If you want to know whether a person is mature or not, what kind of performance do you need to look

If you want to know whether a person is mature or not, you can first see whether he is mature from his speech, mature people generally do not say some too childish words, and in the process of interacting with people, you can also see whether a person is mature.

See if he can control his emotions in the face of things, don't be affected by emotions, and see if he can treat people or things in a measured way and treat them calmly.

Whether you can control your emotions, whether you will be thoughtful in doing things, and whether you are hot in three minutes are all criteria for measuring whether a person is mature or not.

One: Calm. (1) Don't show your emotions casually.

2) Don't tell people about your difficulties and experiences.

3) Think for yourself before asking for someone else's opinion, but don't talk about it first.

4) Don't nag your grievances at every opportunity.

5) Try to discuss important decisions with others, and it is best to release them every other day.

6) Don't be flustered when you speak, even when you walk.

Two: Careful. (1) Always think about the cause and effect of what is happening around you.

2) For the implementation problems that are not in place, we must explore the root cause of them.

3) Suggestions for improvement or optimization of the accustomed way of doing things.

4) Develop the habit of being methodical and orderly in everything you do.

5) Always go to a few faults or drawbacks that others can't see.

6) You should make up for the deficiencies anytime and anywhere.

Three: Courage. (1) Don't often use words and phrases that lack self-confidence.

2) Don't always go back on what you have already decided.

3) Don't be unassertive when people are arguing.

4) When the overall atmosphere is low, you should be optimistic and sunny.

5) Be mindful in everything you do because someone is watching you.

6) When things don't go well, take a breath and find a breakthrough again, and end cleanly.

Four: generosity. (1) Don't deliberately turn people who may be partners into opponents.

2) Don't take other people's small mistakes and mistakes seriously.

3) Be generous in money and learn the three charities (wealth giving, dharma giving, and fearless giving) (4) Do not have the arrogance of power and the prejudice of knowledge.

5) Any achievements and achievements should be shared with others.

6) Someone has to sacrifice or dedicate themselves when they go ahead.

Five: integrity. (1) Don't say what you can't do, try to do it.

2) Don't talk about false slogans or slogans.

3) In response to the "dishonesty" problems raised by customers, come up with ways to improve.

4) Stop all "immoral" means.

5) Trick yourself up, or not!

6) Calculate the integrity cost of the product or service, that is, the brand cost.

Six: Responsibility. (1) When reviewing any mistakes, start with yourself or others.

2) After the matter is completed, the fault will be reviewed first, and then the credit will be listed.

3) Acknowledging mistakes starts from the superiors, and the performance starts from the subordinates.

4) Embark on a plan with clear definitions of rights and responsibilities and appropriate allocation.

5) Be clear about people or organizations who are "afraid of things".

Just look at his speech and demeanor.

Hello. It is said that mature people must have these points, one, two, three, four....Everyone's writing standards are different, such as:

More and more able to control their emotions.

I know more and more about getting along with myself.

More and more accepting of the changes and impermanence of the world.

If understood in this way, the mature understanding will fall into the details, endlessly, and easily appear one-sided.

The encyclopedia's definition of maturity goes like this:

Maturity refers to the whole process in which an individual develops at different speeds and forms physiologically and psychologically, and goes through several stages to reach a state of completeness. Maturity refers to the change of people's thinking and concepts, from naivety to a higher level, and the perception of things and things is more rational, and this process is often accompanied by changes in the surrounding environment, including the influence of other people.

From this definition, maturity refers to the improvement of one's thinking and becoming more rational. When we say that a person is mature, we mean that a person has a rational mind. So how do you generate a rational mind?

There is also a saying in the Bible about maturity:

Rom 5:3-5 Not only that, but also rejoicing in tribulation. For we know that affliction produces patience, and patience produces sophistication, and sophistication begets hope, and hope is not to shame; For the Holy Spirit who has been given to us has poured out the love of God in our hearts.

Sophisticated here means mature, and his original Greek word refers to a tempered personality. According to the biblical understanding, a person must endure in the midst of afflictions in order to become mature. The purpose of maturity is to gain hope, that is, reliable assurance of the future, not unfounded illusions.

Therefore, a mature person is one who has a tempered personality and who has a reliable and assured hope for the future.

According to this understanding, when Sun Yang said "you loser, i win" to his opponent Houghton, when Sun Yang received the ruling of the Court of Arbitration for Sport, he sent "shocked, angry, incomprehensible!" We feel that such words are not what a person with a tempered personality would say. A person with a well-honed personality must be a person who respects people, not tramples on the feelings of others, even if he is your competitor; It must be a person who can rationally express his feelings and wishes, not someone who cannot control his emotions.

A person with a tempered personality should be a person who has true wisdom in life and understands the value and meaning of life.

In fact, why Li Na and Yao Ming are considered mature people may be because their personalities are recognized. And I believe that such a personality can only be produced after a difficult tempering. Their experiences of growing up in life may give us some inspiration.

We don't deliberately look for afflictions, but if we fall into tribulations, we should rejoice and actively seize such opportunities to hone our personality and make it our wealth, and finally make ourselves more and more mature.

Hope mine is helpful to you and thank you