe the last love is not noticed, and this will also greatly affect family harmony.

But in fact, this has threatened family harmony, so your regret and remorse will inevitably cause ripples in the other party's heart, then you will definitely shift the focus of each other's life a little outward, instead of focusing on your own life, and even cause rejection to the one in the family. Obviously, once this kind of rejection is accumulated for a long time, the relationship between husband and wife is bound to be damaged.

Be good to your wife, not to complain about her, but to your children.

You must focus on improving yourself, don't pay too much attention to other people's lives, don't speak ill of others behind their backs, and work hard to earn money.

To get rid of useless relatives and friends, and to discard lost feelings, family is the focus of your life, so that life does not get worse.

I am the youngest post-70s, born in 79, as I grow up, I find that there are fewer and fewer post-70s around me, where have they gone? There are only a few people, when we were in elementary school, we only had two classes in the grade, and there were not many people in middle school and college, so that after work, I was surrounded by the post-80s, and I think the number of births after the 70s should not be much.

Although it is a post-70s, but I have never suffered since I was a child, I have never encountered a situation where I can't eat enough after other post-70s, the only thing that I remember now seems to be suffering is that when I was a child, no one picked me up and dropped off from school, and I played with myself, although I have a brother, but many times I feel lonely.

When I was a child, there was no Internet, no mobile phone, and even electricity was often restricted, but there was much more sincerity between people than now. My favorite thing is that after my mother gave me a little pocket money, I went to the school gate to buy small snacks and buy small toys and stickers.

At that time, people's thinking was still relatively conservative, and the education I received was also traditional education, but because of the influx of various new ideas due to the reform and opening up, people also began to come into contact with all kinds of new ideas, so it should be inclusive. Those who are not accustomed to seeing can be tolerant, not like a flood beast.

I don't know how you are after the 70s?

The youngest post-70s is also in his forties, the child is in high school, the elderly need to be taken care of, is it quite stressful, dare not change anything, afraid of making mistakes, dare not fantasize about anything, afraid of disappointment, some people say that the post-70s are much happier than the post-80s, I don't think necessarily, the post-80s also have a lot of opportunities to rise, but don't you grasp it? Just like the post-70s, maybe this life is dull, chewing and tasteless, and it's a pity to abandon it!

01 Health! No matter what you want to do, health must come first, you have to have a lot of problems that can't be solved, it's better to let it go first, go out for a walk, go out for a run, just don't think about anything, and look back after a while, whether that thing is not a problem at all!

If you have suffered a lot of grievances, but now you have to bear it, I advise you to forget it, since you can't change it, it's better to go with the flow, think about the good side, the child is going to take the university entrance examination, the husband is still in love with you, and the knot in the past will naturally be untied, don't add trouble to irrelevant people, because your liver needs to be happy!

The fitness card doesn't seem to be very expensive, the swimming annual card is also OK, if you like badminton, then go to play, if you like the piano, you can sign up for a class, I know a sister, in her forties, the child went to high school, and she spent eight thousand to sign up for a piano class with nothing to do, she said that she wants to live for herself in the next life!

02 Happy! I don't know what happiness is since I got married, it seems to be the report card that the child got back, it seems to be the year-end bonus of my husband, it has something to do with me, it doesn't seem to have anything to do with me!

I have been busy for more than ten years, seeing that my child is about to go to college, I have never dared to be willful for so many years, my child has to make up classes, I can't go home to see my parents, my husband has to eat, I can't leave home, my mother-in-law needs to take care of me, I want to guard 24 hours a day, and me?

So I'm in my forties, I want to be happy, I want to be simple, happy, even if I calm down and read a book, even if I watch a whole TV series!

03 Happiness! Some people say that happiness is given by others, and some people say that happiness is found by themselves, if no one can give you happiness, then you can find it yourself, I love to drink milk tea, and I think milk tea is so expensive, not reluctant, think about it when you buy beef, a few hundred yuan is not distressed, a cup of milk tea is nothing, twenty yuan can buy happiness, it is worth it!

I think not working overtime is happiness, then tell your boss, I don't want to work overtime, at this age, no, you can fire me, let's be willful, but this is really to say, many post-70s, for the sake of the family, for the sake of the children, swallow their anger to work, the post-80s have the support of the elderly, and the post-90s people are willful, it seems that only the post-70s are conscientious when they go to work, because he can't be capricious, he is old and young!

Summary: It's been more than half of my life, I can do what I can do, do what I love, just don't regret it, I know a leader who came down from a state-owned enterprise in his fifties, and his dream in this life is to open a restaurant, so he took his savings to open a hot pot restaurant and started to be the boss, isn't it also prosperous? Don't be afraid, go forward, two-thirds of this life has gone, and there are not many days left, you should be willful and willful, you should be presumptuous!

While you are still young, one is to insist on exercising every day and take care of your body, and the other is to work hard to earn money, which is also a better guarantee for your future life.

1. Prepare for the marriage of children; 2. Make preparations for the elderly.

You should learn to enjoy life, and if you can afford it, you should travel and eat some food that you have never eaten in your life.

Now we should live every day seriously, so that every minute is particularly fulfilling and meaningful, and then we must pay more attention to exercise, and it is also very necessary to make our body particularly healthy.

Of course, you should enjoy life, cherish every moment of yourself, do something you like to do, and do something meaningful.

You should study more, exercise more, and maintain more, so that your body and mind are in a state of constantly absorbing new knowledge.

The post-70s generation who are getting older, to avoid a bleak evening, we must keep in mind that we have to rely on ourselves now, and we must be special to the people around us, and our children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, and don't care too much about the children's affairs.

First of all, you must have your own circle, the older you are, the fewer friends you have, but despite this, you must cultivate more circles, and secondly, you must have your own interests and hobbies, many people like to play chess, like to travel, like sports, no matter which one cultivates one, you can also pass the time in the future, and finally you must be financially independent, the premise of anything is the economic foundation, so you must have a certain amount of savings to prepare for the future.

Be sure to treat your partner and children well when you are clear, because if you were not good to them when you were young, they will not want to deal with you when you are old, and you must prepare yourself in advance for a way out, in case you don't go down to a nursing home.