If the first child is a girl, how do you deal with the second child or a girl, and what is it like?

Today, I saw a mother asking for help on the forum, saying that she gave birth to a daughter in one child, and now she is pregnant with a second child, and she feels that she is still a daughter, and her family wants a son, what should I do? Many people replied below, all of them advised this mother to have a good baby, whether it is a daughter or a son, they are their own children, there is no need to be so careful, and don't give up this child, because TA is a life. So, mothers, how did you feel when your eldest baby gave birth to a daughter and learned that the second child was a daughter?

Su Xiaomu: My firstborn daughter, and now I am still a daughter in my belly, more than six months, I think it's very good. Giving birth to children and daughters are all their own, and I like daughters, my eldest treasure is nine years old, considerate and sensible, good grades, cute don't want it, I hope my second treasure is also like her sister.

Rape flower: The two daughters are very good, my eldest daughter, the second treasure is in the belly for almost five months, I don't know the gender, and I don't care. Because I don't mean that I have to have a son, sons and daughters are providential, as long as they are healthy, the two children can be companions.

Slowly happy: Two daughters, it's a bit of a pity that I didn't have both children, but the children were born when I was pregnant in October, so no matter what her gender is, what others think and say, I will raise my children well, both of them are my treasures.

Mo asked: My 89-year-old, 90-year-old wife, the first-born daughter is now five years old, and the second child has a pair of twin daughters, and our whole family is happy. To be honest, according to the price of goods in the current society, if I have a son, I will feel a lot of pressure, people are not long in this life, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, as long as they can live well.

No: My first-born girl is more than four years old, and my second child is now 32 weeks old, and I haven't seen both men and women, because although I want to have both children and daughters, I will never have an abortion just because I am a girl. And several children are destined by God, in order to have a son who has had many miscarriages, he neither cherishes his body nor respects himself.

To be a man, you have to think for yourself, you are your own children, don't compete.

Whoop: My daughter is blessed and blessed, my two daughters are very good, and now many people can't have children, even if they spend money, they can't give birth to a daughter, and my mother should cherish her daughter as a woman. And B ultrasound is not 100% accurate, maybe women turn men.

My brother-in-law's second child B ultrasound was done three times, all of them were boys, and she was born a little daughter, she was very surprised, so just let it be.

Dreams: The two daughters are very happy, my mother has two daughters, and the two sons-in-law are so good to her, I am jealous when I look at it! I don't have a daughter, a son, and I will have to take care of my daughter-in-law and grandchildren in the future, and I feel tired when I think about it, so I earn more money now and hire a nanny for my daughter-in-law in the future!

In fact, whether it is a son or a daughter, as long as it is their own child, parents should treat it equally, and life is short for decades, and they should not seek trouble.

I don't feel anything, whether boys and girls are their own treasures, don't be misled by traditional ideas, all of them are gifts from God.

Cherish the gift God gave you, how nice a girl is, it is an intimate little padded jacket, you will live a very relaxed and happy life in the future.

I think two girls are better. Maybe many in-laws have that kind of feudal thinking and want a grandchild, and then the people next to them will also have some sarcastic words, I think being a person is done for yourself.

With the conditions of the family planning policy, the one-child policy in the past has been adjusted, which we call the two-child policy. However, the two-child policy we are implementing now is a conditional two-child policy, and many people are consulting about the spirit. Can a girl have a second child if the first child is born?

Can a girl have a second child if the first child is According to China's family planning, couples who meet one of the following conditions can have another child upon approval

1. Both parties are only children and have given birth to one child.

2. Both parties are rural residents (agricultural population, the same below) and have given birth to a girl, except where one party is an employee of an organ, group, public institution or other organization, or one party has been engaged in industry and commerce for more than one year, and both parties have established labor relations with the enterprise for more than one year.

3. Both parties are rural residents, and one party is an only child for two generations or more, and has given birth to one child.

4. Both parties are rural residents, and the woman's parents have only given birth to one or two daughters, and the man has settled in the woman's house and supported the woman's parents, and has given birth to one child (only applicable to one of the sisters).

5. Both parties are ethnic minorities and have given birth to one child.

6. Both parties are rural residents, and one party is an ethnic minority and has more than two generations of household registration in the province and has given birth to one child.

7. One party is the only child of a martyr and has already given birth to one child.

8. One party has never given birth, and the other party has given birth to a child before remarriage.

9. One party has never given birth, and the other party is widowed before remarriage and has given birth to two children.

10. Those who have already given birth to a child and have been diagnosed with a non-hereditary disability by an appraisal institution for sick and disabled children at or above a districted city and cannot grow into a normal labor force.

11. One party has been engaged in underground operations in the mine for more than five consecutive years, has given birth to a girl, and continues to engage in underground operations.

Under the premise of not breaking the population and family planning indicators, the provincial family planning administrative department shall formulate specific measures for the birth of other special circumstances, and implement them after submitting them to the provincial people for approval.

Procedures for the birth of a second child Couples who apply to have a second child must be at least 25 years old if the woman is the first child. The woman must be at least 30 years old in order to give birth to another child, and the child must be supported by the other party. Before pregnancy, you should take the application materials to the township (town) people** or sub-district office where the woman's household registration is located to apply for the "Second Child Birth Certificate".

Application materials. 1. Application for the birth of a second child.

2. The original ID card and household registration book of both husband and wife.

3. Original marriage certificate (divorce certificate must be held for remarriage).

4. Birth certificate issued by the unit or village (resident) committee of both parties.

5. If a child has been adopted, a certificate of adoption issued by the civil affairs department.

6. Proof of one of the special circumstances stipulated in the "Shandong Provincial Population and Family Planning Regulations".