What do you think about asking for others rather than relying on yourself?

Updated on society 2024-03-18
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This sentence is good, but it is incomplete, I think it is better to ask for others than to seek oneself is not the same as never asking for others, there is a question of priority and attitude. First of all, rely on yourself, do your best to struggle, if you encounter difficulties that cannot be solved, you can also humbly ask for others. It is not the same as fighting alone, and the conceit of not asking for anything is high.

    The second is to learn to ask for others, but not to rely on, not to sit back and think about other people's ready-made, and to pay for it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    For positive, independent people, he will try to use his own ability to solve in life, and will not always hope for the help of others, if with such an independent thought, these people tend to have a stronger ability to do things, try their best to find a way to solve everything, and do not want to trouble others. For these people, "it is better to ask for others than to ask for yourself" is their life creed, and for them, this sentence is very pertinent.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I try to do that in my life. Unless it is a moment of necessity, I will be shy to ask for someone! The last time the society was asking, "What's the hardest?"

    It's hard to make money, it's hard to ask for people." It's so hard to ask for someone! Holding things, answering shyly, low-minded, grinding and chirping, spitting and spitting, embarrassed to the extreme.

    It's easy, if it's not done, I'm sad to the bottom. That's why I'm so scared to ask for help. I'm a little tired and tired, it's nothing, and it's over as soon as I stand up.

    Usually save a little, and try to face the difficulties yourself when you encounter them, solve them yourself, and reduce embarrassment.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This sentence is good, it is better to ask for others than for yourself. As long as you have the courage to explore, ask if you don't understand, explore more, and believe that you will be able to do it, there is nothing that you can't pass.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't think this sentence is right, it is better to ask for others than to ask for yourself, this sentence should not always put him on your lips, some things can be completed independently, and some things must be completed with the help of the team, and there is no shame.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You always have to live on your own. The ups and downs of life, the difficulties of getting lost, where to take shelter from the rain, when to cross, if you want to be truly liberated, you can only rely on yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I remember reading such a story: someone encountered difficulties, so he ran to the Guanyin temple, wanted to beg Guanyin for help, when he walked into the temple, he found Guanyin kneeling in front of his statue and bowing, this person then asked: "Why do you kneel in front of your own statue, do you also have something to ask for" Guanyin smiled and said:

    It is better to seek others than to seek yourself". Self is the internal cause, and praying to God is only the external cause. It is the internal factors that play a decisive role.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When you are in the dark and longing for someone to reach out, the indifference of those you have helped and loved ones is the beginning of your own doubts about humanity. I found that it is safest to rely on myself, and since then I have experienced what it means to ask for others rather than for myself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Everything, no matter how big or small, as long as you feel a little troublesome, you want to find someone to help, why don't you want to think of a way? It's safest to rely on yourself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because many times only you will be very attentive to your own affairs, so it is better to ask for others than yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It is better to seek others than to seek oneself, this sentence has been very philosophical since ancient times, and he said that it is a positive attitude towards the tribulations of life. This should also be the attitude we should adopt when we encounter difficult problems, difficulties are our own, the most anxious, the most anxious is also that we want to get out of the predicament, we must first work hard to rely on our own energy. When we say that it is better to seek others than ourselves, we should not pin the illusion of getting rid of difficulties and getting out of difficulties on others.

    The only one who can save himself is himself. The ancients said that those who help themselves are helped by God, which is also the truth. This sentence is said by the goldfish to exert subjective initiative, but this does not mean that others are inferior to themselves at any time and on any occasion, and everything needs to be solved independently, rather than asking others for help.

    In fact, many times it is better to seek oneself than to seek others, and the power of one person is limited. Where there is often strength, it is difficult to succeed alone in achieving a career by relying on one's own hard work. But we need the help and support of our friends, and that's conditional.

    Asking for help is first and foremost to get yourself moving.

    When you ask for help from others with the attitude of trying your best to win and succeed, others will be deeply moved when they see you fighting so hard. This is also an extended meaning of seeking others rather than seeking oneself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It is better to seek others than to seek yourself, and you can only be tough and confident by yourself.

    In the cold world, who do you rely on? Society is too complex for now. It's really cruel, people's hearts are difficult to figure out, only if they are strong can they stand on the world, and it is better to seek others than to seek themselves.

    It is difficult to reach the sky, and it is even more difficult to ask for people. It is better to seek others than yourself, and you will always be the most reliable. It is better to seek others than ourselves, and the only one who can really solve our worries is ourselves.

    It's hard to ask for others, it's easy to ask for yourself, don't ask for what you can carry, and don't make a noise if you can hold back. Ask others once, lower your status once, why lose your dignity and hurt your feelings.

    What is the hardest thing in this world? Asking for people is the most difficult, good words are exhausted, people may not help, and promises are made, but people may not help. In life, if you can solve it yourself, you will never ask for help. If others are embarrassed, you will be embarrassed yourself, and working hard to strengthen your own ability is the most important thing.

    The coolest thing is people's hearts, and people's hearts are far away. Relying on others is always uneasy, and relying on oneself is the most secure. If someone else can give you, you will be able to take it.

    Only one's own is one's own, one's own responsibility is supported by one's own efforts, and one's own burden is the most reassuring to shoulder one's own shoulders.

    It is better to seek others than yourself, relying on yourself is the king, and relying on yourself will never lose.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It is better to ask for oneself than to ask for others, it depends on how you understand it, after all, one's ability alone is limited, and you can help yourself achieve the desired goal through the ability of others, so it is better to ask for oneself than to ask for others.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    A person will inevitably encounter some problems in his work and life, and it is impossible for all of them to ask others to learn from others, which is also a process of improving themselves, so I think I might as well ask others for words, which will help you a lot.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Every time, when you don't have the ability or something, you will always be embarrassed to borrow someone else's, but you need it very much. At that time, I always felt that I had to have it myself! It is better to work hard than to ask others, after all, it is too much to use your own shortcomings!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When we encounter a problem, the first time is not to think about asking for help, but to find a way to solve it ourselves, and then seek help from others if we really can't do it.

    Sometimes we think that our relationship with others is okay, but every time we encounter difficulties, no one helps you.

    There is a saying that goes like this: "The attitude of others towards you mostly depends on your ability and strength." "When we are too weak, the probability of getting genuine help from others is very small.

    In the end, life is always done on your own, and no one can be the master of your life except yourself.

    A person's biggest backer is himself.

    No one will always rely on you, and you will not feel safe if you always rely on others. Children who don't have an umbrella must learn to run hard. In life, you will never lose by yourself.

    Everyone's road must be completed alone, by themselves, by their own efforts, not by whom. It is the duty of others to help you, but it is the duty not to help you; No one is obligated to be nice to you, and no one can help you all their lives.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This is indeed the case at work, you need to have a correct mentality, because everyone has their own tedious work to do, and many people nowadays only care about their own interests, I think it is better to learn and complete it yourself than to let others help, procrastinate, and owe others favors. However, in life, we need to ask for help more or less, and at this time it is a matter of our own mentality, and we can't veto it with one vote, but we must also be considerate of others.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There are some things that you can do, so don't bother others, and vice versa.

    In addition, why do you raise this question, isn't it to deal with the problems in life better and efficiently, so asking for others is also to help yourself solve the problems that can't be solved.

    If you want to deal with problems better, you need to learn to cooperate with others. In society, there will definitely be problems that you can't solve, and at this time, you beg yourself, which will only make things worse.

    Therefore, it is necessary to choose whether to seek oneself or others for specific things. Respect reality.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Why should I ask people for things that I can do myself, I don't advocate asking people in this regard, and I keep my voice down. If there is no way, then you can only beg for help, do you want to starve yourself.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Shouldn't it be better to ask for others than for yourself? If you always owe favors to others for help, it is better to solve it yourself, and if you can't solve it, ask for help from others.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Seeking oneself means that you don't want to do what you don't want to do.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The mountains will fall, and everyone will run. There is nothing in this world that can always rely on others, and relying on others will never have the effect of doing it yourself, so there is a saying called "It is better to seek others than to seek yourself, and it is better to rely on others than to rely on yourself".

    On the road of life, there are many difficulties, in the face of difficulties, we must silently bear everything, there are hardships to taste by ourselves, there are difficulties to flow by ourselves, don't think about asking for others, don't think about relying on others, it is better to ask for others than to rely on ourselves, relying on others is better than relying on ourselves, and finally, we have to face it ourselves.

    In fact, we are all the same, no one is easy, we all hope that someone can take the initiative to help us in the face of difficulties, but others can help, at most for a while, in the end, we still have to rely on ourselves, no one can become your eternal dependence, we only have ourselves to rely on.

    It is better to ask for whom than to ask for yourself, and it is better to rely on yourself than to rely on yourself, only you are the most reliable. Life is your own, you have to learn to rely on yourself, learn to think independently, and face things bravely.

    Life is your own, you have to rely on yourself to finish, no matter how hard it is, you must be strong, you must never retreat, there is no way back, you must face it positively, and be the master of your own life.

    In life, there will always be a part of the road that you need to go through alone, no one can help you, there are always some things that you need to face alone, and no one can fight for you. We are destined to be lonely travelers, destined to fight all alone.

    If a person always hopes that others will help him, and if others can't help him, he will be discouraged and disappointed, then such a person is destined to fail to become a great tool.

    In life, there is no brilliance to seek, only the wonder of one's own hard work. Therefore, it is better to seek others than to seek oneself, and it is better to rely on others than to rely on oneself, and oneself is one's own savior.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Rely on people. To rely on people is to seek people.

    Man is someone else, everyone other than himself.

    There must be expectations when asking for help. And expectations are always easy to live up.

    Not for anything else, but because of human nature - self-interest, seeking advantage and avoiding harm.

    To ask for someone is to borrow other people's resources directly from their relationship without giving anything practical.

    Once or twice, the relationship will be weakened. Even if you make up for it, you can't get it back to the same as before. Because once everything in the world is handed over, there will be loss.

    In addition, now people's hearts are not ancient, and the relationship is always broken. Profit is the eternal need of the individual. The premise of others helping you is to hurt yourself, and human nature is always self-interested, which is easy to form an imbalance in the hearts of others.

    In order not to be subjected to such psychological torture and the high risk of losing both money and human resources, the vast majority of people are increasingly inclined to protect themselves rather than to lend a helping hand.

    Therefore, asking for someone is like crossing a single-plank bridge. Acacia.

    Seek for yourself. Seeking oneself is seeking inwardly, and no two people in the world can figure out the emotions and souls, but their own hearts are the most consistent existence.

    You don't have to look forward to yourself, you just need to customize the most suitable struggle route for your own situation according to reality. Start-Persistence-Correction-Persistence-Correction-Virtuous Cycle-Success. Believe in yourself, rely on yourself, constantly adjust to the goal, and then supplement it with persistence time, nothing is difficult in the world.

    Relying on the mountains and mountains, relying on everyone to go; Relying on yourself, you can fight the heavens and the earth. said: Fighting with the sky and the earth, the fun is endless.

    The grass grows in autumn, and people live for a lifetime. Cover up the will and fight the heavens and the earth. Even if the heavens go against people's wishes, and there is nothing to be done in the end, it is worthy of standing on its own in the world.

    The road is long, and the road is long, and the first step is to move.

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