How did you communicate with Dabao when you wanted a second child?

Discuss with Dabao in advance before pregnancy. If you are going to ask for Erbao, you should formally ask Dabao what he thinks, such as: Baby, do you want to have a little brother or sister?

I can play with you. I want to tell him that even if he has younger siblings, his parents still love Dabao 100 percent, and that one more person will love him in the future, that is, his younger brothers and sisters.

When you want a second child, tell Dabao if you want to have more brothers or sisters, play with you, will a person be very boring and lonely, and then enlighten him in this way to make him feel that having a companion is the best choice.

First of all, call Dabao to his side, tell him that his mother thinks it is too hard for you to take care of your parents in the future, and other children also have younger siblings to play with them, and ask him if you want a younger sibling?

When I wanted a second child, I told Dabao in advance and told him that he was about to have a little friend, but the love of my parents was the same as before.

Just talk to him directly, because children actually understand, he understands everything, as long as you communicate with him well, he will understand you and let him know your sincerity.

I think I can communicate with Dabao in a friend's way, tell him, find him a friend, so that he can accept it quickly.

When I put my baby to bed before going to bed, I will slowly talk to him day by day until he can accept it.

My Dabao is a boy, so I will ask him directly if he wants a sister, and if he says no, I will build a beautiful picture of him with a sister.

I would first ask them if they would like to have a brother or sister, and if the answer was good, then it would be easy, and if they didn't want it, I would give them psychological construction.

I don't know how to communicate with Dabao, I think in this rhythm of modern life. Having two children is a normal phenomenon, and there is no need to fight for the opinion of who

I would tell the family directly that there would be a new member and hope that he would be able to live peacefully with the new little one.

Tell Dabao that Xiaobao came out to love Dabao with one more Zaotong and give Dabao a sense of security. Of course, parents also have to do this, especially don't tell Dabao Zheng Cover, Xiaobao is still young, you let him order, so that he will feel that his parents' love has been separated.

You can tell the baby truthfully, or tell the baby to give birth to a younger brother, and the younger sister will play with you, so that you will not be lonely.

You can ask your baby's opinion first, if you agree, it's best, if you don't agree, then you have to ask your child why he disagrees, and then slowly groom.

I will not prevent my parents from having a second child.

Many people like children very much, because children do bring a lot of joy to life, so some people want to have a second child, but they are afraid that life will develop in a bad direction after giving birth to a second child, everything has a good side and a bad side, including having a second child, after the second child policy came out, many families have been thinking about whether to have a second child, whether it is good to have a second child, will Dabao reject it? How do you tell Dabao?

How to communicate with Dabao when giving birth to a second child.

1. Discuss with Dabao in advance before pregnancy. If you are going to ask for Erbao, you should formally ask the idea of Dabao matching, such as: Baby, do you want to have a small hole to sell the bridge brother and sister?

I can play with you. I want to tell him that even if he has younger siblings, his parents still love Dabao 100 percent, and that one more person will love him in the future, that is, his younger brothers and sisters.

2. Dabao is included throughout pregnancy. From the beginning of pregnancy, my mother had to include Dabao, telling Dabao that although she had no choice to be the boss, it was a very proud thing, and congratulated him on becoming an older brother or sister. You can also have more contact with other children when you go out to play, tell her that someone will play with her in the future, and so on.

Let Dabao feel the changes in her mother's body, tell her that her mother was like this when she was pregnant with you, her belly became bigger a little bit, the fetus moved, she took Dabao to do ultrasound, greeted the baby in her belly, spoke, or took Dabao to take a set of pregnant family photos, etc., are all very good methods.

3. Get close to Dabao. When a big mother is holding a big baby, especially in the late stage of pregnancy, she will feel powerless and feel so heavy. At this time, don't use this as a reason to refuse to hug Dabao, on the contrary, you should happily agree to Dabao's request, but change your posture, sit and hug, or your husband can help you hand it over.

Mr. was also actively involved at this time, and when everyone played with Dabao, her attention was diverted, and she forgot about what she wanted to hold after a while.

Recently, a younger brother went to pick up his sister from school, and his younger brother is usually very clingy to his sister at home, and if my sister goes to school, she will keep asking her mother why her sister hasn't come back. On this day, my mother was annoyed by my brother's question, so she decided to take my brother to pick up my sister from school, and my brother was very happy.

After the younger brother saw his sister, he ran to his sister's side, and immediately hugged his sister, and his sister also hugged his younger brother, full of happiness spontaneously, my sister smiled happily, and the scene was very warm in an instant.

The interaction between the two sisters and brothers makes many mothers with a second child very envious, and the most difficult thing in the second-child family is to deal with the relationship between Dabao and Erbao, therefore, many young parents are very hesitant to have a second child, afraid that Dabao will be unhappy and reject Erbao. However, having one more child is also one more companionship and less loneliness for Dabao, making it easier for Dabao to know how to share, help each other and take responsibility on the road to growth.

Educational methods for second-born children:

Because of the difference in age or gender, Dabao and Erbao have different needs for love. For example, Erbao may only need to take care of life because of his young age, while Dabao needs the wholehearted spiritual companionship of his parents because of his age. Therefore, parents should take as much time as possible to accompany Dabao to do what he is willing to do.

Every child is an angel and has its own advantages and disadvantages, but parents must not compare the two children together, such as praising the two treasures in front of the big treasure and exaggerating the treasure in front of the two treasures, which will not play any educational role, but can only hit the two children, and will make them have gaps between each other, and even dislike each other.

The right way to do this is to emphasize the power of cooperation between children through cooperative play, and help children realize that unity can create more possibilities and make life more interesting.

is also like when you only had Dabao before, you care about Dabao, and you can't neglect the communication with Dabao just because you are busy with Erbao, so that Dabao will not feel uncomfortable with your friendship.

Two treasures of the Great Treasure.

If you are going to have a second child, then you should learn to communicate with your baby at this time, because the baby has no sense of security at this time, so you must not hide it from your child. We can calm our minds, and we can also guide our children appropriately at this time, and we must not let children feel insecure.

These issues need to attract everyone's attention, because we also hope that the child can accept the opinions of the parents, and also hope that the child can accept the existence of a second child, so we should also communicate with our own baby, and we must treat the baby as an adult. We must not hide our children, otherwise children are also prone to some emotional problems, these problems are necessary to attract our attention, so we should also learn to guide in life, and at this time we must put aside their lack of mentality, we must tell their babies clearly, and you can also talk to your baby about the benefits of having a second child.

Some parents in real life may feel that these children are too young, so they feel that they don't need to tell their children, but this child will also have their own thoughts, and we must not treat these children as a thoughtless person, so we must not hide our children. In this way, your child can become more secure, if the child is insecure, at this time the child will not be able to accept the existence of the two treasures.

We must learn to communicate with our children, and we must provide a good environment for our children to grow up in life. A sense of security is a very important thing, so we should not ignore the emotions of the child, and we should also care more about the child in our lives.

Parents can first test Dabao's anti-Li Liying on this matter, and also disturb the bird to tell Dabao's parents that their love for him will not decrease, accompany Dabao more, take Dabao more to contact families with second children, and let Dabao adapt to this kind of sail early life in advance.

At this time, you should communicate with Dabao well, and you can tell your child that even if you have two treasures, your parents will cultivate and love you, and you can play with you after you have two treasures.

You have to tell your baby that Mom and Dad's love for him will not decrease, but will increase, and he will also have a friend and a playmate.

You have to tell Dabao that he will soon have a younger brother or sister, but his parents' love for him will not be less.

You can tell Dabao that there will be a younger brother and sister with you in the future, and you will have someone to play with you, and your parents will not be good to you after having younger brothers and sisters.

You can promise Dabao that after giving birth to a second child, you will never favor anyone and will maintain balance.