How can I give up loving someone???

Updated on psychology 2024-03-15
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Since you think of giving up, it means that your love has not been interacted with enough It is that he has not given you encouragement, in fact, it doesn't matter Love or not, life will go on well There is no panacea that can make you give up very simply without struggling, some words are suitable for rotting in the heart; Some pains need to be digested by oneself Only by digesting these struggles can we truly get out of that mental path

    Come out and you grow

    You don't need to say it yourself, others will see it

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you love him and she can make him happy, then you love him and her. If you don't love him and you can make him happy, then you give up.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Even though you don't have a bounty for your question, I will, because your problem is similar to what I encountered, and if you love him, I wish him happiness! Of course, there is a saying that says, people are not for themselves, and the heavens and the earth will be destroyed, it depends on how you understand such words, and have the courage to give up, because giving up is also a kind of harvest, otherwise how can someone not think of the word love? Friend, I've experienced it too, so I want to open some!

    Then you will be happy, too!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then hate him to the core.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When your heart falls to the bottom, the tears you shed are called despair, and the determination you make is called giving up.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Those who give up love for love are more loving, and those who give up love for love are more affectionate! ”

    Thinking about this sentence may make you feel comforted!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There is a kind of love called renunciation.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Have you ever loved someone very persistently, I can't count how many times I think of him a day, I can't count how many tears have been shed for him, and I can't remember how many times I was sad because of him, in this relationship where the pay is far greater than the return, you think that the sincerity can move him, in fact, you are infatuated, unrequited love, a worthless fool, everyone wakes up and you are drunk, you are not great in the eyes of others, you are just ridiculous, this time I really want to leave you, I really want to give up on you, I don't know how long I've secretly loved you without telling everyone, it seems that we have never taken a good photo together, there is nothing to leave to commemorate, it seems that there are not many things to give each other away, there are too few things to commemorate between us, just like your feelings for me are deep and shallow, shallow and shallow, and I have never been able to put you down after so long.

    I'll still sneak a look at you through the software.,It's still a picture of you and her in the dream.,I used to think that as long as I insisted on you'd come back.,Everything has a result.,But the feelings are not proportional.,In fact, the sweet words of the chat after the separation always feel that sometimes you are very good to me again.,I always feel that we can still be together again.,But I never figured out your mind.,We deleted each other.,Add and delete.,Over and over again many times In fact, I understand that you are just bored and think of me., But even so, I don't want to miss any opportunity to get along with you, some people say that desperate love is only a thorn, I think I gave you the love of my life, but I'm still sorry, I haven't been able to do what you like, and I'm sorry I haven't been able to go to the end with you, you have never felt sorry for me for so long, just come here for your liking, take care of yourself, I hope you are all right, tell me when you get married, I want to see you become a groom and marry the girl you want to live with her for the rest of your life, drink a few glasses of wine to wash away the sadness. aqui te amo。

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    1.Accept the reality: Acknowledge that your relationship is over and accept the reality. Understanding that good memories of the past don't change the present.

    2.Focus on yourself: Shift your focus to yourself and focus on your needs and feelings. Focus on personal growth and development to enhance your own value.

    4.Establish a new order of life and feasting: Try to change the habits and rules of daily life and establish a new order of life. For example, participate in a new activity, make new friends, or try a new hobby.

    5.Seek support: Share your feelings with friends and family and seek support and advice from their older partners. At the same time, you can also consider seeking the help of a professional psychological counselor to help you better cope with the emotional distress caused by the breakup.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hello, it is very difficult to give up a person who loves very much, but there are always people who can't help themselves in the face of love, because of various external factors to give up the person they like very much, which is regrettable and difficult to accept.

    But in reality, it exists.

    First of all, because of the opposition of their parents, they give up the people they love very much, and this proportion accounts for the majority, and many people like each other and have good feelings. But because of the obstruction of their parents, there is no way to be together.

    The obstruction of the parents may be due to various reasons such as the dissatisfaction of the parents themselves, the dissatisfaction with the other family, the belief that the relationship is not equal, and so on. The insistence of the parents made it difficult for the two of them to continue, and it was especially difficult to go to the end, so in the end they had to give up the relationship.

    There are also people who give up the person they love very much, because they are not capable enough to bring the other party the happiness they deserve, so in order for the other party not to suffer bumps with themselves, not to suffer with themselves, and not to let the other party also experience incomparable sadness, so they can only make up their minds to give up.

    This is a consideration made from the standpoint of a lover to open up to the other person. I don't want the other party to be so poor and difficult in life, so as to give up my love, so that the other party can have new opportunities, find new life and feelings, and live a rich life. People like Wu Zi Suishi mostly happen to boys, many boys do not have a successful career, they can only give up when facing reality.

    There are also many forced separations due to unavoidable health problems and no future, whether in reality or in film and television works, a person has no future because of an incurable disease, and proposes to break up in order to implicate and delay the other party, and even more will make up white lies in order to make the other party go simply, all the sadness and bitter consequences are borne by themselves, such difficulties can be seen, but it is indeed not uncommon in life.

    But no matter what the reason is, I gave up my lover, as long as I am worthy of my own dedication and conscience, it is enough.

    Good luck book Yui.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I don't know why I broke up, but in the face of such a situation, I feel that there are only two ways to go.

    1. Since you are still in love, you are brave to be together

    In love, we will always encounter all kinds of resistance. In the face of resistance from all sides, whether to stick together or compromise for the sake of resistance. If you truly love each other, then choose to continue to be together.

    Lin and Xiaowen are such a couple, they have been together since college, they like each other very much, and as time goes by, they feel that each other is an indispensable part of their lives. However, after graduating from college, Lin will return to his hometown, and Xiaowen will stay in the provincial capital. After experiencing a painful half a year, Xiaowen resolutely went to Lin's hometown.

    Because Xiaowen said: "Except for him, I may not find the one who loves me more than him." Therefore, Xiaowen still chose to be together.

    2. Since you let go, start over

    Juanzi is a straightforward girl, vigorous and resolute. At work, I met Liang, who was the same age as myself, and we were together for a few years, and we loved passionately and were very happy. When two people struggle together, various reasons in both families have to separate the two people.

    When family affection and love are put together, it seems that many people can't weigh them. After being confused and decadent, Juanzi changed jobs and started over. She does not sink into the whirlpool of love, she walks alone on the road, and her steps are more and more steady.

    There is still a long way to go, and since you can't let go, you choose to be together again. If you really can't hold hands anymore, then give yourself a vacation, go out for a walk, and find the freedom of the mind. Bring a book of your choice, give your soul a baptism during the journey, and believe that you will have a new choice.

    Anyway, I wish you all the best!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There is a kind of love called renunciation.

    When you no longer love me, when loving you has become a burden to you, when loving each other has become a pain, then I choose to give up.

    I gave up on you because I loved you.

    Because I love you, I don't want to see you unhappy; Because I love you, I don't want to watch you endure your inner struggle; Because I love you, I don't want to see your reluctant smile; Because I love you, I am willing to let you go.

    When love is a thing of the past, why bother to pursue it? Forcing you can't get happiness, forcing can only widen the rift between you and me, and can only aggravate the pain of you and me. If you really want to leave, I have no choice but to let you go.

    I used to think you were a kite, I held that string in my hand, and no matter where you fly, I will ultimately be your belonging. Now I finally understand that in fact, if I love you, I shouldn't bind you.

    I don't want you to see my tears, because you will be soft-hearted, but you will not be happy. Because I love you, I won't force it with tears, so I let you go. Your heart is gone, why should I leave your body?

    Although I aspire to "last forever", if this is just a luxury, then I might as well just ask for "once had". Once had your love, that's enough.

    Because there is a kind of love called renunciation.

    Giving up is not selfless giving. Giving up on you is not only a love for you, but also a care for myself. I will be sad to give up on you, but I will not regret it.

    You are made to disappear from my life because "long pain is better than short pain". When I'm old and dying, I still don't regret it.

    Because I once loved you.

    Because I love you, I want you to be happy.

    Some people say that there will be no eternal love in this world. Between you and me, if even short-term love can't exist, it's better to let go of each other.

    When you want to leave, please leave me alone, you just tell me that you don't love me anymore and you have to go. I will let you go, and I will not beg you to stay, even if I hear the sound of my own heart breaking.

    When you're gone, don't look back. Turning back is a mistake, and turning back is an injustice to you and me. Go, please don't regret it.

    Because I love you, I should let you go.

    I know that there is a kind of love called giving up, and that is the deepest love for you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Pick up your phone and be afraid of missing a message.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's really simple to give up someone you love very much.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's hard to fall in love, and it's even harder to give up. You don't need a reason to love someone. I just want you to be happy, don't force anything, if you just give up,。。 He's going to be very sad.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you don't.

    Bai loves someone, so let it go, so that Du

    Others love him, if the person you love doesn't love you, just let go of yourself, let yourself have the opportunity to love others, some things you like no matter how much you like them will not belong to you, some things you are nostalgic and destined to give up, there are many kinds of love in life, but don't let love become a kind of harm, some fate is destined to lose, some fate is destined not to have good results, love a person does not have to have, but to have a person must be cherished. I wish you happiness!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Give up someone you love very much. It's painful at first, but if you leave it to time, you will forget it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's very simple to give up a copy of a loved one. Shift the center of gravity, this is a very simple way, in fact, it is to spend all your energy elsewhere, don't let yourself have time to think about him or her, and you can also try to contact other people, because you like someone because you want to be with him, just because you are lonely, as long as you are not lonely and lonely, you will not think of him for no reason.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If bai love is can be given up du

    That's not love! He easily gave up on you, saying that he didn't love you very much! Return.

    Deep love, will be answered for love and let go, there is a drop. That's because of the reason I had to give up! And how can you casually talk about a breakup? If you love it, why say it so easily? Some love, destined to be missed, will never come again.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You think you don't love her anymore, it's not the same in recklessness, if you don't love her, you should give up on her, what's the use of being reckless to love someone you don't love.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You've been together for so long, to be honest, it's hard to forget, you can only slowly forget it with time.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you love her, you don't.

    Give up, if you give up on her unless she has a good belonging, you give up, you see her and get the happiness of self-containment, you will feel satisfied, you only have lonely thoughts until old death, I don't advocate this, people and animals are different, people have feelings, all ideals and goals, you must stick to the end, insist on insisting on only your own efforts will not regret, there will be no giving up do not give up, come on I support you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's not easy to forget a person, do you really want to forget someone, do you want you to think about it.

    Well, if you really make up your mind to forget a person, you have to be subjective, you must not think about him anymore, you don't have to deliberately remind yourself, just put your mind down and think about other things, go to play, talk to others, it's best not to listen to **, which will bring back memories, don't do what you have done together. I'm experienced, I can play with other people, have fun, everything will be fine, I hope you are happy.

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