Why don t I be in a relationship for more than four months at a time?

Love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect its fulfillment, but we can make it true...

Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, love has long become fast food, not for eternity, but for what once had... What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money ...

At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers...

When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it ... To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy.

If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you? Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world.

The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you silently bless him, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him. Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy.

It's not wrong to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person

First of all, you have to grasp the opportunity, you have to cherish it, you can't be negligent about love, you will lose each other if you are careless.

The reason why two couples get married after four months of falling in love, I personally think that the two people have established a deep relationship in these four months, thinking that each other is a person who can entrust themselves for life, of course, in addition to this factor, it may be that the two people are relatively old, and the family hopes that they can start a family as soon as possible, and in the process of getting along, they feel that each other's conditions are good in all aspects, and the two people are generally suitable, so they will get married soon.

It is also normal to get married after a few months of falling in love. If it's love at first sight, there's no length of time at all.

The so-called love is about fate. So it doesn't matter how long you get married and how long you fall in love. As long as one is willing to take one and the other is willing to marry, it is good for the two to be happy.

In reality, four months is not a very short time.

If a man and a woman are in love for 4 months, as long as it is not a long-distance relationship, in reality, there are people who have already entered the marriage hall. Even if you don't enter the marriage hall, you are at least in love.

Love to the depths, 4 months of love means that you, two people know each other about the same, and maybe they are very old, so I think about getting married immediately, in fact, many times two people hate to see each other late, and it is normal to have this kind of feeling.

Four months in love isn't really long. It can only be regarded as the first stage of the love period, the ignorance period.

I divide the relationship into several stages to be specific:

The first stage is the period of ignorance.

At this time, they don't know each other very well, and each of them will show their best and best side. It is also a stage of continuous exploration of each other. The time varies from the beginning to about three months.

The second stage is the period of passionate love.

This time is the most high-rise period, vows and alliances, sweet words. will be presented in a concentrated manner during this period. For example, "If you don't marry, if you don't marry, I can't live without you, and meeting you is the luckiest thing in my life" and so on.

That is, this stage is the most likely to act irrationally. So keeping a clear head is good for both parties. This period is also long and short, and the short one is more than three months.

The third stage is the stabilization period.

It is also a decision period. That is, it gradually entered a dull state. Parents are short, firewood, rice, oil and salt.

The trivial things of daily life will come to the fore. Because this period tends to be stable, whether we can take the road well in the future is very crucial. Of course, there will be some special parties, such as love at first sight, and directly enter the period of passionate love.

And a couple I know, who didn't have any run-ins in front of this. I got married not long after we met, and now I'm doing well. So it can't be generalized, of course, the development of many things will have certain laws.

Uh··· There are two possibilities that are either a little tired or sweet as honey, depending on who the person is, the slow heat type is sweet as honey, and the other fast heat type may have started to get tired of it...

Chasing, seeking, determining, knotting, leaving. What do you say?

I don't know if I love it or not!

There is no deep understanding of a stage in the past of a person's heart!

Summary. Every time you fall in love for no more than a month, it means that you are still very young and your personality is not very stable, that is, I don't have a long relationship with others.

Every time you fall in love for no more than a month, it means that you are still very young and your personality is not very stable, that is, I don't have a long relationship with others.

Then you have to improve your patience, to see if you have some deficiencies in any of your aspects, or that your temper is a little irritable and easy to get angry, it is possible.

Another point is that you didn't find the right person who was with you. It shows that your fate is still not enough.

Hello friend, can you tell us what kind of personality you are?

Hello, can this friend elaborate on the reason why you have been in a relationship for no more than a month at a time? Then the teacher will help you analyze the analysis.

I talk about a year or more, and after I break up with him, I will talk about each one for no more than two months, most of them are one month, and it was okay to be together at the beginning, but after getting along for a long time, a certain move he did would disgust me, and then I couldn't suppress myself, and finally broke up.

Hello, this friend, what kind of psychological problems does that mean that you have a psychological problem? Have you ever been to a psychiatrist?

My personality is more irritable, and then I'm more introverted and don't talk much.

Then you have to change yourself, you have to open yourself, so if you have a more irritable personality, then you must learn to be softer. Introverts tend to have a good temper, but you're the opposite.

If you fall in love, you have to be more tolerant and understanding, you have to run in a lot, and then you have to communicate with each other in time if you have any ideas, so that you can understand each other.

After several times of falling in love, then you should know what you are lacking in, how to improve yourself, and the next time you fall in love, you can avoid such the same mistakes.

Beauty, can you reveal your age? Is it going to school or working?

I can't say it, there's a problem, I really want to communicate, but every time I don't know how to speak, I just put it like this, 20, at work.

Then you'd better get a boyfriend online and exercise first.

When you have nothing to do, you can participate in some physical activities, such as square dancing or fitness or something, so that you can make a lot of friends, and if you have more friends, then you can change your personality and make you more outgoing.

I'd love to talk about it, but my brain doesn't allow it, square dancing, are you serious.

Hello beauty, there is something that the brain does not allow, so don't be in a hurry to fall in love.

If you have more contact with people, then your personality will become better and you will not be so impatient.

In short, going out for a little exercise will make your mood more pleasant.

If you are in a good mood, then you will be very happy when you interact with others, and you will not quarrel.

It's fake, huh.

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